Ndikukhudza mwachindunji kuchuluka kwa maphunziro pamutu wakuti "Momwe Mungasungire Munthu", "Momwe Mungasungire Mwamuna", "Momwe Mungasankhire Kanthawi Kokha .
Koma ndi nkhani zingati zomwe zinali ndi nkhani ngati izi kale, zomwe zikuwoneka ngati zachiwerewere komanso zokongola ndipo zikukonzekera bwino komanso zakonzeka kuyesa konse, ndipo mwamunayo adapita kukapeza wina.
Ndidagonjetsanso ndikuganiza bwanji ?! Ndipo bwanji sanakhale wokwanira? Pomwe sindinayesere.
Amuna amatha kukonzekeretsa bwino, kuchapa ndi kudziyeretsa. Kungopanga mkazi, sayenera kuchita izi. Ngakhale mutakhala otsimikiza kuti amuna anu sadziwa momwe chofundacho chimasinthira, mumalakwitsa kwambiri. Adzamvetsetsa msanga izi ngati zikusowa mwadzidzidzi! Ndiye mkazi akaganiza kuti sadzakhala ndi moyo wopanda tsiku lake, akulakwitsa kwambiri. Koma ngakhale wamphamvu, akulakwitsa zikayamba kuvomerezeka. Kuti popanda iye sadzakhoza kuchita chilichonse. Pano kuchokera kwa amuna otere amathamanga nthawi yomweyo.
Ndinali ndi bwenzi lomwe mwamuna wanga anali atapita. Anaganizanso kuti sanathe kuchita chilichonse. Ndipo m'mene adasiyira nthawi yomweyo ndi ntchitoyo idapeza bwino ndikuphunzira kukonzedwa, ndipo adapeza zambiri. Mwambiri, adapambana pazizindikiro zonse. Ndipo ine sindimuweruza. Adziyesere tokha, ndibwino kukhala ndi munthu yemwe angakuuzeni tsiku lililonse: "Inde, uli wopanda ine!". Nthawi yomweyo, ndikufuna kunyamuka, ndikunyamuka ndikuwonetsa chinanso ""!
Koma mkazi amene angalimbikitse munthu sadzachokapo. Adzachita chilichonse ngakhale ali pachilichonse. Chifukwa chake, ngati simukufuna kuti mwamuna wanu achoke, muphunzire kuti musanyoze kuti sangathe, koma mumulimbikitse kuti atha kuchita zonse! Ndipo ndikukhulupirirani, Iye akhoza kukhoza chilichonse ndikupangira inu ndi kwa inu!
Nawa ena amoyo:
- Yotchulidwa chete komanso mwachikondi, chonde penyani bwino kuposa matenthedwe ndi zofunikira.
- Sizokayikitsa kwa amaluna achikulire mutha kusintha kena kake. Ndiosavuta kupeza munthu wina.
- Pazifukwa zina, ndimakumana ndi nthawi yambiri ndikuti mayiyo amakhala akudikirira zochita kuchokera kwa mwamuna, ndipo samachita chilichonse. Ndikukutsimikizirani amuna, inunso, konda chidwi!
- Lemekezani kudzidalira. Ngati sakulondola, mumuuze za panokha, mukakhala nokha.
- Ngati mukuzindikira kuti ndi chinthu pansi pa Printh, nanga nonse muli ndi chiyani? Ngakhale chikondi pano palibe chifukwa cholankhula. Mwina sichoncho. Ndipo palibe chikondi? Sizokayikitsa kuti mungalimbikitse kena kake.
- Ngati inu mukuphwanya malaya ake ndi ntchito yosasangalatsa, osati yochita zinthu zovuta, ndibwino kuti musasungunule konse.
M'nthawi yamtengo wapatali masiku ano kumverera ngati chikondi ndi chisamaliro nthawi zambiri zimapanga zozizwitsa. Ngati muyamba kumusamalira, adzayamba kuchita zomwezo ndipo mudzabwezeretsanso nthawi yophika kandachi, yomwe mwina idadutsa kale. Ndipo ine ndekha ndimaganiza kuti sayenera kudutsa, ndipo chikondi ndi chisamaliro ziyenera kupezeka nthawi zonse. Ndipo apa 50% yaudindo ili pa mayi! Otsala 50 atanyamula munthu wanu.
Tangoganizirani, sanapatse maluwa kwa nthawi yayitali. Ndipo pano mwakhumudwitsidwa pa mkangano wotsatira ukufuula kuti: "Inde, simunandipatsa mitundu zana." Sadzapereka. Wokhazikika. Ndipo ngati podutsa Timo amausa moyo: "Ndi maluwa okongola bwanji, omwe ndimawakonda ..." Posachedwa mtima wamtengo wapatali udzakhala ndi patebulo. Mwina ndi chitsanzo chachikulu, koma chimagwira chilichonse. Osachepera panjira iyi sinalephere!
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