Anthu amakumana, anthu amayamba kukondana, kukwatiwa. Ndipo zimachitika ndikusinthana, ndipo ndinalibe nthawi yochezera korona. Chifukwa chiyani pali ubale wina amapezeka mwangwiro, ndipo amakhala mosangalala m'moyo mpaka masiku awo. Pomwe ena amalumbira, kukangana ndi kusinthira, nthawi zambiri kuchitika, kuloza mzere chifukwa cha chisudzulo "sikunayerekeze otchulidwa."
Inde, ndikofunikira kuti mudziwe m'moyo wa munthu wanu, wokhala ndi theka, omwe muli ndi ubale wogwirizana, ndani adzakulikireni, ndipo mudzakhala amodzi.
Masiku ano m'magazini yomwe timakupatsaninso malamulo osavuta a ubale wachimwemwe
Atsikana, dzipangeni zolembedwa! Kutsatira malamulo awa, simudzakhala nokha ndipo mutha kukhala ndi ubale wathanzi, komanso zofunika kwambiri.
1. Musafananize ubale wanu ndi mabanja ena
M'zaka za zana la malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndizovuta kuchita. Kupatula apo, zithunzi zingati zosangalatsa zimatsitsa abwenzi anu pazisamba zawo. Koma kodi pali chilichonse chomwe chimakuda ndi kutchulidwa ndi mwapadera m'miyoyo yawo monga chithunzi? Mukuwonetsa mbali imodzi ya moyo wawo, koma simudzadziwa zomwe zikubisala pazithunzi zabwinozi. Banja lirilonse limadziwika la omwe ali ndi maudzu ndi kugwa, amakangana, ndikusamvetsetsa, komanso mwina kuyimirira ndikuyanjanso, kapena kupitanso patsogolo.
Kungoyang'ana mkangano wotsatira ndi chiganizo, pomwe ena amapereka mwayi wina. Osayerekeza osankhidwa anu ndi bwenzi. Mwamuna aliyense ali ndi mphamvu zake zonse ndi zofooka zake. Phunzirani kuyamikira zomwe muli nazo pano ndipo tsopano. Ndipo pokhapokha mungamve kuti ndi chisangalalo chenicheni cha moyo.
2. Osamvera ma soviets kuchokera kumbali, kuchita ketuloOkwatirana anu akaphatikiza ndi zovuta, malangizo ndi malingaliro odalirika adzakwezedwa mbali zonse. Aliyense adzayesa kukuphunzitsani moyo, gawani zomwe mwakumana nazo, yesani kukuikani. Zikatero, ndikofunikira kukumbukira Lamulo la Chikhalidwe - Banja lililonse lili ndi mbiri yake, ubale wawo ndi kumvetsetsa kwawo chisangalalo. Ndipo simumafunikira nthawi zonse kuti mupange ubale wanu monga amayi anu, mlongo kapena bwenzi. Zochitika ndizothandiza, zimadzitengera zokha, koma mawu omaliza akadali anu. Tsatani mtima wanu. Sizinyenga.
3. Osapereka nthawi yanu yonse
Palibe amene amalankhula kuti asiye ntchito, chifukwa zimatenga nthawi yanu yonse yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito mwa wokondedwa wanu. Koma amagwira ntchito mobwerezabwereza pakusintha kwa nthawi yomwe itha kugwidwa naye, sizoyenera.
Ngakhale dongosolo lanu ladzaza, muyenera kupaka nthawi yomwe mungakhale limodzi: pitani ku sinema, ndikupemphani kuti mukhale ndi maphwando achikondi, kwezani utoto wa sabata limodzi powona mafilimu omwe mumakonda. Ntchito sizipita kulikonse, koma munthu wanu amalephera chifukwa cha chisamaliro chawo mwachangu chitha kupita kumanzere kwa wosewera ntchito ngati izi.
4. Osatembenuza kugonana kukhala wambaChidwi chikatha mu awiriwo, ndipo kuyandikira kwapamtima ndikosowa, kumatha kubweretsa chisangalalo. Ngati mukuwona kuti kugonana kwanu kugonana kwanu kuli pafupifupi, tengani mwayi wawo. Zitha kusintha mu zinthu, zolaula zamkati, masewera osewera pamapeto owonda, ndipo mwina zinthu zatsopano. Osamapembedzera kugonana kotopetsa!
5. Dalirani malingaliro olakwika kutaliNdikofunika kuti maubale anu sakhala awiriawiri nthawi zonse amawonetsa momwe akumvera nthawi zonse. Zimachitika kuti kukayikira, mantha komanso kusatetezeka kumatenga, ndipo inu nokha mutha kupewa izi. Phunzirani kuwongolera malingaliro anu osalimbikitsa komanso kuthana nawo. Kupanda kutero, ngati mupereka ulesi ndikulola kuti akhale m'mutu wanu ndi moyo, pewani kudziletsa kuti mukhale osatetezeka ngati mukufuna kuti maubale awa, ngati mukufuna munthu pafupi nanu. Amuna omwe ali padenga lanzeru amamva, kumbukirani!
6. Dziperekeni tchuthi kamodzi pachaka
Zachidziwikire, banja lililonse, kuyamba kukhala limodzi, zoopsa kuti zilowe mu ma netiweki ndi mabanja, yankho lomwe limafunikira mphamvu ndi mitsempha. Ikhoza kukonza, kugwira ntchito, ana. Chifukwa chake, kamodzi pachaka, khalani ndi nthawi komanso mwayi wosiya zonse, ngakhale sabata limodzi, ndikupangitsa kuti ubale wanu uyambitsenso. Kuchoka momwe mungathere, thimitsani mafoni ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuti azisangalala ndi anthu ena. Tsopano muona kwanu mudzabwerenso ku mphamvu zonse, magulu, amphamvu, osangalala komanso ngati osinthira.
7. Penyani inu ndi mnzanu kuti mukhale pa gawo limodzi la ubale.Mwa awiri, zimachitika kawirikawiri, amakhala wokonzeka kukhala ndi banja labwino, anafuna ukwati wokongola, ana, ndipo yemweyo sanafike ndipo sapita mwachangu kukatsogolera mfumu yake pansi pa korona. Ndipo pangani ubale wokondwa pali mwayi chabe wa okhawo omwe angagwirizane ndi mapulani amtsogolo. Ndipo pali njira ziwiri zothetsera vutoli: Yambani kuzindikira awiri anu ngati ife, osati ine ndi zikhumbo zanga, kapena kuti tisawononge moyo wako wina ndi mnzake.
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