Timapitiliza mndandanda wazidanda za photorights of therew of the wokongola komanso zaumoyo, omwe malingaliro angadalire kuti zana. Nthawi ino, Yulia Yuhhanson - katswiri wazachikulire wazaka zambiri, zomwe zidakhala kwa nthawi yayitali ku Asia ndi Europe, kenako ndikubwerera ku Russia ndikutsegula mafunso omwe amapezeka pamaso pa owerenga ndi mzati wake wakale. Ndiye, kodi moyo wofanana ndi bwanji ndi momwe ungakwaniritsire?
Nthawi yapitayo, tinakambirana za kuti ngati tingakhalebe ofunika pa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, ofanana, ndiye kuti tidzakonza modekha komanso mogwirizana. Ndiye mungakwaniritse bwanji zowonjezera? Kodi pali chinsinsi chilichonse? Amadziwika kuti ngati titakhala ndi makabati, pepala ndi kupulumutsa malo athu ku zinthu zosafunikira, zochitika zatsopano ndi malingaliro athu zimabwera m'moyo wathu, kudzoza. Ndipo ngati tisamala zinthu zowonjezera, nanga bwanji "zowonjezera", zikulepheretsa malingaliro?
Pepani, kukhumudwitsidwa, kudzitsutsa, kaduka - malingaliro onsewa amaba danga lathu, kutilepheretsa ife kukhala ndi moyo.
Koma zinyalala ngati zinyalala m'nyumba sizitha, sizidzatha ndipo zinyalala m'mutu sizitha, "pali ntchito mosamala, mwadongosolo. Izi ndizofanana monga kuyeretsa wamba: Kufufuza zomwe mukufuna, ndi zomwe sizili, kenako dzichotsere nokha ku zosafunikira komanso zosafunikira. Imatha kukhala yovuta kuposa zinyalala zotchinga, chifukwa mudzadzitcheni nokha ndi malingaliro anu. Koma chifukwa cha malire ayenera kuchita.
Musanafike "kuyeretsa", dzifunseni mafunso otsatirawa:
- Ndi maubale ati omwe amachotsedwa?
- Kodi osasuta mavuto otani?
- Kodi pali ntchito zatsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zimabweretsa nkhawa?
- Kodi mumakhala osavomerezeka otani?
- Kodi amatchedwa chiyani?
Pokhapokha poyeserera ndi kusanthula vutoli, titha kupanga mapulani oyeretsa mutu kuchokera zinyalala ndipo ngati zikuyenda bwino, kuti abweretse dongosolo. Musaope kumasulira moyo wanu ku "anthu oopsa" omwe samakupangitsani kumva bwino polankhulana.
Komanso, malire athu amaphwanya mfundo yoti nthawi zambiri timaiwala za inu nokha, kusamalira bwino moyo wa omwe ali pafupi ndi ife. Ndipo Sosaite, Tsoka ilo, akutiphunzitsa kuyambira ndili mwana, makamaka azimayi, zomwe muyenera kuziganizira ndizosavuta.
Koma ngati mutsatira malamulo awa, mutha kuyiwala msanga za kukhala kwanu!
Kuti muthe kusamalira ena, muyenera, choyambirira, kuzindikira kwanu ndikusunga gwero lanu. Ganizirani za nthawi yanu yanyuka, musalole pang'ono kudzipereka nokha. Mwina zikhala mphindi 5 ndi kapu ya tiyi chete, chakudya cham'mawa chokha kapena ola la kutikita minofu kuchokera kwa katswiri. Dziyang'anireni kuti muthe kusamalira ena ndikusunga bwino mkati!