Chikondi, lemekezani, kumvetsetsa - zonsezi - zonsezi komanso zomveka, popanda iwo ndizotheka kuti tisayankhule za ubale. Sitikuima pamiyambo yodziwika bwino komanso yodziwika bwino. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe si onse omwe samadziwa za zomwe sizivuta kuzizindikira pamtunda.
Ndikuwululira malamulo anu oyambira 3 achimwemwe komanso ogwirizana
1) maubale amafunika kuti achite. Ngati mukhulupirira kuti aliyense ali kokwanira kukumana ndi "munthu wake" wake, kenako nkhondo zonse zikuluzikulu ndi moyo wabanja, ndiye kuti ndikukhumudwitseni. Ayi, sizotheka. Katunduyu amaphatikizapo chisamaliro, chisamaliro, chikondi ndi chithandizo, chidwi cha wokondedwa wawo komanso kusanyalanyaza kwathunthu. Dzimangireni nokha mkanjo kapena kugula chomera, mumamvetsetsa kuti muyenera kusamalira munthuyu. Ndikufuna kupeza ntchito yabwino, pangani ntchito - muyenera kuphunzira kwambiri, ndikukula, kulumikizana ndi mkulu wogwirizana wa anthu, etc. Ndikufuna ubale wodzazidwa ndi wogwirizana - muyenera kulimbikitsa kulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu kuti zisavomerezedwe, zodabwitsa, kusamvana, kumabweretsa chisokonezo.
2) Pasayenera kukhala chiwawa paubwenzi wabwino. Chiwawa sichingakhale chakuthupi, chomwe ndi mawonekedwe owopsa kwambiri. Kuwongolera, Kukhumba Kukumbukira Munthu - Ichi ndi mtundu wa chiwawa. Mukakumana ndi munthu ndikuwona china chake chomwe sichikukugwirizanitsa inu, ndikuvomera kumanga ubale ndi iye, malinga ndi zomwe zikuchitika, ndiye kuti poyambirira. Choyamba, ndizosatheka kusintha chikhalidwe cha munthu. Kachiwiri, nthawi zonse mukhala mukulakwira, mkwiyo, kukhumudwitsidwa ndi wokondedwa wake, chifukwa kusintha umunthu wake kwa inu. Ndipo lachitatu, mwakutero mudzawonetsa chiwawa wokondedwa wanu kuti mwachiwonekere ndizosiyana ndi ubale wabwino.
Mitundu ya anthu imagwiranso ntchito. Kutsutsa mnzako ndikololedwa pokhapokha ngati silammwa komanso ndi chilolezo chake. Kufuula, kutukwana, up-up, kugwiritsa ntchito mawu onyansa adilesi ya mnzake kumawerengedwa kuti ndi mawonekedwe achiwawa. Matekezo ndizakuti mnzakeyo amapeza pang'ono kapena ndikuti amawononga kwambiri, osawopseza kuchokera pagulu "Simupezanso ndalama," "Sindikukulolani kuti mugule foni yatsopano", etc. Fotokozerani zachiwawa zachuma. Muubwenzi wabwino, sayenera kukhala malo. Nthawi ngati imeneyi, timabwereranso m'ndime 1 ndi kumanga kulankhulana ndi wokondedwa popanda kumvana ndi zotsika mtengo. Ndikofunika kuwonetsera bwino chifukwa chake mukufuna ndalama, momwe mungawonjezere ndalama, momwe mungathandizire kuti mnzanuyo apeza ndalama zambiri. Mayanjano mwa awiri - tonse.
Chizindikiro cha maubwenzi pomwe pali chiwawa chimatha kukhala ngati manyazi, kudziimba mlandu, mantha, kusungulumwa kuchokera kwa m'modzi wa abwenzi.
3) Kusamala pakati pake ndikupereka / kutenga ndi nambala yofanana ya inu ndi mphamvu zomwe mumalandira kuchokera kwa mnzanu. Chomveka komanso chovuta kwambiri kukhazikitsa mfundoyi. Nthawi zambiri zimawoneka kwa ife kuti timadzipereka, ndipo titabweranso timakumana ndi zoopsa. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kudziwitsa chidwi chanu. Ganizirani ndi Kuyeza. Ndipereka chitsanzo chosavuta. Pambuyo pa tsiku, mnzanuyo adakutumizirani mauthenga awiri ndi zomwe adakondwera kucheza nanu. Yankhani pafupifupi mtundu womwewo ndi kuchuluka kwa mauthenga. Osamizidwa munthu mumphepo yamkuntho yomwe muli nayo. Kapena ngati ndinu okhazikika, ndipo mnzanu munjira iliyonse akuwonetsa momwe akumvera, akuwonetsa chidwi chake, chikuwonetsa chisamaliro, yesani kudziwonetsa nokha. Ngati, inde, mukufuna kukulitsa ubalewu.
Patsiku la okonda onse, ndikufuna ndikulakalaka aliyense amene ali pachibwenzi, ukwati, umakhala ndi banja labwino komanso lolimba komanso losangalala. Ndi kwa onse amene akadafunabe madero awo, mwachangu kuti athe kuzipeza. Kumbukirani kuti ndife achida cha chisangalalo chathu. Chitani ubale wawo, chilimbikitse ndipo musaiwale kuti nonse muyenera kulandira chisangalalo kwa iwo.
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