Chikondi choyamba ndi chochitika chomwe chidzakumbukiridwe moyo wanga wonse, ndipo china chimatha kukhala chinthu chothandiza muubwenzi wake ndi zipinda zamphamvu. Tsoka ilo, izi sizili bwino nthawi zonse - pafupifupi gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a ana ndi achinyamata chikondi chosakwanira kapena chosasangalala. Makolo, ngati aphunzira za izi, muyenera kuthandiza kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwika kapena njira zofananira.
Zizindikiro za chikondi chosaneneka
Kuti ndi mwana pali cholakwika, adzatha makolo amenewo omwe alibe chidwi nawo. Wachinyamata amatsekedwa, kutopa ndi makalasi wamba, amasiya kuphunzira. Ambiri amazimiririka, koma ukhoza kukhala seti - mwana "amalemba" zomwe adakumana nazo. Potengera makolo ndi akulu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zifukwa zosintha, osagwirizana amayamba pafupifupi, mikangano yotseguka ndi kusamvera. Koma ubale wabwino kwambiri ndi m'modzi mwa abwenzi (atsikana) amakhala pafupi kwambiri, mwachinsinsi. Koma theka la achinyamata akukumana ndi tsoka lokondana ndi kwawo, kutsegula wina kuti asakhale mutu wa kusekedwa, koyambirira kwa onse.
Tsopano makolo ndiosavuta. Ana amakono nthawi zambiri amajambula phula lawo lililonse ndikulemba zokhudzana ndi malingaliro azomwe amakumana nazo pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ndipo ikani zithunzi ndi zolemba kangapo pa tsiku. Kale kutsegulidwa kwa zonse zomwe mungawone momwe mwana amakhalira. Chifukwa chake yang'anani nthawi zambiri pamasamba a ana anu, koma osasinthika.
Monga lamulo, mwachikondi, achinyamata amayamba kuthera nthawi yayitali kunja kwa nyumbayo, amakhala nthawi yayitali m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, pokambirana ndi foni. Amafunsa ndalama zambiri ndikuyamba kumvetsera mwachidwi kaonekedwe kake, komwe kumakhala kosasangalatsa.
Kusintha kwina: Kusamala kwathunthu kuchokera kwa zenizeni mothandizidwa ndi masewera apakompyuta, mowa, kulumikizana ndi abwenzi kapena masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Pali ma tabup angapo akulu akulu, omwe amaphwanya akatswiri amisala osavomerezeka:
- Usalumbire zinthu za ana - matumba a zinthu, matumba, mabokosi a matebulo. Khalidwe lotere lidzachotsa mwanayo ndi kulimbikitsa Enativism.
- Palibenso chifukwa chowongolera foni yam'manja komanso pakompyuta yaunyamata.
- Ndikosatheka kuletsa mwana kuti achokeko kwina - athawirapo, nthawi yayitali amamupatsa mwana yekhayo chifukwa cha nthawi zambiri.
- Sikofunikira kudzudzula chikhumbo chofuna kusintha china chake, koma makolo ochepa ndi omwe amatha kuwonerera zoyesayesa zotere, mosakha mtima osatsutsa mwana. Ndikwabwino kungovomereza zomwe zikuchitika - nthawi zambiri zikhumbo zoterezi zimadutsa.
- Osamachita chidwi ndi zomwe zikuchitika.
- Osaseka mwanayo ndipo osaseka malingaliro ake - sizowopsa kuposa akulu.
Zotsatira zoyipa za kuvulaza
Mulimonsemo, osavutirapo ndi vuto la malingaliro.
- Ngati tiribe wachinyamata, yemwe amavutika ndi chikondi chosayenera, ndiye kuti vuto la malingaliro limatha.
- Ambiri ali ndi vuto lokhumudwitsa: Kutalika kwa nkhawa, kulakalaka kosalekeza, kusayanjanitsa chilichonse.
- Chimodzi mwazinthu zoopsa nthawi zambiri za atsikana pali kusowa kwa chakudya, kunenepa kulemera kwa anorexia.
- Povuta kwambiri, achinyamata atha kukhala ndi malingaliro pazokhudza kulibe, malingaliro okhudza kusakayikira kuti akhale ndi moyo.
Zoyenera Kuchita Makolo
Makolo ayenera kuchita zinthu zambiri. Sikuyenera kuyamba kupanga mwana mafunso okhudza chikondi, mavuto kusukulu. ZOFUNIKIRA:
- Pewani mafunso, kulankhulana kuyenera kukhala mwanzeru momwe tingathere;
- Mverani, thandizo, mumvetse, ngakhalenso kumvera chisoni;
- Mutha kudziwa za chikondi chanu choyamba, osangobwezera;
- Lankhulanani ndi wachinyamata modekha momwe mungathere, osati kufotokozera zokhumudwitsa, musamutsutse kuti ndi "kusankha" chosankha "chosankha;
- sakani kulumikizana ndi anzanu;
- Yesetsani kusinthana ndi maphwando ena kuti pakhale moyo womwe sugwirizana ndi maubale - tumizani paulendo, lembani maphunziro atsopano, bwerani ndi mitundu yatsopano;
- Adzafuna, kapena kuvomerezedwa kwa mwana, yesani kumvetsetsa.