Ndichokera kwa azimayi omwe amati: "Bwino kubereka mwana m'modzi ndikupereka zonse." Nthawi zonse ndimakhulupirira kuti ndidzakhala ndi mwana wamkazi, womwe ine ndi ine ndi ine ndimapereka kwathunthu. Timapereka maphunziro okongola, kugula nyumba, galimotoyo, tidzamuonetsa dziko lapansi. Ngakhale dzinalo linabwera ndi wokongola, wachifumu - Carolina. Mwinanso, ndanyozedwa ndi mapulani awa.
Mwamuna, mwa njira, kapena amunawo amafuna ana awiri. Koma zinali choncho mwachikondi, zomwe zinagwirizana ndi zokangana zanga. Tipereka ndekhayo kuchokera ndipo mpaka pano, ndiye kuti kholo labwino la kholo labwino.
Mnyamata? Kodi mnyamatayo ali bwanji?
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Chosangalatsa: Amayi adabereka mapasa osiyanasiyana ndipo ndizosatheka kukhulupirira izi. Kusiyanitsa kwawo sikumakhala kumaso, koma kukula
Pa ultrasound, ndangolumpha. Dzinalo la mtsikanayo lapangidwa kale, gawo la zinthu zomwe zagulidwa kale - zonse zili pinki kwathunthu, ndipo zimandiuza kuti kudzakhala mwana? Mocaon ndi mtundu wina!
Koma palibe, adasiya. Mwana wamwamuna adabadwa nthawi zambiri ndipo nthawi inayake sanade, mwina sanalire, sanavutike. Mu izi ndi kuvulaza muzu wa onse, mwina. Ndinagona, kundiyang'ana, ndimawoneka bwino. Pakuyenda ndinatuluka ngati podium. Ndi mwana wokongola kwambiri anagwirizana mosavuta kuti ndikhale apongozi awo. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinakhala ndi masiku, mu sinema, ingoyendani.
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Kuyenda moyenda, ndinamvetsera nkhani za amayi ena omwe sanagone usiku komanso kumenyera nkhondo mitundu yonse ya ana.
- Kodi mungasamalire mwana? - Ndidafunsa, otsimikiza ndi njira zanga. Chomwe china chopambana sichikufuula. Mano sitinkazindikira konse. Kenako sindinanene kuti ana onse ndi osiyana.
Komanso ndi pakati
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Nthawi yachiwiri yomwe ndili ndi pakati mwana wanga wamwamuna anali miyezi isanu ndi iwiri. Sindinachitike kwa ine kuti zimachitika. Ndinakulira m'ma 90s, m'nthawi yopezereka komanso yopatulika imakhulupirira kuti ndimadyetsa, zikutanthauza kuti ndimachita chidwi. Zikuwonekeratu kuti kuzungulira sikungakhale kotsogolera. Chifukwa chake, ndidati dotolo wamagulu:
- sizingakhale choncho!
"Mwina," adamwetulira pachipatala cha gynecologist. - Ndipo mawuwo atsala kale miyezi 2.5.
Ine ndakhala ndikusangalala ngakhale, ngakhale moyo wanga wakale. Mahomoni akataya, amakhala mwanjira ina mwanjira inayake.
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Kuwerenganso: ku Russia, 2021 adzalipira ndalama pamwezi kwa amayi apakati
Mimba yokhala ndi mwana wopangidwa ndi kukonzekera m'manja mwake ndi kanema woopsa. Mwanayo ndi wocheperako, amafunika chisamaliro, ndipo ndimatopa phazi, ndiye manja anu, ndiye ubongo. Panthawi imeneyo, sanathe kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake amayi mwadzidzidzi anayamba kuchita zinthu zambiri - izi zisanachitike, adachitanso chilichonse chofunikira. Zinalinso kosathekanso kudyetsa bere, ndinayamba kutembenukira pang'onopang'ono malo ogulitsira mkaka, kuzunza chikumbumtima ndi mavuto.
Chaka choyamba ndi zilembo
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Dzinalo Carolina akadali wothandiza pafamu - mtsikana adabadwa. Apa ndaphunzira chisangalalo chonse cha ubwana. Wamng'ono amatha kudzuka kulira ngakhale kuti ayang'ane. Choyipa chachikulu ndikuti mafundewa nthawi yomweyo adatenga wamkulu mu pafupifupi chaka ndi theka.
Mwana wamkazi atapachika pachifuwa ndi tsiku, ngati wanjala. Apolisi adafika kuti athandize, mu ola lomwe ndidachoka, kubisala. Pambuyo pake, adawululidwa ndi zochitika zoterezi, zomwe zidadziwika: pomwe sindimayambira kuchokera ku zomangamanga ziwirizi, sindipita tsiku. Anapirira momwe angathere. Zinapezeka moipa. Kugona tulo ngati adadzuka ngati ophedwa.
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Chodabwitsa kwambiri ndikuti tonse ndife a mabanja omwe nyengo idabadwa. Ndili ndi kusiyana ndi mchimwene wanga 1.6, ndipo amuna anga ali ndi miyezi 12 ndi mlongo wake. Malinga ndi zokumbukira zanga, amayi anga adapindika ndi awiri mosavuta, amasewera. Ndinafika ndi makolo anga modzipereka modzipereka komanso molimba mtima kuti ma dissertage amakhoza kulemba ku mutu wachiwiri - lamulo lachisanu ndilofunika.
Chifukwa chiyani sizinali zosavuta?
Kuchokera kumbali zonse, ndidauzidwanso zomwezo:
- Khalani oleza mtima, ndiye kuti zimakhala zosavuta. M'chaka cha achichepere, amasewera limodzi, ndipo mutha kupumula.
Maganizo anga anzeru ajambula chithunzi chabwino: Ndiyamba kumwa tiyi wotentha m'zaka zaposachedwa, atakhala pampando, ndipo ana anga omwe ndimakonda kusewera ma cubes.
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M'malo mwake, mwana wamkazi atalimbikitsidwa kwambiri, adayamba kuthamangitsa mchimwene wake. Ndipo analandila kale kuchokera ku moyo - kukakamizidwa kugawana zoseweretsa zake, zinthu ndi makolo ali ndi mlongo. Ngakhale kuti ankamukonda kwambiri ndipo anayesetsa kupirira anthu onse, amasowa kwa nthawi yayitali. Ndinachita mantha ngakhale.
Mu chimbudzi, ndinakokeranso zonsezo kuti amayang'aniridwa nthawi zonse. Zinkawoneka kuti ndikadangosokonezedwa ndi njiwa, ndikuuluka mozungulira zenera, ana anga amaphana.
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Ndimadzifunsa kuti: Ndi ana angati omwe angabereke mkazi kukhala ndi moyo m'moyo
Amamenya chifukwa cha zinthu zazing'ono zilizonse. Alendo atabwera kwa ife, ndinawafunsana pasadakhale ndipo ndinapemphera, kapena osagula chilichonse kwa ana, kapena kusankha china chomwecho. Inde, zikhale ma babie awiri! Ofanana! Kotero kuti tsikulo silinabwerezenso tsiku la mwana wamwamuna ndi wamkazi akudana ndi magaziwo, lisanalowe m'khola, lomwe linaperekedwa kwa m'modzi, koma zidatenga zonse ziwiri.
Kuchepetsa kulirira kwanga, ana nthawi zina anali okongola - adasewera limodzi, kukumbatirana, kunawonetsa mosagwirizana. Koma ndinalibe nthawi yoti ndinene misozi ya ndunayi, nkhondoyo inayambanso.
Kupulumuka kwa Algorithms
Pakapita kanthawi, ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinakhala ndi algorithms kuti ndikhale ndi nyengo yopulumuka ndi nyengo. Ayi, tinkawakonda kwambiri zonsezo, ndinakondwera kuti adakhala makolo ndi mnyamata, ndi atsikana. Ngakhale anaiwala mwanjira yawo yoyambirira - kudzipereka kwa mwana m'modzi. Koma kuti tisakhale osavuta, ndipo anawo ndi ochepa kuposa oweruza ena, tinabwera ndi mapulani athu.
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Onaninso kuti: "Ndimadana ndi malo osewerera!": Mbiri ya mayi m'modzi
Nthawi zambiri kugawana nyengo yanu. Zingawonekere - muyenera kulumikizana kwamuyaya. Kwa ife, kulekanitsidwa kwakhala kothandiza. Ngakhale titangowalembera m'zipinda zosiyanasiyana, zotsatira zake zinali. Wina anayamba kuphonya yachiwiri komanso atakumananso ndi chisangalalo, sanakangana kwakanthawi.
Nthawi yaumwini ndi makolo onse. Tidatanthauzira masiku omwe amadabwitsidwa m'modzi mwa ana. Mwachitsanzo, ndili ndi mwana wanga wamkazi, mwana wamwamuna satigwira, timachita zomwe akufuna kwa iye. Ndizodabwitsa, koma nthawi zinayamba kufunsa kuti ayake wachiwiri panthawiyi ndikupita pamodzi kuti ayende kapena kumakanema.
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Zinsinsi - pali zinsinsi. Ngati wina wochokera kwa ana adagawana azachinsinsi omwe ali ndi zinsinsi zake ndi zokumana nazo, zimakhalabe pakati pathu. Palibe kukambirana wamba patebulo la banja.
Sitimawapangitsa kuti azigawana. Vic Chocolate - Mutha kudya chimodzi komanso zonse. Koma ndiye kuti simuyenera kudabwitsidwa kuti palibe amene akugawana nanu. Mwa njira, zitatha zochitika zingapo izi, adasowa ndi kuthamanga pali ntchito yosungulumwa.Malamulo a nyumbayo adapangira aliyense. Sitimenya aliyense. Zaka zoyambirira zinali zovuta kufotokozera ana kuti sayenera kumenya nkhondo. Koma patapita nthawi, adakwanitsa kuwapangitsa kuti athetse mavuto mwamtendere.
Pakangotha zaka zingapo cholumikizidwa pakati pawo
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Nditapeza kuti ndi wolembera. Kenako mwana wa yekhayo adakhala pamodzi ndi mlongo wake kuti amuchotse pulasitine. Anayamba kusewera limodzi, pafupifupi osalimbana.
Ndinkadzikumbukira ndekha ndi m'bale wanga. Tinakangananso ndi kumenya nkhondo. Kwa zaka makumi awiri nditazindikira kuti ndili ndi mchimwene. Mwamuna ndi mlongo wake adayambanso kukhala abwenzi omwe ali atakula.
Zimapezeka kuti nyengo iyenera kudutsa nthawi iyi omwe ali otsutsa, ndiye kumapeto, akukulirabe. Chonde aloleni wina ndi mnzake munjira.
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Nthawi zina zimasemitsidwa ndi anzawo apamtima omwe amakumbukira gulu langa logwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa ana m'banjamo.
"Ndipo kotero nditha kupatsa mwana wanga chilichonse," ndili ndi udindo wopupuluma. - kuphatikiza mlongo.