Mkwatibwi wa Webusayiti ya Reddit yaphunzira zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa kuti apongozi awo azikhala kuukwati. Adafunsa mkwati kuti apange zokongoletsera zawo zokondwerera kwawo, koma china chake chalakwika. Mtsikanayo anayenera kuchita izi, koma munthu wake si wabwino.
Wogwiritsa ntchito tsamba la Redddit ndi Nickname Zaszka kumapeto kwa mwezi wa February adapereka kwa bwenzi lake Sara. Kwa nthawi yayitali adakumana ndi benchi kusukulu. Munthuyo adatsimikiza kuti ichi ndiye chikondi cha moyo wake. Ubwenzi wawo ukhoza kutchedwa wangwiro, koma makolo a Mkwati sanavomereze kusankha kwake. Amayi ndi abambo ali ndi chidaliro kuti amapeza batch.
Mnyamatayo ndi wosasangalatsa amene makolo samazindikira kuti mwana wawo
Kukonzekera ukwati, mtsikanayo adapempha mkwatibwi wa amayi, kuphika zokongoletsera za holo. Nthawi yomweyo adaonjeza kuti ichi ndi cholinga chaufulu, popeza njirayo yokha ndi yokwera mtengo komanso yolemera. Komabe, pempho la mtsikanayo linakwiyitsa apongozi ake aakazi.
Mayi anga anagubuduza chochititsa chidwi, ndipo anati palibe chomwe chikanachita chilichonse. Komanso, iye anayamba kutitonthoza. Amati sitikusamala za iye, ndiye sasamala momwe ukwati uno udzathe. Sara adakhumudwa pambuyo pa mawu awa.
Mnyamatayo, ataphunzira zomwe zinachitika, nthawi yomweyo amayi. Anakwiya kwambiri ndipo anamufuula. Koma amayi sanasunthe ndi kuimba mlandu mpongozi wakeyo chifukwa choti amamukumbukira.
Monga sindinayeseretse vutolo ndikupempha Amayi kuti mupepese Mkwatibwi wanga, iye anakana kwathunthu. Chifukwa chake, ndidamuuza kuti sangathe kuukwati.
Ndikudabwa: momwe mungapangire kucheza ndi mpongozi wake: Malangizo asanu othandiza a apongozi
Pambuyo pa zomwe zachitika kwa Zaszka, ndidalemba atate wanga, ndikunena zomwe zidachitika, ndikuti iye, ngati akufuna, akhoza kubwera ku Ukwati. Komabe, lingaliro lotere la abambo sanali mwina.
Zowonadi, Sarah adamva kuwathandizira kwanga ndipo adakondwa kuti ndidamteteza. Komabe, tsopano ndinakhala mdani wa abale onse.
Malinga ndi ogwiritsa ntchito intaneti, zaszka adalowa molakwika. Kupatula apo, kuti tiwoloke Amayi kuchokera pamndandanda wa alendo ndi osavomerezeka. Amakhulupirira kuti amafunikirabe kulankhula naye ndikupeza kunyengerera. Kupatula apo, akadali ukwati wa mwana wamwamuna, osati holide wamba.