Nkhani yomvetsa chisoni kuchokera m'moyo wa amayi, omwe adasuntha mwana wake kuti amakonda munthu. Kodi ndi ululu uti womwe udapulumukira mkaziyo atazindikira za zoona
Gawo kuchokera kwa mwana wake, ndipo adayenera kuchita chiyani?
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Nthawi iliyonse ndikakhala ndi laputopu, ndinatsegula chikalata cha Vorvelky, koma sindinathe kusankha kulemba nkhani yanga. Mmodzi, ndikutsimikiza, lidzakhala phunziro labwino kwa amayi ena omwe amaphunzitsa ambiri kuti asamve, komanso amakhulupirira mwana wawo komanso amayang'ana mozama momwe zinthu zilili. Ndinali ndi chilichonse chogwirizana ndi zosiyana. Chikondi changa, ngati kuti manyazi pamaso pake, kudandaula. Ndinkakonda kwambiri bambo wina, yemwe adaganiza zochititsa chidwi kwambiri - akane mwanayo ndikudzipereka yekha kwa mnzake.
Pang'onopang'ono za iwe: Ndine mtsikana wazaka 27, adabereka mwana kwa munthu aliyense wochokera kwa munthu wokondedwa. Sindinganene kuti ndinali wokondwa ndi iye, ngakhale ubale wathu ndi ife unali wangwiro. Koma chisoni chachikulu chinachitika. Mbewu zathu zitakhala zaka 25, mwamunayo anachita ngozi ziwiri ndipo atamwalira. Pamene adotolo adanena, chifukwa chake ndi kuvulala kambiri ndi zowonongeka zomwe sizigwirizana ndi moyo. Zomwe ndidakumana nazo atamwalira, m'modzi yekha yekha amene akudziwa, kotero sindikufuna kukumbukira ndikufotokoza. Koma ndidzangonena kuti malingaliro amodzi, wodzipereka unabwera kudzandichezera. Chokhacho chomwe chinandiletsa ine ndi mwana wanga. Nthawi ina ndili ndi luntha - ndidazindikira kuti ndiyenera kungokhala moyo chifukwa cha iye!
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Kuyamba Kwa Ubale
Iye wadutsa zaka 5, Semyni anakula - tsopano ali ndi zaka 7.5, ndipo apita kalasi yoyamba. Mwana wanga ndiye chisangalalo chokha m'moyo wanga. Amakula munthu weniweni - m'njira zambiri zimandithandiza, amathandiza mwamakhalidwe, ndipo amangosangalatsa zomwe ndili nazo!
Komabe, linali mphindi yotere pamene ine ndimamukakamiza kumukana. Anandisiya munthu woyamba. Zinachitika ndikakumana, chifukwa zimawoneka koyamba, munthu wabwino. Mnyamata wamtali, wosakhazikika, mnyamata wanzeru amangotembenuza mutu. Kulankhulirana Kupitilira chaka chimodzi, tinaganiza zopita kukakhala limodzi.
Anatoatoly ndinayambitsa banja langa miyezi 5 yolankhulana. Sindinayembekezere, koma wokondedwa wanga adadziwonetsa kuti ndi kholo lodekha komanso lodekha. Amakhala ndi maswiti, zoseweretsa, adapita naye kokawedza, kuphunzitsa. Ndidzalankhula moona mtima, ndinali wokondwa kwambiri, chifukwa anthu onse okwera mtengo kwambiri amakhala abwenzi enieni - ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chabwino?
Tinkakhala m'chipinda changa chachiwiri, panali malo okwanira. Kumayambiriro, idyll yathunthu yomwe inalamulira m'banja lathu. Kugwirizana kwa anatoly ndi mwana kunali kosiyanasiyana chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo - maulendo olumikizirana, amayenda, nthiti pachilengedwe. Tolik adapereka mphatso zokwera mtengo - adawonetsa piritsi la mbewu, lomwe adalota kale. Komabe, idyll iyi imatha msanga, kwenikweni titangomaliza kukhala ndi kholo.
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Mphezi zanga
Mwadzidzidzi wokondedwa wanga komanso wokondedwa kwambiri adataya ntchito yake. Ngakhale izi, ndinayendetsa malingaliro oyipa kutali. Iye yekha adagwira ntchito ngati wachuma. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi mwayi wogwira ntchito. Tsiku lina nditachedwedwanso kuntchito, mwana wanga amandiimbira. Adalankhula ndi mawu onjenjemera komanso osautsa. Anandifunsa kuti: "Kodi ndibwerera liti posachedwa?" Zomwe ndidayankha, kodi nonse muli bwino. Mwanayo anati zonse zili mu dongosolo, koma ndinali ndi tsankho kuti china chake chikadali cholakwika. Kuganiza za Thille, ndinayamba kupita kunyumba.
Kutsegula chitseko cha nyumbayo, ndinamva kulira kwamphamvu - anybor adafuula kwa mwanayo, kuyesera kuti amupangitse Iye kuyandikira katundu wake. Kwa mphindiwani, ine, m'malo mwake, ndinakondwera kwambiri ndi kuti chuma china china ndi chifukwa chokana kukangana. Kupatula apo, panjira yakunyumba, ndimalira kale izi.
Chifukwa chake, zokhuza za Tolik pokhudzana ndi mwanayo zinali zomveka ndipo sizinandisokoneze. Tsopano ndikumvetsa izi poyamba sizinandilole. Kupatula apo, tili ndi mavuto onse ndi mbewuyo mwakachetechete komanso mwamtendere. Amandimvetsetsa kuyambira pakati. Kupita kukhitchini, ndinawona mwana wosweka ndi kumwetulira tolik. Kumwetulira kwake kunandinyenga, ndipo ndinatsitsa izi. Tsopano ndikumvetsa kuti chinthu choyipa kwambiri chomwe ndidakhala ndikupita ku nazale kuti ndikayankhule ndi mbewu zomwe zidachitika. Ndipo linali cholakwika chachikulu.
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Koma si zonse, aliyense atakumana ndi mabedi awo, Tolik adayamba kugwedezeka. Amati muli ndi sludge, egoist ndi zinyalala. Kuti ndiuze kuti ndine mayi woyipa ndipo sindimakweza mwanayo sanavutike munthu aliyense! Komanso zina kwambiri, kuti ndilibe ubongo wokwanira. Musakhulupirire, koma pamalingaliro ake onse, ndangogwedeza mutu ndipo ndinakhala chete. Tolik, osayembekezera izi, mwachangu adaganiza zomasulira zankhondo zawo zonse, akunena kuti tsopano kuutsa mbewu kwathunthu kumalanda. Zomwe ndidavomeranso.
Zachidziwikire, zinali zofunikira kwa ine, zomwe zinandipatsa mwayiwu ndipo ndatopa kwambiri, ndipo Tolik adathandizira maphunziro, adayendetsa maphunziro, adatenga sukulu. Namwino wachilendo mu mawonekedwe aamuna. Zotsatira zake, ndinali nditasiyanitsidwa kwathunthu ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna, ndipo ndinali nditasuta kwathunthu mapewa ondipeza.
Mwanayo wasintha kwambiri - adatseka, chete, adasiya kundilimbitsa ndi manja ake pomwe ndimabwera kuchokera kuntchito. Choyipa choyipitsitsa chomwe ndidachizindikira. Sindinazindikire immyoni poona ine ndi mnzanga pamodzi chipolopolo chinathamangira kuchipinda changa. Zinafika poti ndinasiya kuchita chidwi ndi momwe amachitira kusukulu, ngati amapita kumsewu woyenda ndi anzawo komanso zomwe anali kuchita munthawi yake yaulere. Koma chilichonse chisanakhale chosiyana kwathunthu: adagawana nane zonse zomwe zidachitika m'masiku ake. Nkhani zake zinali zakukhosi kwambiri kwakuti sindinalolere kuzisokoneza.
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Wonenaninso: Amayi, omwe adakwanitsa kukhazikitsa ubale ndi mwana wake wamkazi
Chinsinsi chawoneka
Tsiku la Kuwala Mwadzidzidzi kunabwera - ndinazindikira kuti ndimalakwitsa. Chilichonse chinachitika pagawo lazosangalatsa pamene Semnon adakana konse kusewera ndi Tolik. Ndakhala ndikukwiya kwambiri, ndipo ndidaganiza zolanga mwanayo - ndidamuwonetsa kuti ndi osathokoza ndi chiyani? Seme anayamba ku Hoysterics, misozi, ndinayesa, koma sanathe kumugwetsa. Anamugwira ndikubweretsa mumsewu kuti tikambirane.
Tidakhala pansi pa shopu yapafupi, ndidamukumbatira mwamphamvu ndikuyamba kulira. Kudzera mu misozi, ndinapempha kuti tinene zomwe zinachitika. Kumva zomwe mwana anena, ine ndinachita mantha. Ndinkamva kwambiri za Gadko zomwe sindingathenso kuchita ... Tsopano ndinazindikira kuti mwana wanga ali bwanji woipa. Sema adanena momwe Tooli adafunkhidwa pa Iye, komanso kumumenyanso, ndipo aliyense amene adabwera m'manja mwake. Komanso, anaika Mwana wake wamwamuna, yemwe adzam'patse ana amasiye, akamuuza amayi ake.
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Koma awa anali maluwa okha. Ndi mkhalidwe wabwino aliyense, wokwatiranayo analankhulanso ndi mwana kuti sindimamukondanso kuti mwana wina adzaonekera posachedwa, kenako ndi pomwe asanu ndi awiriwo sadzafuna mayi. Kodi bambo uyu akufuna kukwaniritsa chiyani, sindikumvetsabe - ngakhale ndikugonjetsedi chidwi changa, ngakhale kuti muwonetse chidwi cha mwana wanga kapena akungomukhulupirira.
AIMA kunandikakamiza mwamphamvu kuti inenso ndinayamba kubangula. Pakapita kanthawi, titachepa, adaganiza, nthawi yakwana kuti mubwererenso zosangalatsa. Tolik, yemwe adawona nkhope zathu, adamvetsetsa zonse. Komabe, sindinamuuze chilichonse. Pofuna kuti musayambe kuchititsa manyazi ndi mwana, tidapita kwa maola angapo kwa bwenzi langa.
Popeza anali yekha ndi mwamuna wake, sindinakhalepo ndi nthawi yoti ndinene chilichonse, popeza Tolik atayamba kundiuza kuti: "Kodi mungakhulupirire bwanji zoyipa izi? Amakudziwitsani mwachindunji! ". Ndinali ndi chidwi ndi mawu oti "gadenash" - ndidayamba kumumenya ndi zofoka ngakhale kuti adatsogolera galimoto.
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Chifukwa cha funso langa, anam'menya, anayankha kuti: "Ndinamenya kangapo."
Yankho lolemera
Kudziwa kuti ndinamuuza zokhulupirika zanga kuti ndikatenge zinthu ndi kutuluka m'nyumba yanga. Choyipa chomvetsa chisoni kwambiri chomwe adayamba kupempha, kupempha chikhululukiro, kulonjeza kuti sipadzakhalanso. Koma ndinali ngati khoma losakhazikika!
Kwa nthawi yayitali zomwe zidachitika ndipo ngakhale tsopano, ndikudzizunza chifukwa cha zomwe ndidachita ndi mwana wanga - wang'ono komanso wopanda chitetezo. Nthawi zambiri ankamlanga chifukwa cha kunyoza Tolik, kuti akhamuke kwa nthawi yayitali m'chipinda chake. Ndikudziwa kuti sindikhululuka ndipo sindimakana kulakwa kwanga. Nditha kungonena chinthu chimodzi chomwe izi zinandiphunzitsa maphunziro abwino. Tsopano palibe munthu amene sadzatenga malo a mwana wake mumtima mwanga!