Osati kalekale, omwe timalandira pa intaneti kuchokera kwa owerenga, omwe amafuna kuphunzira momwe angafotokozere mnzanu zakusanja kwa mwanayo: Chips ndi "maphunziro".
Ili ndi funso labwino kwenikweni, chifukwa limakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri ndipo ambiri sakhala ochulukirapo (mwatsoka).
Chifukwa chake, m'mabuloni ndi malingaliro, panali zojambula zingapo zotetezera "zolondola" za kholo. Amati, palibe chilichonse pamenepa, "amayi abwino" amayi amakokomeza pamlingo woyipa wa kumenyedwayo pamalingaliro a Psycho-Maganizo a mwana, ndipo onse alibe chiwawa.
Modabwitsa, koma chowona: Kukana kwa mawu ndi kuyesa kunyalanyaza mtengo wake weniweni sugwira ntchito ngati matsenga, kupulumutsa zotsatira za chiwawa.Mwachidule, mikangano yambiri ngati nkotheka kumenya ana (milungu, monga momwe ingathere!), Chilichonse chakukula, ndipo ndimaganiza kuti tifunika kukambirana za izi. Osati za zokambirana zakhazikitsidwa, koma zochita ndi malingaliro a mtundu wa zilango zachikhalidwe zathu pa zonse za chilango cha chilango monga njira yolimbikitsira.
Kuthamanga pa denga, tinaganiza zogwirira ntchito ndi mutu wankhani zathu za chifukwa chake sikofunikira kumenya kwa ana, omwe adalemba ndi Yaver , pa Twitter kenako ndidalemba za katswiri wazamisala komanso wasayansi za mbiri ya psychology ya Moscow State University Vera Yakupova ndikumupempha kuti apite ndi ine paulendo wotsutsana ndi ana.
Sindingawononge kwambiri, "mutha kuwona mtsinje wathu mu mbiriyo - koma ndikufuna kunena kuti zinthu zambiri zofunika zokhudzana ndi mutu wa zachiwawa zanditsegulira ku mbali yatsopano.
Mwachitsanzo, zimapezeka kuti anthu omwe amatiuza kuti "tidatimenya - ndi chilichonse" (ndipo pitilizani kutsatira maximu ndi makolo awo), koma ovulala kwambiri paubwana Chiwawa komanso chimenecho chomwe adalenga anthu ofunika kwambiri m'miyoyo yawo, sangavomereze kuti ichotse.
Uwu ndi msampha wa chiwawa: sungakhulupirire kuti munthu wapamwamba akhoza kuchita izi ndi inu. Ndipo ngati ndingathe, zikutanthauza kuti izi ndi zolakwika ndi inu - "Sindinamvetsetse mosiyanasiyana."Mwambiri, zonsezi zili zomvetsa chisoni - mbali imodzi, ndizosatheka kuyang'ana momwe anthu amakana zodziwikiratu (slaps sizikubweretsa chisoni), muyenera kubweretsa chisoni chanu. Onani ana ang'onoang'ono ovulala omwe sayenera kumenyedwa.
Mosiyana ndi makolo omwe makolo samva ngati akuyesetsa kuti afotokozere za ziwawa monga zabwino - amati, koma zonse zomwe zimakhala zitakhala kuti sizingamenyane!
Chiwawa chikaitanidwa ndi dzina lake ndipo makolo ali pachiwopsezo akufuna njira zina zolanga - mkati mwa mlengalenga takhala tikufunsa mafunso ambiri "," Ife, pamutu pawo tikupempha kuti akhudze "," inde popeza mukunena choncho, musakhale ndi ana, motero mukuganiza kuti mutha kudzudzula. " Koma zinthu zonsezi ndizakuti zilaula - zilizonse - izi sizomwe zimapangitsa kuti musuke, zimangowachotsa.
Kodi, osalanga chiyani? Mwambiri, inde, osalanga.M'malo mwake, kuti mukhale wamkulu yemwe amamvetsetsa kuti mwanayo ndi wowona, kwenikweni sakumvetsetsa zinthu zambiri - komanso ubale wa causal nawonso. Inde, pang'onopang'ono, makamaka ngati mufotokozera mosalekeza, imasamuka ndi kudula kuti sichofunikira kuchita zomwe zingakhale zoopsa. Pakadali pano - khalani ndi chipiriro ndi udindo.
Ndipo mukafuna kugunda mwana wanu, ingokumbukirani kuti izi si zochokera komwe mulibe kutuluka komwe sikutanthauza kusankha. Imani, khalani wamkulu wanu amene angakugwireni phompho la rye. Sizingatheke kusuntha udindo kuti usankhe kuti akweze dzanja lanu pa iye - sayenera kutsutsa kuti mwakhala ochita zachiwawa.
Ndikudzithandiza kuti muzindikire zonsezi, nthawi zambiri momwe mungathere, dzisangalaleni ndiubwana, mwana (kapena alibe mwana), yemwe adamva mantha atalandira pabulu. Kumbukirani, simunaganize konse kuti iwo adayenera - ndipo pomwepo adamvetsetsa zambiri.
Ndipo komabe: Tili ndi zinthu zambiri zolembedwa pothandiza iwo omwe akufuna kuzindikira zovuta za nkhanza m'moyo wa mwana. Apa iwo ali - ndipo ine ndikuwalimbikitsa iwo kuchokera ku mzimu."Nthawi zina zimakhala zokwanira kungomumvera mwanayo": ndichifukwa chake simungathe kukhala chete pankhani zachiwawa. Ngakhale m'magulu ochezera
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Bwanji osamenya ana (ndi zoyenera kuchita kuti achititse)
Ndikhulupirira kuti tsiku lina polemba la "Ana sangathe kumenya" / "kugona ndi chiwawa" chidzakhala chosakhoza kunena kuti udzu ndi wobiriwira, ndipo thambo ndi lamtambo. Simungathe kugunda ana - malingaliro awiri sangathe kukhala pano.
Dzisamalire nokha ndi ana!
Glavred nan.
Lena Avekalayova
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