Posachedwa, cholembera chidachokera ku Joun "Conb" - mkati mwake katswiri wazamisala wa Mikhail labkovsky mu nkhani yake
"Chimwemwe: Malangizo Ogwiritsira Ntchito"
Kukambitsirana za chisangalalo. M'malo mwake, chifukwa chomwe ambiri mwa abale athu ambiri akuchita mantha kuti azikhala nawo mwakufuna kwawo ndikubisala komwe kumafunafuna, muyenera kusamalira makolo anu, kuyika ana anu, kukonzanso kwa Chitani, sinthani galimoto ...) Ndipo motero amapitilizabe kukalamba kwambiri.
Timakhala moyo nthawi zonse, m'dzina la china chake, koma osati kwa iwe.
Chifukwa ndi kudzikonda, sichoncho?
Tonsefe tinaphunzira kuyambira ndili mwana kuti zimachita manyazi kudzikhalira ndekha: Uyenera kubereka mwana, dzalani mtengo ndi kupindulanso ndi umunthu. Ndipo zonsezi ndizowona, komanso simungayiwale za inu.
Zochita zambiri, kuphatikizapo zipembedzo, zimatipatsa ife kuti mavuto ndi mavuto ndiabwinobwino. Ndipo agogo anathira mafuta kumoto, kuzindikira kuti "lero mukuseka, ndipo mawa mudzalira."
Anthu osangalala komanso okhutira ambiri amagwirizanitsidwa ndi chinthu chomwe sichikhala chokhazikika, osachimwa. Mumamuyang'ana ndikuganiza: Tidatha, tiwone kuti zidzakhala chiyani.
"Zoyesayesa ndi kuthambo ndi njira yofanira" makolo aikidwanso mwa ife: omwe samvera abambo ndi anthu omwe akhumudwitsidwa ndi amayi ake.
- Kupatula apo, anali iwo amene anati: "Inde, nkovuta, koma zabwino!"
Kukhala wachimwemwe kumawoneka kuti akuchita manyazi, koma palibe amene adatipempha kukondwerera.
- Sizinatiphunzitse kupumula popanda kudziimba mlandu.
- Kutha kuyamikiratu chifukwa chabwino kumakupatsani moyo tsiku lililonse.
- Kutha kusamalira kukongola kwanu ndi thupi lanu, ngakhale mutagawa ndalama ku bajeti yabanja.
- Palibe amene amatiphunzitsa kuti tidzikonde. Kuvutika ndikuitanira chilichonse, koma kusangalala ndi moyo - mayunitsi.
Labkovsky akutsimikizira kuti chisangalalo ndi chizolowezi. Chimodzimodzi ngati tsoka. Ngati tagwiritsidwa ntchito pofunafuna zopweteka, zokhumudwitsa nthawi zonse ndikudandaula, ndiye kuti mungaphunzire kuchitapo kanthu: Koma mwachimwemwe.
Ndikosavuta kuvutika: Kupatula apo, mukakumana ndi mavuto, pali zinthu zopanda chilungamo ndi zoyipa zokuzungulira, zikuwoneka kuti ndizosiyana ndi moyo uliwonse. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ali ndi vuto la chilichonse, ichi ndi tsoka la ozizira, moipa, diso loyipa, winawake ndi kaduka.
Chimwemwe ndi chizoloweziChifukwa chake tikukhala tsiku ndi tsiku, kugwera m'chifanizo cha tsitsi, zomwe tidachita manyazi kupita kukakumana ndi maloto anu, yang'anani chisangalalo ndi chinthu chovuta kusangalala ndi moyo ...
Mukuti, m'mawu mawu amamveka osavuta, ndipo mumayesa kusangalala pamene makutu muli ngongole, ngongole ndi mantha onena za mtsogolo mwa ana?
Ndipo mukatsimikiziranso chiphunzitso cha labkovsky: Mumangozolowera kuyang'ana zovuta. Chabwino, ngati mungayang'ane pamavuto omwewo kuchokera pamalingaliro abwino?
"Ngakhale mukukhudzidwa ndi ana, koma ali nawo." Ndipo kuchuluka kwa anthu opanda ana komanso achisoni?
- Ngakhale muli ndi ngongole, koma osachepera muli ndi ntchito yolipira. Anthu ambiri alibe mwayi wogula zinthu zomwe zili.
Chofunika kwambiri ndikusangalala ndi moyoChabwino, ndi zina zotero, ndandanda mwatsatanetsatane wa zonse zomwe muli nazo: denga pamutu panu, thupi lathanzi, amuna, abwenzi, abale anu, owoneka bwino kuchokera pazenera ...
Chabwino, kodi simupeza zinthu zabwino 10 zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala munthu wosangalala? Zinthu zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana komanso, m'malo mwa madandaulo ndikuti mumatipatsa moyo, sangalalani nawo.
Ndipo sizokhudza chilichonse kuti mudzipezere nokha osasamala za zosowa za ena. Ndizakuti limayenera kuonedwa: ndipo ena amakonda ena, ndipo musaiwale za inu nokha ... Ndipo zimapezeka kuti enafe timakonda kwambiri kudzipereka ndi izi.
Ndipo inu, owerenga okondedwa, mukudziwa momwe mungasangalale ndi kukhala osangalala, kapena china chake chimalepheretsa chisangalalo chanu? Nanga bwanji ngati sichoncho chinsinsi?
Lembani mu ndemanga!
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