Chitsanzo chodzikuza cha khalidwe laumunthu chimayikidwa muubwana, ndipo chimapangidwa ndikulipiritsa kosatsimikizika komanso kukayikira yekha. Amadziwonetsera okha munjira zosiyanasiyana, ndipo digiri yake yochulukirapo ndi narcissism.
Sinthani munthu wamwano ndi wovuta kwambiri, motero adme.ru adme.ru amafotokoza momwe angakhalire pafupi ndi omwe akuganiza kuti palibe wabwinonso padziko lapansi.
Osachita
Mwa kudzipereka nokha lipoti kuti pali munthu wamwano pafupi ndi inu, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti palibe kulakwa kwanu. Alibe madandaulo onena za iwe: iye adakhala wabwana, ndipo palibe chomwe chingachitike. Chifukwa chake, musazindikire mawu ake, ndipo mudziona ngati kulankhulana ndi munthu wamwano, zomwe zimatha kuyimitsidwa nthawi zonse.
Pangani ndemanga
Mukaona kuti munthu amatembenuka mzere, ndikupanga ndemanga yolondola. Kumbutsani ndalama zopezeka kukhalapo kwa malingaliro ena, za chowonadi chomwe sichili cha munthu aliyense, komanso kuti m'ziyenera zambiri. Ndiosavuta kukhazikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu "Pepani, kuti ndimasokoneza, koma ...", "mwina simungamveke monyada, koma ...". Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti muchite izi modekha, osakulitsa mawu.
Pezani Maynies
Nthawi zina anthu odzikuza ndi mtedza wamphamvu weniweni. Ndi umunthu wotere, kulankhulana pamutu wotsutsana ndi diso kumaso sikokamba mlandu. Zikatero, yesani kukhudza anthu ena pakulankhula kwanu: Gulu lachitatu lithandiza kuthetsa mkangano. Njira ina yotuluka - pezani anzeru omwe mungayesetse kulimbana ndi munthu wakudzikuza.
Khazikitsani malire
Zimakhala zovuta kulankhulana ndi munthu wamwano, ngati ili ndi mnzanu ndipo muyenera kuthana ndi mphuno yake tsiku lililonse. Pankhaniyi, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti musataye mtima, pitilizani kutsatira dongosolo lanu ndi ntchito, kupewa kulankhulana ndi kulankhulana mosafunikira. Maziko a malire pakati panu akhoza kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakulankhula ndi munthu wamwano.
Osamuganizira
Ngati zinthu zikalola, yesani kunyalanyaza zodzikuza. Ndipo musangokhala olakwika. Yesani kupeza chinthu chothandiza, chifukwa chake mungafune gulu la munthu: Mwinanso amangochita bwino kapena kunena zinthu zosangalatsa. Maluso a kukana kuchokera ku zoipa adzakuthandizani kuti mupambane ndi luso la kumva ndi kulolerana.
Gwirizanani ndi Kuukira
Physiatrist Mikhail Littwaak akuti sizingachitike chifukwa chotsutsana ndi munthu yemwe amangoonera malingaliro ake. M'malo motaya mphamvu kuti mukakamize, mutha kungovomereza. Njirayi imatchedwa psychological Aikido. Kugwirizana ndi kuukira kwa munthu wamwano, ndizotheka kuwunikiranso za ku Universal. Samayembekezera izi mwa inu, mofulumira mwachangu.
Chepetsa
Kutonza ndi kupulumutsa, munthu wodzikuza amayembekeza kuti muyese kudziteteza ndikuyankha zina zonga zimenezo. Koma tanthauzo lake ndikuti kudzikhulupirira kwa munthu wotereko ndikosatheka "kuswa" mawu osasangalatsa. Chifukwa chake, ndi kopanda tanthauzo kuti muyambe masewerawa. A Mark Gowleton amakhulupirira kuti ndikofunikira kuuluka anthu odzikuza. Monga momwe zilili pankhani ya Arikido, munthu sayembekeza kuti mugwirizana naye. Chifukwa chake, adzasokonezeka, atamva mawu osangalatsa kuchokera ku Viszavivi.
Gwiritsani ntchito "kuwonongeka kwa Browproof"
Njira imathandizira ngati munthu nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito sarcasm, zonse chifukwa cha kuukira kwa munthu wina komanso kuteteza kwake. Kugwiritsa Ntchito "Kuwonongeka kwa Brownkroof", muyenera kuphunzira kudutsa popuma pang'ono mutamva zamwano. Panthawi yake, mutha kukhazikika, ndipo mdani wanu adzalandira chizindikiro chakuti mapulani ake amakukwiyitsani. Kupuma, muyenera kuyankha mawonekedwe a munthu wamwano. Poyankha mawu anu, adzatengedwa kuti atengedwe, kuyesera kuti apangidwe njira yatsopano yofanana. Yembekezani pang'ono, mpaka kusamvana kumagwa, kenako ndikutanthauzira zokambirana ku njira ina.
Kodi mwakumana ndi moyo ndi anthu odzikuza? Kodi mwaphunzira bwanji pa nthawi yolumikizirana nawo?