Osachepera kamodzi m'moyo, tonsefe timagwera pamkhalidwe pomwe sitingathe kupirira ufulu wodziyimira pawokha: Tadwala, ovulala, obera, osiyidwa, osiyidwa m'mikhalidwe yovuta popanda thandizo. Ndipo tiyenera kudalira kwathunthu munthu wosadziwika, ngakhale wodutsa mwachisawawa. Zachidziwikire, iyi ndi chiopsezo chachikulu. Koma mu izi, simuyenera kusankha.
Ndipo komabe, kudalira munthuyu, ngakhale kupyola zowawa ndi kuzindikira komwe kumapangitsa, yesani kuwona zochita zake, ngakhale kuti zikugwirizana ndi zomwe zikuchitika.
Kodi pali ngozi yotani yodalira kwambiri?1. Munthu amene anagwirizana kutithandiza kuzimvetsa bwino. Amadziwa kuti pafupifupi aliyense amene adakumana ndi vuto, ndiye kuti angayamikire ngakhale pang'ono kutenga nawo mbali. Ndikhulupirireni, kuchuluka kwa chiyamikiro chanu kudzakhala kothetsa!
Nachi chitsanzo chochokera m'moyo. Mkazi wachichepere adatsika mumsewu, osasamala popereka ma cyclists. M'modzi mwa iwo, akuyendetsa mbali ya mseri, ndikukhomerera dzanja lake m'manja. Inali pasipoti, ndalama zambiri, kudumpha kugwira ntchito, zikalata zina. Kukwera kumeneku kunatha kumugwira ndikusankha "nyama". Chifukwa cha "njonda" yake adapempha mtsikanayo kuchuluka kwake katatu mtengo wa dzanja lake. Inde, adapereka. (Mwina "zabwino zodutsa" ndipo mwana wachinyamata adagwira ntchito awiri.)
2. Nkhani yomwe idalowererapo munthawi imeneyi kungakhale koopsa kwa olakwa. Mumisala yolozerako pali zitsanzo zomwe zachisonizi zachisonizi zidatenga maanja achichepere, omwe anali akuyenda mumsewu (m'mphepete mwa nkhalangoyi, pakiyo) ndi kukangana. Anamupangitsa kuti akhumudwe ndi kunyoza mnyamatayo kwa mtsikanayo, adabwera ndikumumenya, kenako ndikugwirizira msungwanayo, oletsedwa, etc.
3. Munthu akufuna kukuthandizani. Koma ilibe mipata, luso, mphamvu yakuthupi komanso yamaganizidwe. Mwinanso adadzipereka, amafuna kuti aziwoneka kuti ali ndi vuto la inu kuposa momwe lidalili. Inde, thandizo lake silidzabweretsa phindu lililonse, komanso kupweteketsa mtima.
4. Munavomera kuthandiza chifukwa cha kusokonekera kwa kukana. Koma zenizeni, palibe chomwe chingachitike (sakudziwa bwanji, osafuna, palibe nthawi). Ndipo mukuyembekeza ndikuyembekeza ...
5. Yemwe adanena kuti "adzakuthandizani ndi kusunga", makamaka mdani wanu, amachita nsanje komanso osakhazikika. Ali pano pamene pali china chake chosasangalatsa chimachitika ndi inu, mumakhala opusa, ndi zina zoopsa, ndipo za chochitikacho chingadziwe malo omwe muli .
Chabwino, ngati moyo wanu uchita mawonekedwe kuti mudalire anthu ena: makolo anu, makolo anu, anzanu mkalasi ndi anzanu mkalasi ndi ogwira ntchito, akumenyana nawo. Ngati mukukhulupirira iwo. Kapena zotuluka zina sizinthu chabe. Koma ngati pali mwayi wocheperako, panali mphamvu, zothandizira, chidzakhale moyo - ndikofunikira kudalira nokha. Makamaka pamavuto.
Chiyembekezo ndi chinyengo, miyala m'chipululu, kuti chitsime chimayandikira kwambiri. Monga momwe anayimba mu Soviet nthawi ya Soviet: "Moyo wonse uli patsogolo, Nadya ndikudikirira." Zoseketsa, sichoncho? Koma kodi ndizoyenera kuyembekeza wina, ndikusintha udindo pamoyo wanu pamapewa a anthu ena? Ngakhale munthu akakhala wokoma mtima kwa inu - sakukhumudwa, ngati kuti nthawi zina sazifuna.
Mutha Kuyembekezera Mulungu, chifundo chake chopanda malire, koma nthawi yomweyo amachita - molimba mtima komanso mwachangu. Ndezhhda zokha, popanda chikhulupiriro mwa Iyemwini ndi mu thandizo la Mulungu ndi pomponse - izi ndi zofooka. Chikhulupiriro Chipulumutsiro, chimapatsa mphamvu, chimathandiza kupewa mantha omwe ali ndi munthu yemwe watopa.
Samalirani anthu omwe anakuthandizani, mokoma mtima za moyo wanu. Pali owerengeka okwana tsopano.
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