Ndili mwana komanso unyamata, nthawi zambiri tinkakwiya msanga komanso zokhumudwitsa amayi. Ndipo atakula, anazindikira kuti amayi amafuna kuti tonse tizingoganiza zokhazokha, ndipo anali olondola pamene iwo amatiphunzitsa moyo. Ngwazi zathu zinkaganiza kuti amayi awo amamuuza zinthu zoyipa komanso zosasangalatsa. Ndipo atakhala achikulire okha, adazindikira kuti amayi adapatsidwa
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Chifukwa cha amayi anga, ndinataya chikondi
Ndinali ndi zaka 15, ndimangowoneka wamba, ndipo anali munthu wokongola komanso wamasewera wa atsikana onse kusukulu. Zachidziwikire, mbiri yanga yachikondi inali yoipa, koma atsikana achinyamata amakonda anyamata oipa. Viveta atandipempha kuti ndikumane, ndinali pa thambo lachisanu ndi chiwiri kuchokera ku chisangalalo. Madzulo anagona pakama, osati maso, ndipo sanamvetsetse kuti mwana wosatchuka wotereyu adandiganizira. Panthawiyo, ndimavala magalasi anga, tsitsi langa lidatsekedwa mumiyala awiri, zinali chabe zomwe sizinali chidwi ndi ophunzira a kusekondale. Ndipo pazifukwa zina, vimu inandiyang'ana.
Amayi mwana wanga sanakonde. Ayi, sananditsere kunyumba kuti ndisayendeko ndi mitundu. Koma zimakhutira nthawi zonse, kuyesedwa ndi ine, kunafotokoza kuti amayenera kukhala ndi wophunzira wasukulu yasekondale kuchokera kwa ine. Zachidziwikire, sindinamvere mayi anga ndipo ndimaganizira zakukhosi kwanga.
Kumapeto kwa Disembala, vimuya anandipempha kuti ndikondweretse chaka chatsopano palimodzi. Anali ndi kampani yayikulu ku kanyumba ka anzawo a Vitan. Chomwe chimakonda kulembedwa kangapo kuti banja lililonse padzakhala chipinda chosiyana, ndipo nditha kutsimikizira malingaliro ake. Ndinakonzekere chilichonse. Koma amayi, atamva kuti ndikapita ku kanyumba kuchokera ku zisinthe, zimawaletsa. Kwa masiku angapo amene ndinalira, akopa, adalonjeza kuti aphunzira "chabwino", nthawi zonse amamuthandiza kunyumba.
Zoyesayesa zonse zinali zopanda ntchito, ndipo amayi anali owatsogozedwa. "Ngati mukufuna kukumana, sindingakuletseni. Koma sindiloledwa kupita kwina ndi ophunzira asukulu zapamwamba usiku wonse, "anatero, ndipo ndinazindikira kuti sizingachitike.
Kwa chaka chopitilira chaka chomwe ndinalanda mkazi wanga. Ubwenzi wathu utawonongeka, sitinangoyankhula, ngakhale amayi anga anayesa kuyanjanitsa nthawi zambiri. Mwa njira, nditamuuza Vita kuti sindikupita kudzikolo, adasokoneza ubale ndi ine. Inde, ndimandiimba mlandu amayi anga. Zinkawoneka kuti dziko langa linagwa. Ndipo kenako ndidamva kuti viveka adakumana ndi ine mogwirizana ndi ine ndi atsikana awiri. M'modzi wa iwo ali ndi pakati ndi viti, ndipo iyenso anaponyera.
Tsopano ndine wokondwa kwa Mambochka, anandipulumutsa ku chinthu chomwe chachitika. Sizikudziwika zomwe zidandichitikira tsopano. Ndikudziwa kuti chikondi changa choyamba chidatha kukhala m'ndende chifukwa cha kuba. Mwana wanga wamkazi ali ndi zaka 4, koma tangoganizirani za momwe mukuyenera kukumana ndi chikondi choyamba komanso kukhumudwitsidwa koyamba ndi izo.
Sukulu yonse iyenera kusekedwa
Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi maso, ndipo ndimavala magalasi. Aliyense amadziwa kuti ana amazunza kwambiri. Odnoklassniki adandinyoza, Nditayika m'magalasi anga akulu (masiku amenewo, kodi sizidagawireko magalasi okongola mu rim). Ndipo inenso ndinametanso mtima, chifukwa mano anakula.
Mwama gulu linakana kuyika matabwa, koma makolowo adapereka ndalama zambiri kotero kuti ndidawakhazikitsabe. Odnoklassniki adandiitana "koopsa" komanso "pakamwa pa chitsulo". Sindikonda kusintha zithunzi za sukulu. Sindimawamwetulira ndi Pry, chifukwa nthawi zonse ndimakhala magalasi. Ndinadana ndi makolo anga chifukwa cha zombo zanga: amakhalanso ndi maso owopsa, ndipo mano amakula mosiyanasiyana.
Kale ku yunivesite, nditachotsedwa braces, ndidazindikira kuti ndiyenera kuyamika kwa amayi anga ndi abambo. Kenako ndidadzigulira magalasi, koma pang'ono zidakonzedwa. Ndinali ndi mafani ambiri, ndinali kukwatiwa, nabereka ana awiri. Nditafika kwa makolo anga, nthawi zonse ndimawauza "zikomo" chifukwa chakuti ali ndi chidwi ndi ma hoyster anga ndipo amathandizira kukonza zolakwikazo.
Wonenaninso: Amayi akakhulupirira kuti nthawi zonse amakhala olondola, kapena momwe malingaliro a makolo amakhudzira ana
Makolo oletsedwa maswiti
Amayi ndi abambo adalimbikira kudya bwino, chifukwa sitinakhalepo ndi maswiti, makeke, ayisikilimu kunyumba. Ndikukumbukira tsiku langa lobadwa ndili ndi zaka zisanu. Pa tebulo la tchuthi chinali kudula kwa zipatso ndi "keke" yolondola popanda shuga. Kale sukulu anali kuthandizidwa ndi maswiti, ndipo ndinamvetsetsa zomwe ndimamupatsa makolo anga. Nditha kudya chokoleti chambiri kuchokera kwa amayi anga, ndipo nthawi zambiri zolimba zimawonekera kumaso ndi thupi lake.
Ndipo, kusukulu yasekondale, ndinakumana ndi wansell. Ndipo adandiuza kuti kuyambira ndili mwana umavutika ndi mano. Adaloledwa maswiti kuyambira ndili mwana. Mwinanso, izi, izi ndi zangozi zangozi, koma sindinakhalepo ndi vuto ndi mano anu komanso kunenepa kwambiri. Amayi, panjira, adauza pambuyo pake chifukwa chake adachita mwamphamvu maswiti. Ali kochepa kwambiri, agogo ake ankakonda kuperekera matumba ake akuluakulu ndi maswiti. Zaka 25, amayi amayenera kuyika "mlatho", chifukwa mano angapo amasungira ndipo zalephera.
Sindikuletsa mwana wanu wamwamuna wazaka 6, koma safuna. Kwa iye, saladi wokoma masamba (inde, zimachitika!) Kapena sangweji yokhala ndi nsomba zofiira.
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Amayi sindikufuna, koma mukufuna amalume a wina
Sindikudziwa bambo anga ochuluka. Anatiponyera ine ndi amayi ake pamene ine sindinabadwe. Ndikofunikira kupereka msonkho kwa amayi, chifukwa adamuyesa iye kwambiri kotero kuti sindimafuna kalikonse. Amayi anagwira ntchito kwambiri, koma nthawi yomweyo nthawi zonse amapeza nthawi yoyenda kapena makalasi athu. Nditakwanitsa zaka 13, bambo wina anaonekera m'moyo wake.
Mwachilengedwe, pomwepo nthawi yomweyo ndinam'konda, ngakhale kuti zokupinga za amayi wanga zinali zabwino kwambiri: zomwe ndapeza bwino, zimatisamalira, idayamba kuwerengedwa ndipo zidaleredwa. Anayesa kupeza chilankhulo chimodzi ndi ine, koma mosamala kwambiri ndidanyalanyaza kupezeka Kwake. Pamene amalume Viryana adabwera, ndidagwira khomo mokweza, osanenanso kuti moni.
Amayi amakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri komanso mitsempha, kuyesera kukwaniritsa malo anga. Ndipo kenako nthawi yamadzulo, tikamamwa tiyi limodzi, nati: "Ndine mkazi wachichepere, ndipo ndiyenera kukhala wokondwa. Akazi sayenera kuyang'ana kwambiri pa kukhala mayi, ndipo tsiku lina mudzamvetsetsa. " Ndidakumana ndi tiyi, ndipo amayi anga adapereka mawu ake: "Sinditaya ma vomuda chifukwa cha zonse. Timakondana. Inenso ndimakukonda. Ndikuganiza kuti tonse tidzatani ngati mupitiliza kuchita. "
M'moyo wathu, amalume a Voldaysa adakhazikika. Anatitengera kunyumba kwake, atazunguliridwa ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Poyamba ndinapitilizabe kuwonetsa kusakhutira kwanga ku inertia, koma posachedwa ndikanazindikira kuti bambo anga ondi ondio alonda ndi munthu wodabwitsa. Anandipatsa chisangalalo chochuluka komanso chikondi chomwe ndidasowa kwambiri, chifukwa mwana aliyense amafunikira bambo. Amalume a ku Ripanya adayambitsa mwambo wabanja labwino kwambiri: Madzulo timawerenga mabuku mokweza mawu. Nthawi zambiri ndimakumbukira tchuthi chathu patebulo lalikulu, ndi alendo, nyimbo, mpikisano, kuseka komanso zosangalatsa.
Tsopano ndine amamapatutsa amayi ndekha, ndipo amalume a Vova (ndimamutcha kuti nthawi yayitali) - agogo abwino kwambiri padziko lapansi. Ndimamuyamikira kwambiri chifukwa cha zonse zomwe amandichitira. Ndipo ndine wokondwa kwa amayi anga chifukwa chondiphunzitsa chinthu chosavuta, koma chofunikira: Simungaiwale za inu ndi kusungunuka kwathunthu mwa ana.
Ganizirani za thanzi lanu
Ndinakulira mwana wovuta, ndipo kusukulu ndidasekedwa ndi "mafuta". Ali ndi zaka 14, ndinayamba kudya. Ndinkafuna kukhala ngati bwenzi langa, kulira kotere komanso koonda, komwe mndandandawo kuchokera kumafani adamangidwa. Pamaso pa mpira womaliza maphunziro, sindinasiye kudya. Amayi anayesa kudyetsa ine, anakonza mbale yake yokondedwa, anati moyo wotere udzasokonezeka thanzi langa. Koma kodi mumvera amayi tikayeza makilogalamu 45, mukufuna bwanji, komanso zochuluka motani?
Ku yunivesite, ndidatenga chiwerengero changa. Kalori adaganizira, sanalole chilichonse choletsedwa, madzulo onse omwe amakhala ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Amayi anaudwa ndi iye. Pofika nthawi imeneyi ndinalemera makilogalamu 40, koma sizinandiletse. Ndipo nditafika kuchipatala ndi kutopa, Amayi adadza kwa ine tsiku lililonse ndikulira nthawi zonse.
Kenako panali zaka zambiri pochira. Ndinaphunzira kudya bwino, ndinasinthanso moyo wanga ndikumvetsetsa, pamapeto pake amayi anali olondola. Chifukwa chakuperewera kwa thupi kwa nthawi yayitali, sizinatenge pakati, ndiye kuti panali mavuto ambiri azaumoyo. Amayi salinso, koma nthawi iliyonse ndikakumbukira kuti anati: "Dasha, muyenera kudzisamalira. Maonekedwe si chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Ganizirani za thanzi lanu. " Tsopano ndikadapereka kwambiri kuti ndikhale ndi chikho cha tiyi komanso chisangalalo chofuna kudya patties wake yemwe amadziwa kuphika kokha.