Anthu akamamva mawu oti "ulemu", aliyense amakumbukira nthawi yomweyo, momwe angasungire pulagi ndi mpeni, atakhala patebulolo mulesitilanti. Koma ndizofunikirabe zomwe bambo amanena ndi momwe amachitira. Kupatula apo, nthawi zambiri m'moyo, nthawi zambiri timaphwanya mawu olankhula ndipo sazindikira. Kapena ndikukhulupirira kuti timachita izi molondola. Mwachitsanzo, yambitsani ziganizo ndi mawu akuti "khalani okoma mtima" osavomerezeka, chifukwa zimadziwika kwambiri komanso zosayenera.
Ifenso mu ADME.Anadziwe kuti malamulo ati azolankhula ayenera kukumbukira, kuti asasangalale ndi munthu wosagwirizana. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti, monga katswiri akuti, Tatiana Polyakova akuti, "Aliyense sangakondweretse, chinthu chachikulucho sicho kukhumudwitsa wina."
- Mphete, malo awo ogona. Ngati mungadule mawu awa, zikomo: chilichonse chili ndi kuwerenga kwanu. Koma zolakwitsa zolondola mu mawu a munthu wina. Komabe, ngati kukambirana kumachitidwa ndi anthu am'banja lanu omwe mumakhulupirirana, mutha kuwawongolera. Ndipo makamaka ndikumwetulira, popanda kukonza kamvekedwe. Komanso anakonzanso Interlocor mu mwambowu kuti akuphatikizidwa ndi ntchito yanu ya akatswiri.
- Osayesa kumaliza mawu olumikizirana pomwe sangapeze mawu oyenera. Kupanda kutero, mutha kusangalala ndi smug osazindikira, ndipo ngakhale ayikeni pamavuto.
- Mutha kuthamangira kukachita khungu kulikonse: Pamayendedwe apagulu, pamzere, mumsewu. Ndipo chinthu choyamba chomwe mukufuna kuchita chimachepetsedwa. Koma osayenerera. Kumbukirani kuti simukuyenera kufanana ndi chipongwe cha munthu. Khalani olemekezeka. Ngati munthu akadali ndi zopanda malire, nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kupita.
- Kuyambira ndili mwana, timaphunzitsidwa kuti tisokoneze ukulu. Koma, poganizira choonadi m'maso, nthawi zina chimafunikira. Mwachitsanzo, zikakhala kuti: - Mukapanda kuteteza othandizana ndipo mukufuna kudziwa zomwe akunena. - Pomwe ndikofunikira kufotokozera nthawi kapena nthawi; - Mukafuna kusiya miseche kapena kuwulula zidziwitso zachinsinsi. Njira imodzi yabwino yochitira ndikuti: "Pepani, ndikusokoneza, koma ..." kapena "Ndimadana nazo kuti zisokoneze, koma ..." chinthu chachikulu ndikutsimikiza kuti pakufunika sokoneza zokambirana, ndipo zimapangitsa kuti zitheke.
- Mitu yomwe iyenera kupewedwa pokambirana ndi anthu osazolowereka: ndale, chipembedzo, zinthu zazing'ono kwambiri zamavuto azaumoyo, matenda owonjezera, ndalama zaubwana, nthabwala zamunthu, nthabwala zamunthu, zikondwerero zamunthu.
- "Mkazi" wonyenga mwa oimira malo okongola amawoneka amwano. M'malo mwake, palibe chomwe chimakhumudwitsa. M'mawu onse "oyipa" "w" ndi "Shech", zomwe zimapangitsa mawu awa kukhala wopanda tanthauzo. Phillogist ndi gulu la zilankhulo Joseph Sternov amakhulupirira kuti kulakalaka kumeneku kumatha kugwiritsidwa ntchito pokhudzana ndi azimayi a pakati komanso okalamba. Komabe, ndikofunikira kutchula mawu awa mwachangu komanso momasuka.
- Musalembe mauthenga pafoni yanu mukamalankhula ndi anthu ena. Ichi ndi chamwano, ndipo omwe akuinzako ali osasangalatsa. Munthu amakhala ndi lingaliro loti simukuyamikira.
- Mawu oterowo "kukhala okoma mtima, ndiuzeni, chonde ..." kapena "Simungakhale ovuta kuyankhulana kwambiri, monga momwe amadziwira kwambiri. Ndikwabwino kuti musinthe pa "pepani / pepani, simudzandiuza ..." kapena "Ndiuzeni, chonde, monga ine ..."
- Pali nthawi zina mukamvetsetsa zomwe ananena kapena kuchita cholakwika, ndipo tikufuna kupempha chikhululukiro. Chinthu choyamba chomwe simuyenera kuchita ndikulungamitsa. Ngati muli ndi chowiringula pazomwe mwachita kapena mawu, kupepesa kwanu kungaoneke. Kuyesa kuchita zikuwonetsa kuti simukuganiza kuti ndi zolakwika.
- Ngati mungakumane ndi munthu wodziwika pamalo okwera, koma palinso anthu osadziwika pafupi naye, ndiye kuti anganene moni kwa iye. Kambiranani china chake sichilandiridwa, popeza ena okwera amakhala omvera anu.
- Khalani othandiza kuti mudziwe mukamayenera kusiya kuyankhula. Chifukwa chake, ngati mungazindikire kuti yemwe akuikirayo sawonekeranso m'maso mwanu, ndiye amene amachititsa imodzi, zikutanthauza kuti akufuna kuletsa kucheza nanu. Chilichonse chimachitika - zinthu zina, kutopa, kufuna kukhala nokha (komwe kulinso wamba).
- Lemekezani malingaliro a munthu, ngakhale simulikonda. Aliyense ali ndi chowonadi chake. Inde, sitingavomereze malingaliro ena, koma kuti tisanthule mogwirizana ndi zokambirana, ndibwino kuti musalowe mu mkangano ndikudziletsa ku mawu akuti "Ine ndimaganizira motero."
- Ngati mwapanga kuyamikiridwa ndi mtima wonse, tengani ndikuthokoza. Kutsutsa kuzindikira mosazindikira komanso kukangana.
- Malinga ndi malamulo a makatchulidwe abwino, kufuna kwa chilakolako chokoma kumawonedwa kuti sizachikhalidwe. Kulongosola kwa izi. Kulakalaka ndi kumverera kwa njala, kufunitsitsa kukhutiritsa. Kodi zomverera izi zingakhale zosangalatsa bwanji? Ndipo msonkhano patebulo ndi mwayi, choyambirira, kulankhulana, ndipo osazimitsa kumverera kwa njala, ndipo chakudyacho chimangokhala chowonjezera chokha. Ndikoyenera kunena china chake ngati "kuchitira" kapena "ndikhulupilira kuti mumakondwera ndi chithandizocho."
- Wina akakupangirani kena kake mu pempho lanu, sikuyenera kunena kuti "Zikomo" kwa nthawi chikwi. Mmodzi modzipereka adzakhala okwanira. Kupanda kutero, mudzapangitsa munthu kuchita manyazi. Ntchito ndi mphatso, ngakhale mutavomereza kapena muuzeni.
- Osagwiritsa ntchito kuchepa kokwanira (mafafu, madzulo, keke). Uwu ndiye wotchedwa "Haberdashery mawu". M'mbuyomu, nthawi zambiri inali yogwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ogulitsa masitolo a Haberdayhery, ndipo tsopano kulakwitsa koteroko nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa amayi kukhala mayina atsopano omwe amakhala nthawi yayitali ndi mwana ndipo alibe nthawi yosinthana ndi mwana.
- Mawu ndi mawu omwe amayenera kuchotsedwa pamawu awo kuti: "Palibe cholakwa". Nthawi zambiri anthu amatchula mawuwa asananene chilichonse chokhumudwitsa kapena chosasangalatsa. Ngati mukufuna kunena popanda kunyoza, ndizotheka kuthetsa zomwe muti munene. "Kukhala woona mtima." Zikumveka ngati pang'ono, koma ndikutanthauza kuti simuli omasuka kapena owona mtima. " Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito poyankha "Zikomo." Komabe, mawuwa ndi osangalatsa. Zitha kutanthauza zokha zomwe mumavomereza kuyamika, komanso zomwe zimakupangitsani zovuta. "Ndangonena (a)." Mawuwa nthawi zambiri amatchulidwa kuti ndi mtima wonse ndi kutembenuza maso, akutsimikiza kutsutsidwa. Zochita zoterezi zimadziwika ndi omwe akuwathandiza ngati SARCASM kapena mwamwano. "Mukumvetsa zomwe ndikutanthauza?" Mawuwa amawonjezeredwa nthawi zambiri kumapeto kwa chiganizo. Koma sizidziwika konse monga kuda nkhawa pazomwe simunamvetsetse, koma monga kungoyang'ana kufunika kwa lingaliro lanu.
- Motani Mwanzeru: "Chimbudzi chili kuti?" Chilichonse ndichosavuta apa. Zokwanira kufunsa kuti: "Ndingathetse kuti kusamba m'manja?"
- Osawopa chete. Sikofunikira kuti mudzaze mphindi iliyonse yolankhula tanthauzo. Nthawi zina kukambirana kumatha, ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino. Palibenso chifukwa chokwanira kuyang'ana mutu watsopano pamtengo uliwonse. Mwa zina mwa anthu ambiri osadziwika, ambiri (mwina inunso) muyenera kukopeka, kupuma pang'ono. Tanthauzirani Mzimu, tengani kanthu kena kena kapena kungoyang'ana pozungulira. Izi sizitanthauza kuti kukambirana kwanu kuyenera kutha. Ngakhale zitakhala choncho, sikokwanira.
Ndipo mumatani mukakhala kuti anzanu akunena kuti "malo" kapena "awo"? Ndipo kodi mumaphwanya mawu olankhula?