Munthu aliyense ali ndi malingaliro akeake okhudza moyo kutengera fano lake komanso zokumana nazo za moyo, ndipo zimawonekera m'moyo wa moyo. Zodabwitsa za moyo ndi njira ya munthu yolumikizirana ndi ena, kuzindikira malo ake pagulu, njira zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha zomwe zikuchitika. Kuchokera pamagawo omwe alipo omwe aliyense amasankha zokhazokha, kenako amanga moyo wake molingana ndi mtunduwu.
Mukufuna kudziwa mtundu womwe mwasankha? Onani zithunzi zomwe zaperekedwa ndikusankha zomwe mumakonda.
1. "Tsiku lidzafika, ndipo moyo weniweni uyamba." Khalidwe la mtundu uwu ndi wachilendo kwa munthu amene akuyembekezera moyo weniweni. Amaona chilichonse chomwe chimachitika kokha chifukwa cha mawuwo, probe, kusinthasintha kwa moyo. "Tsopano ndimakhala" momwe zimakhalira ", ndipo ngakhale pamenepo ndidzayamba kukhala weniweni." Koma izi "ndiye" moyo wake wonse ukhoza kukhala moyo wake wonse, ndipo munthu sakhala ndi moyo, koma kungokonzekera moyo. Kuuluka kwakanthawi, wotchi, masiku, zaka, ngati kuti kulibe iwo. Ndikufuna kuyesetsa "tsogolo labwino" ili, ndipo zomwe zikuwoneka kuti zikulimba. Zoyenera kuchita? Phunzirani "kugwira nthawi zabwino", kukhala mphindi iliyonse. Mangani mapulani a nthawi yaying'ono komanso kusangalala ndi kuphedwa kwawo. Ndipo ngati sichinakwaniritsidwe, kulankhula ndi moyo "Zikomo" ndi zokumana nazo zofunika. MOTO: "Imani, potembenuka! Muli bwino! ".
2. Zakale sizikhala zosangalatsa kwa iye, ndipo mtsogolo mulibe chosamveka. Ndipo lero chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuzindikira ndi kumvetsetsa. Njira yowunikira yamkati mwachinthu ndiyofunika kwambiri kuposa dziko lapansi komanso ubale ndi ena. "Moyo Wake Wamkati Ndi Wofunika Kwambiri Kuposa" wakunja ", chifukwa chake, banja lawo ndi okondedwa nthawi zonse limatithandiza. Koma iye mwini amene amafuna chidwi, kuzindikira ndi kuonetsa za luso lake, kotero kuti akhumudwitse komanso wopanda ntchito. Zoyenera kuchita? Pakati pa kusaka ndi kupeza, kumawunikira nthawi ya mabanja ndi abwenzi, zosangalatsa komanso zokondweretsa. Zonsezi zidzakhala gwero lina louziridwa.
3. "Ine ndine zomwe ndakwanitsa." Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha moyo wopambana yemwe amakonda kukwaniritsa zolinga zapamwamba. Kwa iye, "lero" ndi mwayi chabe wokwaniritsa tsogolo. Yemwe wachita "yekha" ndi munthu amene samva bwino ndi zotsatira zake, chifukwa nthawi zonse pamakhala cholinga chatsopano. "Ndikumva moyo wanga ukungofika pamwamba." Koma kumverera uku kumatha nthawi zonse, kenako kuwononga ndi ludzu la zopambana zatsopano kumadza. Mtunduwu ungathe kuonedwa ngati masiku ano, kusinthika komanso kukhala wokwanira. Timaphunzitsidwa kukhala ndi zolinga ndipo timazikwaniritsa, ndikuwunika munthu malinga ndi zotsatira zake. Koma muyenera kuganiza: Kodi ndizoyenera kuti nthawi yocheza? Yesani kusangalala ndi njirayi. Ndipo mphindi zopambana ndi zomwe zimachitika "ndi" relele ". Kupatula apo, panjira yopita kumayiko pali malo abwino abwino komanso oyenda modabwitsa.
4. "Maloto, maloto! Kodi kutsekemera kwanu ndi chiyani? " Munthu amene amatsatira mtundu wamoyowu ndi wolota komanso wosamala. Amadziwa 'kusiya' kuonana zenizeni, kudziko lapansi komwe kulibe mavuto ndi zovuta. Itha kukhala mabuku, makanema, masewera apakompyuta, malingaliro. Munthu amataya nthawi ya nthawi, sazindikira moyo weniweni womwe watopa. Cholinga chofuna kusankha mtundu womwewo ndi zinthu zina zonse komanso kusagwirizana kwa zofunikira za anthu ndi zofunika pa izi. Munthu wowopsa sangafanane ndi mawonekedwe a munthu komanso wankhondo. Safuna ntchito, ndipo akuuzidwa kuti: "Muyenera kukhala wopambana." Munthu wamalingaliro ndi womvera "wopanda khungu" amamva bwino m'mipikisano komanso chifukwa chopindulitsa chuma. Kumva "kosayenera kumoyo uno", amapita kudziko lopeka, kuti azitsanzira moyo. Ndibwino kuti munthu wotereyu ali ndi chida chamtengo wapatali - luso komanso kulingalira. Ganizirani za kuwona ndi kupanga watsopano, komanso wogwira ntchito modziyimira pawokha, zitha kuchitika mwakhama popanda kuwononga umunthu wake.
5. "Chizolowezi choposa zomwe sitingathe, cholowa m'malo mwake." Mtunduwu ndi wotengera kutsatira malamulo, miyambo ndi malangizo. Amatha kudziwitsidwa kwa munthu kuchokera kunja (makolo, gulu) kapena wolengedwa ndi iye, koma mtsogolo amakhala maziko. Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kukhala ndi moyo, chifukwa zonse zimayendetsedwa ndikulosera, koma zimakhala ndi moyo - zimatanthawuza "kudula" chilichonse chatsopano komanso chosadziwika. Kupanga chisankho kukhazikika, munthu amataya mwayi wopita njira yatsopano, kuti amvere zinthu zatsopano. Kukhala molingana ndi malamulowo - zikutanthauza kuti "kudziyendetsa nokha mu chimango", kupangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wolosera. Ganizirani: Kodi malamulo omwe mumawagwiritsira ntchito ndi chiyani kuti mukwaniritse zosowa zanu? Kodi pali tanthauzo mwa iwo? Kodi amakusangalatsani, ndipo moyo wanu ndi wabwino? Zachidziwikire, sizokhudza malamulo a Boma, koma za malamulo omwe mukumanga ndi anthu ndi dziko lapansi.
6. "Moyo ukufuna cholinga cha moyo." Mtunduwu umatanthawuza kuti moyo wa munthu umayendetsedwa ndi zosowa zapamwamba zauzimu. Uwu ndi moyo - utumiki, ntchito, lingaliro, munthu. Kusankha chitsanzo chotere, munthu amaika zolinga za ena okhaokha monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi zonse. Mtunduwu umafanana ndi maudindo atatu: Wopulumutsidwa, Woteteza ndi Mlengi. Popanda iwo, kukhalapo kwa anthu onse padziko lonse lapansi komanso kudzipatula ndikosatheka. Kusankha kokha komwe kumakhalapo kwa moyo wotere kumapangitsa munthu kupirira zovuta za ntchito yosankhidwa, monga momwe imamvetsetsa kuti zovuta izi zimavutika. Ngati pali anthu oyandikana nawo mwa Mzimu, ndipo banjali amadziwa kumvetsetsa ndi kuthandiza banja. Moyo umasungidwa pa anthu otere, koma nthawi zonse amakhala kosavuta kukhala ndi moyo.
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