Kuwongolera chigawenga kudzera mchikondi ndi ukwati - kwezani sprootype mu chikhalidwe chachikulu. Kuchokera ku Shukshinskaya "Kalina Krasnoye" Ku Eastwoood "Wopanda" Wopanda ", Timatiuza mbiri yaupandu yemwe amapulumutsa kapena kuyesera kuthawa mlandu wabanja.
Kudikirira February 14, ndikofunika kufunsa: Kodi chikondi ndi ukwati ndi chiyani chopewa kukhala ndi milandu?
Kukonda Matsenga ndizovuta kuyerekezera, kupatula kuti tiike zigawenga zodzikongoletsera za magnetic-reponance pa oxytocin kuti mumvetsetse, ali mchikondi kapena ayi. Modzionanso ngati banja limalumikizidwa ndi chizolowezi chophwanya malamulo. Mutha kunena kuti ukwati si chikondi, ndipo nditakhala ndi nkhani yabwino Amuna awo). Koma zinthu zina zimakhala zofanana, kulowa mu ukwati wamakono kumawonekera kuwonekera ndi kukhalapo kwa malingaliro achikondi kuposa ayi.
Mkazi kapena kampani yoyipaPoyamba, mwachionekere: zopanda pake komanso wosakwatiwa pakati pa achifwamba komanso zigawenga sizingatheke kuposa kukwatira komanso kukwatira. Chifukwa chake, kawerengedwe ka 2010 kulembedwa: kopitilira theka la anthu okwera ku Russia alengeza, zomwe zidalembetsedwa. M'chaka chomwecho, malinga ndi dipatimenti yamilandu ku Khothi Lalikulu ku Russia, chiwerengero cha zigawenga zomwe zidalipobe 15%. Izi zophweka izi zimakhudza ndi mawu owoneka ngati akuwona - ukwati umatsutsana ndi zigawenga.
Ndipo komabe, pakati pa akatswiri achipembedzo mulibe mgwirizano pankhaniyi: zosafunikira zoterezi zingakhale ndi malongosoledwe ena. Kuti muwachotse, mutha kuwona kuti mwina "achinyamata (omwe adasowa sukulu (iwo omwe adaphonya sukulu, amadya kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ndi zina). Maphunziro oterewa kapena osawoneka bwino: Ukwati, ngakhale koyambirira, umagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuchepa kwa mwayi wochita upandu.
Pofuna kuchita bwino ntchito yaupandu (ngati wina aliyense), pali maulalo ofunikira. Kulankhula ndi chilankhulo chophweka, ndikofunikira kukhalabe achichepere obzols achichepere omwewo. Zolankhula siziri pazachipembedzo chomwe chili pachibwenzi, koma magulu "ochezeka, omwe ena amatsatira ena kuti apange zopanda pake, nthawi zina nthawi zina umaweruzidwa. Ndipo kotero, ngati panthawi yotsatira "yamakompyuta" yotsatira (imatenga kachitidwe kalamulo ka potembenuka komwe kumayambira, ntchito yaupandu iyamba.
Zokonda kapena ukwatiKodi ukwati umaletsa bwanji izi? Ukwatiwo umawombolera "tusovka" (mwatsoka, osati mlandu umodzi, osakonzekera mpikisano umodzi, osakonza mpikisano), chifukwa banja ndilo kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi "theka lachiwiri". Mukakhala ndi mnzanu kapena mnzanu, nthawi yochepa yomwe mumakhala nawo pa anzanu, chifukwa chake muli ndi nthawi yochepa. Kubwera kwa ana a nthawi ino, kumakhala kocheperako, ndipo panonso zachiwerewere pawiri ndi abale akuluakulu. Ndipo dzulo dzulo limakhala munthu wabwino mumsewu, chifukwa kuti akhalebe ndi banja, muyenera ndalama zokhazikika kuti chigawengacho nchovuta kutsimikizira.
Mwina, komabe, si ukwati womwe umateteza ukwati, ndipo zigawenga sizingatenge amuna ndi akazi. Kuphatikiza apo, ofufuzawo adazindikira zokhumudwitsa: Ndi umodzi wovomerezeka wovomerezeka, maukwati komanso chiyanjano cha iwo samasunga munthu paupandu. Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi zina, chinjoka chimangowonjezera zizolowezi zachigawenga, komabe, ndikofunikira kwa onse awiri.
Njira inanso ndiyo kuyerekezera zigawenga zomwezo pakati pawo. Chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa ziwerengero za ku milandu ya Chira Russia, mutha kuyeza mofulumira munthuyo atapanga upandu watsopano atamasulidwa kuchokera pamapeto, kutengera ukwati womwe anali nawo. Ndizotheka kusiyanitsa chosakanizira chopanda pake komanso chokwatira, komanso omwe sanakwatiwe ndi omwe adasudzulana kapena amasiye. Kuwerengera pamawu onse ku Russia kwa 2009-2012. Zimayembekezeredwa kuti zikuwonetsa kuti zigawenga ndi okwatirana zikanatha kubwezeretsa milandu yobwereza chabe kuposa zopanda pake. Koma osudzulana ndi amasiye adadzakhala okonda kuponderezedwa mobwerezabwereza kuposa osakwatirana. Mwinanso kumwalira kwa mnzanu kumavulala komwe kumagwetsa munthu kwa chizolowezi, kumawononga mabungwewo ndikukangana munjira yaupandu? Kapenanso, wokhala ndi maukonde kwambiri, amakhala owopsa ndipo okwatirana amawafunafuna kwa iwo, ngati, ndi nthawi?
Chizolowezi kapena chikondiAnthu omwe ali pabanja, zikuwoneka kuti, ndizothandiza kwambiri chabe chifukwa cha malingaliro achinyengo - amangokhala ndi moyo, amakhala ndi moyo, amakhala ndi zopambana. Komabe, kaya ndi mwambowo ndikuti zotsatira zake ndizowonetsa kuti zikuwunikira njira zawo, ndipo mitima yolumikizidwayo idagundani kuti igwirizane, kapena anthu awa amalimbikitsa kutsatira zomwe mukuyembekeza komanso zomwe zimachitika.
Malingaliro a wolemba sangafanane ndi mawonekedwe a VITI.