"Mwanayo akadalipo, mtundu wanu wa umunthu": 5 umayitanitsa makolo-assoctions

Malo anu? Iwalani!

Otsatirawa amadziwika kuti ndi opindulitsa kwambiri, koma zotulukapo zimakhala zosavuta kukhala makolo. Osachepera kuti osokonekera nthawi zambiri amafunikira kukhala yekha kuti akwaniritse zothandizira, komanso ndi ana, makamaka ana, ndizosatheka.

Enanso onse amasautsa ulemu wa makolo, omwe ndi osungulumwa, ndi chifukwa chake amavutika nthawi zonse amavutika. Ndipo mwana akapita ku Kindergarten ndi sukulu, zinthu zili zovuta.

Kodi ndi zofuna ziti zomwe zimapangitsa kuti makolo azikhala ndi munthu wolakwika?

Kulankhulana

Ndili ndi zaka, ana akulankhula kwambiri ndi anzawo, ndipo akuyambabe kupita ku Kindergarten, sukulu, pamagetsi ndi zigawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti makolo awo osochera amafunikira kwambiri ndi anthu osiyanasiyana - abwenzi a ana, aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi, ophunzitsa, anthu pabwaloli. Ndipo nchiyani chomwe chikuvuta kwambiri, kuti chigwirizane ndi zomwe makolo amachita. Palibe kulumikizana kwachikhalidwe nthawi imodzi - makolo amayenera kuteteza zokonda za ana awo, kambiranani ndi mavuto awo, kuti apange kulumikizana ndi zina.

Pemphani thandizo

Ngati kuwonongeka kwa aliyense kuti avale kuti akwaniritse pempho lake, ndiye kuti ndi zovuta kufunsa thandizo la ngakhale anthu apamtima kwambiri. Ubale ndi abale ndi abwenzi zitha kukhala zodabwitsa. Vutoli ndi losiyana - owoneka bwino amangokhala ndi chikhalidwe chokha.

Zotsatira zake, amayi ndi abambo ayenera kugonjera kuti aphunzire kupempha thandizo.

Zovuta Zosintha

Omwe akusokera amakonda kuganizira mozama ndipo amaganiza zokhudzana ndi mafunso ndikuthetsa ntchitoyo. Koma zinthu ndi banja nthawi zambiri zimafunikira nthawi yomweyo. Banjali, ntchito zazing'onozing'ono zimafunikira yankho mwachangu.

Kulimbana ndi Kudziimba mlandu

Amayi-asroives ocheperako nthawi zambiri kuposa abambo, ndizotheka kukhala ndekha. Ndipo pamene ola lopumulalo lidabwera, ndiye kuti kudziimba mlandu sikungachitike. Kupatula apo, mwana kwinakwakenso amafunikira amayi ake!

Nthawi zina kuzungulira kumayamba kuneneza makolo - osokoneza bongo, ndipo osasangalatsa omwe siabwino kuti ndiwe woipa, kholo loopsalo limakhazikika mwamphamvu. Koma kupumula kumafunikira mwa amayi, ndi abambo. Ndipo makolo ovutika ndi omwe ali ndi mwayi kuti akufuna kukhalabe okha.

Moyo wokhala ndi banja laphokoso

Banja lalikulu lochezeka ndi labwino, lokhalokha lokha silikondweretsedwa ndi phokoso losatha, gamba ndi kusokonezeka kwa malo anu. Mwana samasamala kuti mtundu wanu wamunthu ndi uti. Nthawi zina ana sapereka makolo kuti apume ntchito ngakhale m'chimbudzi, kodi tingakambirane ndi malo ati? Ndipo mwina ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu kwambiri zongomvera kholo.

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