Dale Carnegie ndi wolemba wodziwika waku America, mphunzitsi, wolemba mabuku ambiri. Kupereka kwake kwa psychology ndi kosiyana chabe. Tsopano, mothandizidwa ndi mabuku, a Carnegie Anthu amaphunzira kuchokera kwa ife tokha, kudzidziwa komanso kulankhulana. Chimodzi mwa mabuku otchuka chomwe dale chimafotokoza momwe mungapangitsire munthu kwa iye mwachangu. Maganizo ofanana padziko lonse lapansi amagwiritsidwa ntchito pochita bizinesi, kugwiritsa ntchito bizinesi ndi kungolankhula ndi anthu. Zotsatira zake, moyo wa owerenga ukuyenda bwino! Ndikuganiza kuti ndikofunika kumvetsera uphungu wake!
Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndikofunikira kuwachitira zabwino, popanda kuyembekezera malingaliro omwewo. Ndipamene mungayime kuchokera ku china chodikirira, ndipo mudzayamba kuchita zinthu mopanda dyera, ndipo zimadabwitsa kungolankhula ndi ena. Kukukondani, muyenera kudzikonda nokha. Ndiponso carnegie m'bukhu lake adalemba kuti anthu osalimbikitsa ndi umunthu wosasanjika, muyenera kuiwala, m'malo mopanga nthawi yobwezera. Kupanda kutero, mutha kuvulaza kwambiri. Mwambiri, pacifim, i.e. Nkhondo ndi chiwawa, ndipo kukondana kwa mnansi kungatsatire ntchito zonse za Carnegie. Mwina chifukwa chakuti iyemwini anali kuchoka pabanja la alimi osauka ndipo amaleredwa ndi mzimu wachikhristu.
Palibe amene amakonda kosatha ndipo sanapeze zoipa za anthu. Izi zikuchitika pambuyo pa mphindi zochepa zolankhulirana. Ndikofunikira kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino, komanso ngakhale ku zinthu zovuta kuzichita modekha. Wotsimikiza mtima amakopeka ndi ena, chifukwa umakweza chisangalalo. Ndi anthu odzidalira komanso abwino ozungulira ena amadalira kwambiri. Mwa njira, Carnegie adazindikira izi mu ubwana wake, pomwe adayenera kugwira ntchito yogulitsa ndikulankhulana ndi anthu ambiri. Kupatula apo, Dale anayenera kutsimikizira anthu kuti agule katundu, ndipo kunali kukhala ndi chiyembekezo choti amusiya. Gawo lina lazomwe zili ndi chiyembekezo chochokera pansi pamtima!
Ndiwosavuta kuchotsa mavuto ndi kulephera kugwiritsa ntchito ntchito. Simungakhale chete, muyenera kupeza nthawi zonse phunziro. Ndipo kuweruza koteroko kunawonekeranso ku Carnegie kuthokoza chifukwa chake. Ndili mwana, Dale adagwira ntchito yambiri pafamu ya makolo ake, komanso adaphunzira ku koleji. Inali ntchito yovuta yomwe idalola wolemba kuti amvetsetse mtengo wa ndalama, komanso adathandizidwa kuti asadere nkhawa za zolakwazo, ndikuwonetsa bwino kwambiri pamoyo. Carnegie adati moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri kuti uziwononga. Nayi Choonadi ndi chomwe simungatsutsane!
Osakumba m'mbuyomu, chifukwa simungathenso kusintha. Tsoka ilo, anthu nthawi zambiri amaiwala za izi, amadzizunza ndi zokumbukira ndikuwononga momwe akumvera. Zachidziwikire, Carnegie adati zolakwa zawo zimafunikira kusanthula, koma ndizosatheka kuti zisanthule kudziona kuti kudzitcha, chifukwa palibe phindu lililonse. Ndikofunikira kuphunzira kuwongolera malingaliro anu, osawalola kubwerera ku zakale.
Palibe amene ali wabwino, koma ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa izi ndikugwira ntchito kuti muthane ndi zolakwika zanu. Miyoyo yawo yonse iyenera kukhala yodzitukumula, imakhala bwino, imakhala yochezeka. Koma simuyenera kutembenuza kukhala kotentheka. Palibenso chifukwa chochepetsera anthu a zilembo, kuwatsutsa chifukwa cha zochita ndi mawu, ndikofunikira.
Chitirani anthu kuti amvetsetse, ndiye kuti mudzazipeza!
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