M'zaka zaposachedwa, olemba mabulogu ambiri amawonekera pa intaneti, omwe olembetsa omwe olembetsa amawaphunzitsa kuti akhale "akazi enieni." Kwa mtengo wophiphiritsa "Guru wa maubwenzi" ali okonzeka kunena momwe angachitire, zomwe anganene komanso momwe mungavalire ndi kwanthawi yayitali kuti mukondane ndi munthu ndikutetezeka tsogolo lotsimikizika. Komabe, akatswiri azamisala amakhulupirira: zolimbitsa thupi zolimbitsa thupi pa "mphamvu zachikazi," m'malo mwake, zimangowononga umunthu ndi zotetezeka poizoni pagulu.
Ife mu ADME.Pa adaganiza zowona kuti sichoncho ndi ma preminity "zenizeni" komanso chifukwa chake madera achikazi nthawi zina amanyamula zovulaza kuposa zabwino.
"Ndine mtsikana, sindikufuna kusankha chilichonse"
"Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kusankha china chake ngati pali munthu amene ali?" Mazana a "Atsikana Athu" Ambiri Olemekezeka "Ambiri okwiya, amakhulupirira kuti udindo wovomera zisankho zandi mabodza pa oimira wamphamvu. Zonse zomwe mkazi ayenera kupanga m'chithunzichi cha dziko lapansi ndikungokongoletsa dziko lapansi ndi kukhalapo kwake. Kukhazikitsa koteroko, malinga ndi akatswiri azamankhwala, kumapangitsa kuti tizikhala ndi thanzi labwino. M'malo mwake, mayiyo amazindikira kuti ndi wopusa ndipo amapereka mphamvu zonse m'manja mwa munthu. Koma kwenikweni palibe zifukwa zomwe zingapangitse mkazi kuti asalole zisankho zoyenera. Slogung "Ndine mtsikana. Sindikufuna kusankha chilichonse. Ine ndikufuna kuti ndisamale ndi kavalidwe "imamveka ngati yopusa ngati itakhala yofanana ndi ya amuna:" Ndine munthu. Sindikufuna kusankha chilichonse. Ndikufuna kupita ku garaja ndi usodzi. "
- Nthawi ina kuntchito, idatchulidwa kuti mwamunayo ndi waulesi kuthandiza mnyumba. Wogwira naye ntchito adalangizidwa kuti "atembenukire ku Blonde": "Chinthu chachikulucho, chayembekeza kwambiri kuti adzinamize kuti adzimana kuti adzidziwe chilichonse." Madzulo, mwamunayo, atamvetsera lachidzonga lake ndi kusowa kwanga, kutsukidwa pa pempholo ndipo ndi Otskaya adati: "Ngati zomwe mukufuna, mukuti. Okha osati Lebesi ndi wamkulu kwambiri, kenako ndikumva kuti ndinakwatirana ndi mwana wanga. "
"Mkazi Ayenera Kukhala Mwachinsinsi"
Otsatira a "nyama zenizeni" ali ndi chidaliro: atsikana owongoka ndi osalakwa sakonda aliyense. Mkazi uyu uyenera kukhala chinsinsi. Kuti muchite bwino luso ili, silingayambike, osakambirana za malingaliro awo, malingaliro ndi zosowa zawo. Mokwanira kulanga mwaluso wa Satellite wanu ndi kudya kuzizira. Mnzanuyo ayenera kutengera kokha ndi thandizo la malingaliro ndi kupukusa, inde kuti zikuluzikulu zonse ndi zomwe munthu wachiwiriyo adavomereza zofuna zake. Kodi kuli koyenera kunena kuti kuponderezana kwa malingaliro ndi kupukusa sikubweretsa palimodzi anthu, koma, m'malo mwake, zimangowachotsa wina ndi mnzake. Koma, zedi "mgwirizano wa ukazi", bambo wokhala ndi mkazi wotere sakhala wotopetsa ndi mkazi wotero.
- Wolumikizira mnzake adadandaula kuti adatopa ndi mwamuna wake. Amakhala madzulo pamasewera, ali pa intaneti, palibe cholankhula. Ndipo kenako zimafotokoza mwanjira ina kuti mnzanuyo wakhala akusewera masewera ndipo amapikisana nawo posachedwa. Tinakondwera kwa iye, kuti: "Pitani mukadwala kwanu, adzakhala wabwino!" Ndipo akuyankha kuti: "Ayi, sindipita. Ndimaphunzira "Momwe Mungapulumutsire Banja". © Sunnygloryya / pikabu
"Mkazi ayenera kudziwitsa munthu pazachikondwerero"
Ichi ndi chisonyezo chachikulu cha "chikondwerero chachitsanzo", chomwe, malinga ndi kuphunzitsa, muyenera kulimbikira. Monga, ngati china chake sichinasokoneze ubalewo, ndiye kuti vinyo woyamba ndi mkazi, chifukwa iye, ngati batire, ayenera kuyitanitsa munthu kuti achite bwino. Ndipo ngati ali kutsogolo kwa TV, ma setanis, amalandila ndalama zosakwana 1 madola chikwi pamwezi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti idawudzoza mokwanira, yolimbikitsidwa ndikulimbikitsidwa. Kotero kuti mnzakeyo adaganiza, mkazi ayenera kusiya zokhumba zake ndi mausiku kutsanulira ngongole za munthu nthawi iliyonse akangotuluka kuchokera ku sofa. Mothandizidwa ndi masitima apamenezi, mkazi amayamba kuganiza kuti sizabwino, ndipo amachepetsa kuwunika bwino. Amakhulupirira ndi mtima wonse, kunamizira kuti ndi wofooka, kumatha kupangitsa kuti munthu akhale wamphamvu. M'malo mwake, kusintha ndi ntchito yayikulu yamkati, yomwe ndi imodzi yokhayo yomwe mwasankha mwamphamvu kuti ichite, osati munthu ochokera kumbali, ngakhale atakhala pafupi kwambiri.
- Msungwana, kuwerenga m'magulu ochezera a pa Intaneti, adaganiza zolimbikitsidwa ndi mwamuna wake kupeza zomwe zimapeza. Tsitsani mathala thalale, kuphunzira kuti "amapumira chiberekero" ndi "kupanga bwenzi la akazi kuti awonongeke", kusiya ntchito. Ndalama zikamagwira za ngongole yanyumba, mwamunayo, mphunzitsi wasukulu, amapita msonkho. Amagona kwa maola 4 patsiku, chilonda cha chilonda, chikuwoneka ngati choopsa. Ndipo bwenzi lakosangalala, limati izi zimapangitsa kukhala "munthu weniweni.
"Ayenera kukhala wokongola."
Kugulitsa Kugulitsa "Kukopa Chimwemwe cha Amayi", makochi ambiri amasintha malingaliro otsika. Amayi ambiri komanso amakhala ndi nkhawa chifukwa chakuti sangakumane ndi mfundo zabwino zosatheka zomwe zidakhazikitsidwa. Nayi "Coachi", amene alengeza kuti mavuto onse okhudzana ndi amuna ndi chifukwa chakuti azimayiwo adzilamulira kuti: Matumbawo avala, musakhale mamangidwe, osagona ku Traukus, osati m'Chituruki. Wina amalimbikitsa kuti avale skind pathupi lamaliseche, kuti asasokoneze mphamvu ya dziko lapansi kuti ithe kudyetsa mawonekedwe achikazi. Zonsezi, mwakutero, zimangolimbitsa kusakhazikika kwa mkazi mwa iye komwe, kumamufinya kuti azikhala ndi lingaliro lopapatiza lokhudza kukongola komanso kukopa umunthu wake.
Chifukwa chiyani kukhala "mkazi weniweni" si lingaliro labwino koposa
Cuchi, yemwe akulonjeza kuti "adzuke mulungu wamkazi mwa kasitomala", nthawi zambiri alibe maphunziro amisala ndikungoyambitsa matenda oopsa muukulu. Mzimayi akuyendera maphunzirowa amaphunzira momwe angakhalire osakhazikika, munthu wodalira. Timafunikira kupereka munthu udindo wa moyo wa munthu wina ndikukhala wokwanira mu template yomwe yavomerezedwa ndi gulu lakale. Chinyengo, ngati kuti mothandizidwa ndi kumvera koyipa, zolipiritsa ndi zamatsenga, mutha kupeza chisangalalo ndi chikondi, zowononga, zowononga. Tsoka ilo, azimayi, osati mu chikhalidwe chovutitsidwa kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe. Kuthandizira maubwenzi osayenera, omwe adapulumuka mphamvu kapena wofunitsitsa kusangalala, amakhala okonzeka kupeza ndalama iliyonse yogulira "piritsi yamatsenga", yomwe idzawapulumutsa ku mavuto. Koma palibe piritsi lotere.
Ndi ziti zofunika pa "mkazi weniweni" wakwiyitsa, ndipo ndi zomveka bwanji? Kodi mukumva bwanji mukakhumudwitsa anthu mphamvu zazikazi?