Poika cholinga, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuchuluka kwake. Palibe cholakwika ndi zomwe mudalimbikitsa lingaliro la munthu wina ndikuzindikira kuti akukuyenererani. Koma mlandu ungakumane ndi zina. Timawerenga zomwe zimachitika ndipo timapanga chisankho chomwe tingafune. Ubongo wathu umakhala ndi kuthekera kwina, kuphatikizapo zolinga. Koma imangowerenga zolinga zomwe timagawana. Ndipo pa nthawi ya ubongo akutenga cholinga, monga oyenera, matenda amapezeka.
Zotsatira zoyipa za cholinga cha winawake
Zotsatira zoyipa ndi ziti? Kupatula apo, zonse zikuwoneka kuti zili bwino, mwakhala okonzeka komanso okonzekera kuchitapo kanthu. Zotsatira zake ndikuti titha kuthana ndi cholinga chomwe sichingatibweretsenso zotsatira zina. Chifukwa chake zimavomerezeka kwa ife, koma sizowona.Pofuna kuti musakhale cholinga chosafunikira, chomwe chifukwa chake sichingabweretse zotsatira kapena zosangalatsa, muyenera kudzifunsa.
Mafunso oti mudziwe za cholinga
- Chifukwa chiyani ndikufunika?
- Kodi ndi koyenera kwa ine?
- Nditani ndi izi pakatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi? Kodi ndidzakhala osangalala?
- Kodi ndikufunika kupereka chiyani kuti tikwaniritse cholingachi?
- Kodi cholingachi chidachokera kuti?
- Chifukwa chiyani ankamukonda kwambiri?
Nthawi zambiri pamakhala anthu omwe adauziridwa ndi malingaliro a munthu wina adatsegula bizinesi m'magawo omwe sanali pafupi nawo. Kapenanso anagula zinthu zodula zomwe sizinabweretse chisangalalo mtsogolo. Anapita kukagwira ntchito yotchuka ndikumvetsetsa kuti siyiyi. Amatha kusankha njira ina, cholinga chawo, koma amapita kwa anthu ena. Zotsatira zake, iwo anasiya chidwi ndi cholinga ndipo anapeza kusakhutira kungakhale osakhutira ndi moyo wawo.
Popewa zokhumudwitsa kapena zolephera, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuchuluka kwa cholinga chanu. Makamaka muzomwe mudazimva kuchokera kwa munthu wina. Tizilombo timene timalingalire. Koma chowonadi chitha kukhala china. Yesetsani kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe mwapeza. Ndipo ngakhale pamenepo musaiwale kuyankha mafunso omwe ali pamwambapa.
Tidzasiya nkhaniyi pano → Amelia.