Chidwi chokhwima ndi omwe amagonana ndi opanga mawu. Imafanana ndi vinyo wandiweyani, wokongoletsa, zokongoletsa zamtengo wapatali, nyimbo zokongola, zotulukapo zotentha kapena chiyambi cha nthawi yophukira, pomwe chilengedwe chikhala chitumba chawo chonse cha utoto. Chikondwerero chokhwima chimabwera makamaka patatha zaka 30 - ndipo moyo wotsala. Komabe, mtundu wotere wa kukopa sikunyozeka konse.
Kumbukirani kuti mudakumana ndi zaka zingati zaka 40-50, okwiya ngati achinyamata, azimayi. Kapenanso zochulukitsa ... zomwe ndimafuna kupita kunjira ina kapena kutseka makutu anu.
Chikondwerero chokhwima chizikhala ndi mgwirizano. Ndipo ali ndi mphamvu - nyonga yamkati, ikulungkulu ya mafomu ndi matanthauzidwe. Mwa mkazi wokhwima, ndikosavuta kugwa mchikondi - amatha kukonzekera yekha, mosavuta komanso omasuka, dziko lake ladzaza m'mphepete, kuthekera kwake kuli kochepa.
Kodi mawonekedwe owala kwambiri mwa mayi wokhwima?
Ali mfulu komanso womasuka. Amakonda komanso osangalatsa kukhala ndi moyo. Amawerengedwa m'malingaliro, mu mawonekedwe omasuka, m'manja olemekezeka.
Amatsimikizira chilichonse kwa aliyense. Osawopa. Ndikudziwa momwe ndingadziyikire nokha.
Amadzinenera yekha kuti padziko lapansi - amakhulupirira kuti ayenera kumumva. Zimachitika.
Amatha kutenga kuyamikiridwa. Amakupatsani mwayi kuti muchotse kusamvana ndikupanga kulumikizana kumakhala kosangalatsa.
Imakhalabe bata pamavuto. Zimamvetsetsa kuti kukangana, kuponya ndi hysteria kungangoipiraipira.
Valani ndi kukoma. Amadziwa kuti sizimavala zovala za munthu, koma zimakhudzanso kudzisamalira.
Zimakhudza mosavuta. Kupatula apo, mukudziwa zodzikhutiritsa munthu wosavuta kumva. Mukuganiza za chiyani kwa inu - pang'onopang'ono, kutopa, zopweteka? Kapena amphamvu komanso cholinga? Madona odzidalira amayenda mwachangu. Ali ndi komwe angapite, omwe adzaonepo, ndipo pali ntchito yofunika yomwe iyenera kukwaniritsidwa. Komabe, paulendo womwe sangakhale wokhoza kuthamangira.
Imasunga mawonekedwe. Momwe munthuyo "amadzipangira yekha," anganene zambiri za iye.
Zikomo modzipereka. Thandizo limatenga ulemu.
Kodi ndi akazi ati okhwima omwe amawoneka okongola?
Mosasamala kanthu za nkhani zakugonana, nthumwi za kugonana kwakulemera ndikufuna kuwona mwa mayiyu:
- Zachilengedwe (umagwirira ntchito, mawu a zidole okhala ndi mawu opusa amangobweretsa mawu!);
- kulondola, ukhondo, mchimwene;
- Luntha lamphamvu (kukhala labwino kwambiri, lokonda, lokhala ndi nthabwala mkazi - chisangalalo chachikulu!);
- kudzidalira;
- Kupanikizika komanso zodabwitsa mzimayi wotere;
- Kusuntha kwa kayendedwe kake, Chisomo ndi kuthekera kupindula kuti zidziteteze okha, osasokoneza zabwinozo ndipo osadutsa mzere woonda, kumbuyo komwe kuvutitsa kumayamba.
Pamtima ya mapangidwe a chikazi chokhwima cha zinthu zitatu: chisamaliro, zowulula zadziko lapansi, zolembedwa zakale (zoiwala, zowoneka bwino za " ).
Choyamba, zonse zimangochitika zokha, komanso chidwi, chidwi cha oimira champhamvu chimakhala bonasi wosangalatsa.
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