Nthawi zina muyenera kupuma, ngakhale ndizovuta
"Ngati mwana wanga sagona, amadumpha nthawi zonse, chifukwa chilichonse chimalira, kugwedezeka ndi kuwuma." Odziwa? Nachi chitsanzo cha momwe mayi wina amakopera ndi mphamvu ya Mwana wake.
Ndinkafuna kumukhazika. Koma kuwerenga "Harry Potter" usiku, womwe, popeza ndimayembekezera, kumuthandiza kugona, sikunagwire ntchito. Felix sanafune kukhala wokwanira. Adandionetsa bulu. "Mathalauza a Faya," ndidalira. Kenako anawopseza kuti: "Ngati simuleka kutsitsimula, simudzamvetsera mofatsa, sindidzawerenganso za Hermione?" - Ine, ine, pomwe mwana wamwamuna amali pansi pa bulangeti. "Goodli" - adamva kuyankha komweko.
Pomaliza, ndinakumbukira bukuli, pomwe mwana wanga amakoka bulangeti, akunamizira kukhala padziko lapansi. Mutu wake umazizira popanda kuyenda kwa sekondale, ndipo akufunsa - tsamba lina, chonde chonde. Ndikufuna chidule cha zomwe tangowerenga, ndipo Mwana amangonditcha kuti zosakaniza zonse zomwe zimasokonezeka. Chabwino, ine ndikutembenuzira tsambalo, ndipo mwanayo anagweranso pansi pa bulangeti. Osachepera mmodzi wa ife watopa.
Kusuntha ndi malingaliro kwa mwana wanga nthawi zonse kumapita limodzi.
Mwachitsanzo, chakudya ndi kuyenda kapena kuyenda ndi kumvetsera. Mphindi kokha pomwe iye salumpha, ndikuwonera "nyenyezi nyali" kapena ulendo wopita kugalimoto yokhala ndi lamba wapampando. Ngakhale manja atamaliza kulowa chala chake ndi chizolowezi pansi pa nthiti. Nthawi zonse tikadya, amakhala pampando theka lokha, phazi limodzi pansi, ndikukonzekera kuthyoka ndi mwayi woyamba ...
Mphaka Tinadutsa, Amafunikira mfuti yachangu kapena akuwonetsa kuti amadziwa momwe angachitire ndi zala zake. Felix nthawi zambiri amamenya pafupi ndi ziweto ndipo amandiuza kuti ndikakwane pansi pake, kuti izi zakhala zifukwa zonse zothandizira kukambirana.
Ngakhale ndimayang'ana mwa nkhawa za thupi langa kuti ndikhale wolimba, ndimayesetsa kuti ndisaiwale mitengo yabwino, ndikukhala pachifuwa mwakumapeto.
Phunzirani momwe mungachitire ngati mutayika dothi pansi pa mapazi anu - chachikulu komanso chofunikira, koma mu m'badwo uwu ndikovuta kulola ana kuti akhale pachiwopsezo. Ndimadalira nthawi zonse za izi, ngakhale zimakhala zovuta.
Tiyenera kusiya kuwunikirana nthawi zonse ndipo tiyenera kukumbutsidwa kuti kufooka kwanja ndi zotupa sizinthu zofanana nthawi zonse. Awa ndi changu chawo chopanda mantha - kulumpha, kufinya, kuthamanga - mosangalatsa, monga zakutchire. Tiyenera kuwapatsa ufulu wokhala wokangalika, kuwakhulupirira ndi zoopsa - zovomerezeka kwa thanzi ndi moyo.
Ndipo ndi ana athu zonse zikhala bwino.
Kukumbatira Felix, ndikuwoneratu kumenyedwa kwa chibwano. Ndipo ndimalota kuti ndipereke kuchokera ku izi zikuchitika nthawi yayitali. Mwayi wolowa m'mphuno kuchokera mwana wosadulidwa umatanthawuza chinthu chimodzi - mwana wamwamuna akufuna kukhala pafupi ndi ine.
Ndipo komabe ndikuvomereza, phwandolo panthawi ya Felike wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi wandibweretsera yekha. Mu kalabu ya masewera olimbitsa thupi inali ana khumi ndi limodzi. Chilichonse chinali chabwino panthawi yophunzitsira, koma theka la ola, lomwe lidatsata izi, ndi pizza ndi keke, zinkawoneka ngati maola makumi atatu. Ana adasandulika misa imodzi yofinya, yomwe imasunthidwa mokhazikika ngati makumi anayi. Ndidakhala pampando, pafupifupi misozi, ndikufuula: khalani pansi pomwepo! Pobwerera kunyumba, mgalimoto, ndinapitilizabe kung'ung'udza: Sindingathenso, sindingathe.
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