Chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira Abambo?

Zochulukirapo, zochulukirapo, zonse zimakhala zokonda, ndabweranso funsoli komanso yankho "inde Niza, tidzadutsamo."

Zochulukirapo, zochulukirapo, zonse zimakhala zokonda, ndabweranso funsoli komanso yankho "inde Niza, tidzadutsamo." Zikuwonekeratu kuti amayi omwe adatsala okha ayenera kudzitchinjiriza kuti mwana wawo asakhale ndi kholo lachiwiri. Komanso, amayi akamaganiza kuti ali ndi chilema popanda mwamuna komanso ngati mkazi, komanso ngati mayi, ndiye kuti ndiye tsoka, ndipo izi sizothandiza kwa mwana. Kuphatikiza apo, ziwerengero zambiri za makolo ofala mwina popanda abambo, kapena pokhapokha, komanso kumwa motero, motero sizimangofalikira nthawi zonse zomwe angathe kuchita.

Makasitomala Anga Ambiri, ndipo amuna abwino sadziwa momwe angakhalire Abambo omwe angapereke, chifukwa chiyani amafunikira mwana ndi chifukwa chiyani amafunikira mwana. Kuti mumve chifukwa chomwe mukufunikira mwana ndidalemba zambiri komanso mwatsatanetsatane mu Journato ya mwana wanga wamkazi. Ichi ndi chonchi chodabwitsa chomwe chimawoneka ngati inu - ndipo mosasamala bwino, chimapangitsa zoseketsa, zimapangitsa, chikondi ndi kusangalala komanso zosangalatsa komanso zodula.

Chifukwa chiyani akufunika bambo? Ndikuuzani momwe zimawonekera pamaziko a zomwe ndikudziwa kuchokera ku zama psychotherapetic. Komanso kuchokera kwa mwana.

Kuzindikira

Mwanayo amabwera kudziko lapansi ndipo amaphunzira kukhalamo. Sadziwa zomwe abambo awo anali osiyana ndi akazi, chifukwa chake muyenera kuphunzira zomwe zimakhala zosangalatsa - nkhani kapena umakhala, momwe simuyenera kusewera ndi mnzanu, momwe mungayankhire mwano. Komanso zinthu zopanda malire.

Amayi, agogo ake ndi okongola. Koma ndi akazi. Ndipo amayang'ana dziko la akazi, ngakhale kuti izi ndi zosiyana kwambiri. Abambo amayang'ananso wina - wamwamuna. Ndipo amalankhula za dziko lachimuna, monga momwe adalimbikitsira kuti amayamikiridwa zomwe zimaganiziridwa kuti ndizofunikira. Chosangalatsa ndi chiyani. Ndi zomwe Iye, amasiyana ndi anthu ena, ndi zomwe amawoneka ngati iwo.

Ndi zothandiza komanso zachinyamata, komanso mtsikana. Chosavuta kwambiri ndi bambo a mnyamatayo akhoza kufotokozera momwe angagonjere mtsikanayo, mtsikanayo - abambo ayenera kuopa chiyani. Mukudziwa zanga, bambo nthawi zonse ankakhala wosavuta komanso wolondola kuposa mayi anga.

Inde, ndipo kwa mtsikanayo ndi wofunikira kwambiri modabwitsa kudziwa kuti pali amuna abwino mdziko lapansi omwe adzasamalire mabanja awo kapena mwana wawo. Ndipo azimayi ena akamuuza kuti "Inde, onse amasintha, safuna ana kwa onse," adzatsutsa. Chifukwa ali ndi bambo yemwe amamukonda, amasamala za iye, samapweteketsa mkazi (ngati si chikhalidwe chofuna kumuvulaza kapena banja lake). Ndipo mnyamatayo adzakhala patsogolo pa maso munthu amene saopa kulera ana ndipo saganizira za zolemetsa. Ndipo koposa zonse - adzakula, podziwa za mayiko ndi zomwe zimasiyana ndi zachikazi.

Chisangako

Ndimaona chidwi ndi mwana wanga chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuposa chikondi. Chifukwa choti mutha kukonda mwana wanu ndipo sindikudziwa chilichonse chokhudza nkhaniyi. "Mukuchita chiyani?", "Chifukwa chiyani?", Chifukwa chiyani mipira yachikasu imakhala yabwinoko kuposa zobiriwira? " Ndipo kalulu wakhala wamtali mano? " - Dziko la mwana lili ndi mavuto, zomwe zapezedwa, zosowa. Amatha kuwoneka ngati akulu achilendo, koma ngati amaganiza - mwana adzawatsegulira.

Ndipo abambo ake amamuuza mwana za zomwe zili zosangalatsa kwa iye. Ndipo mwanayo adzadziwa zambiri za izi ndipo mwina ngakhalenso amalumikizanso moyo wake.

Sindigwiritsa ntchito kuthekera kolipiritsa mfuti, mafilimu apamwamba ndikuyang'ana macheredwe m'nkhalango ya chipale chofewa. Koma ndimakonda kwambiri mwana. Ndipo koposa zomwe ndimakonda kupita kunkhalango yolumikizidwa modabwitsa ndi bambo anga, ndikumvera nkhani zake za nyama ndi mwachangu pa soseji yamoto kapena soseji. Ndipo kumukwera kuti agwire ntchito, mu garaja wovekedwa mafuta. Chifukwa ndi dziko la Atate wanga momwe iye amakondera. Chifukwa chake, ndiwosangalatsa.

Mwinanso kusaka kampaniyo ndi mtsikana wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi yemwe samadziwa momwe angayendetsere mchengayo sikungakhale kothandiza pankhani ya nyama. Koma kuti mtsikana wina wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi azilandira ndipo abambo ake akulandira m'nkhalango kuti akakhale moyo, mwa lingaliro langa, ndilofunika. Chinthu chachikulu sichotsanu ndikuwonera onse a iwo. Kukoka munthu ku zofuna zake m'nkhalango 13, kusankha kusewera, pamapeto pake, mwa abambo - kale, kulephera.

Chikondi

Chikondi cha amuna ndi chosiyana ndi chachikazi. Zachidziwikire, zonse zili payekha payekhapayekha, koma Atate adandilola kukhala. Nthawi zina amandiwopsa, chifukwa mawonekedwe a unyamata wanga anali wachipembedzo chabe, ndipo tsopano ndine nthawi yachisanu ndi ine, ngati mngelo wabata chete. Koma mwana wanga wonse ndimadziwa kuti abambo amandikonda ndendende zomwe ndili. Osati za asanu apamwamba (ngakhale adanyadira za iwo), osathandiza banja (nthawi zonse ndimakhala waulesi kwa ine), koma chifukwa cha kuumirira, ndikuyang'ana lingaliro langa. Ndinkamupempha kuti akhale ndekha. Ndi chidziwitso monga ine, ndimatha kundikonda.

Agogo ndi azakhali adatsitsidwa. Nthawi zina amayi adalowa nawo. Nthawi zambiri ankandiwerengera pamutuwu "mtsikana wabwino". Koma ndinadziwa kuti abambo anga anali olondola.

Atamwalira, ndinapeza chikwama cha bigadier, chomwe adandilowetsa, kona yaying'ono ya ndege, yomwe adapondera Amayi ali m'chipatala. Zinalembedwa kuti akuyembekezera ine ndi amayi, ndipo amatikonda kwambiri. Sindikhulupirira kuti kuchita zinthu ngati izi ndi kufooka. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri kwa ine. Kwa ine, ngodya iyi ndi mtengo wokwera mtengo kuposa nyumbayo, yomwe ndidathandizira kugula makolo anga. Amatanthawuza - Abambo anga amafuna kuti ndibadwe.

Mwana wanga wamkazi akakula, ndimuwonetsa ndakatulo yomwe ndidatumiza bambo ake ku SMS pomwe ndimakhala ku chipatala cha amayi, ndipo zithunzi zomwe adajambula ndili ndi pakati. Ndipo adzadziwa - tidamdikirira pamodzi. Tinkafuna kuti zikhale. Ndi maziko ofunikira padziko lapansi kosavuta. Ndipo ndizosavuta kukhululukira makolo chifukwa cha zinyalala zomwe zimachitika pambuyo pake. Ndipo osapanga zinyalala zomwe sangathe konse.

Thandiza

Amayi ndi abambo ndi anthu osiyanasiyana. Amapeza zinthu zosiyanasiyana mosiyanasiyana. Pali zovuta zomwe amayi amasankha zolimba kuposa abambo. Pali china chake chomwe chimakhala bwino. Nditakula, ndinadziwa kuti ndalama, mwachitsanzo, pa bukuli, ndizosavuta kubwezeretsa abambo. Chifukwa cha amayi akuwerenga - china chake ngati masangwelere a chokoleti. Ndipo kwa Atate, Bukhu lililonse lomwe ndidawerenga linali kunyada. Ndinkadziwa kuti mwachikondi, abambo sakananditsutsa, koma anamva ndi kunena za Ake Omwe. Zinandithandiza kwambiri.

Adada nkhawa kuti ndi ndani yemwe ndimakhala naye. Amandiuza kuti ndimakhala ndi ndalama za hostel, ndipo theka - mabanki okhala ndi nsomba zofiira, mahola, amayi omwe ndalama amathera, ndipo sindigula zinthu zosangalatsa komanso zothandiza.

Ulemu

Ichi ndi chinthu china chofunikira - ichi ndi kulemekeza mwana. Thupi Lake. Nthawi. Zokonda. Mfundo yoti amayamikila ndi kukonda, ngakhale zitabalalika ku chimbalangondo chomaliza.

Abambo anga sakonda kunditcha dzina. Koma atatamanda, ndinadziwa kuti zinalidi. Amadziwa kuti pali zinthu zofunika kwa ine, ndipo anayesa kuwawononga. Nditawerenga mochedwa, sanalumbire, ankadziwa kuti m'mawa ndimakhala kusukulu. Anachitira modekha mfundo yoti ndimavala komanso kumvetsera, ngakhale atapanda kuzikonda kwambiri, sanataye kunja, koma anangotaya masiketi anga, koma anafunsa kuti achite izo. Ndipo ndinachita TV yabata, ngakhale panali mpira, ngati ndikanaphunzira mchipinda changa ndikumupempha kuti achepetse voliyumuyo. Ndipo sanaphwanye mgwirizano.

Chifukwa cha abambo ake, ndikudziwa kuti pali amuna omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi mkazi wanzeru wokhala ndi maonekedwe okongola opanda mafuta. Kodi amuna omwe sadzadzutsa mkazi ndani? Amene sasintha mkazi wawo, chifukwa amamulemekeza ndi chikondi. Zili ndi mawu oterowo. Pali amuna omwe amakonda ndi kudziwa kungophika, komanso kusamba mbale ndikupita kukagula zinthu. "Kupatula apo, ali olemera, ndipo amayi ako sangakhale olemera kuti alere." Ndi kufinya zovala zamkati, chifukwa cha izi muyenera mphamvu yakuthupi.

Nthawi yomweyo, sanali munthu wowunikiridwa kwambiri padziko lapansi. Inalibe dontho la ukazi. Anamaliza makalasi 8, maphunziro a maso ndi maphunziro a woyendetsa. Adatumikira mu Asitikali. Moyo wanga wonse unagwira ntchito yoyendetsa, ndipo kwa nthawi yayitali - pamatanthwe. Ndidayendetsa mapaipi, adayendetsa "nsanja", wopereka mafuta. Analemba molakwika ndi zolakwa za galamala ndipo sadzapeza monga abambo ena mumzinda wathu. Ndidavala malaya a Checker Checnell ndi Jeans, ndipo sizinali kupanda chidwi ndi zomwe anali mitundu. Izi zimatchedwa "Wogwira Ntchito Mosavuta". Anaswa ndikugudubuza ma hysteria nthawi ndi nthawi, amatha kuvutika maganizo. Anali ndi zofooka zambiri komanso zonyansa kwambiri abambo ake, komanso ubwana wake, chifukwa sanali wofunika kwambiri. Ndipo nthawi zina zinali zovuta kwa ine, koma ndimadziwa kuti ndimaya kwambiri m'moyo, ngakhale panthawi yovuta kwambiri yomwe amandikonda.

Ndipo ine ndinatengera zitsanzo za ubale wathu ndi iye kuti zidziwike: Itha kupangitsa munthu aliyense pa mwana wake. Izi sizophweka, koma mwina. Tifunikira kufuna.