Alfonso ndi, choyamba, kusamba kwamphamvu, nthawi zambiri ndi deta yabwino yochitira zinthu, majeremusi okongola sakuganiziridwa ndi zilonda zam'mimba.
Zoyambira Za "Uhule wamwamuna" (alphime "amangodzigulitsa yekha", osangogwiritsa ntchito chithumwa chake kuti asoke) ayenera kuyang'ana ubwana. Nthawi zambiri kumakhala "mwana wamwamuna wamanthinki", "mwana wokongola", pomwe sanafune chilichonse, chinali chovulaza padziko lonse lapansi.
Pakachulukanso mu banja, kunalibe bambo, mayi, agogo, a azakhali, komanso bwenzi la amayi amazungulira mwana wozungulira. Anakula, ulesi komanso ulemu molakwika. Nthawi yomweyo, mwana wotere, chifukwa chowonetsera ana, anali kuzindikiridwa bwino ndi zikhulupiriro za akazi - zomwe amakonda, komanso zomwe alibe, adamvetsera kuwamvana.
Atakhwima, anayamba kufufuza azimayi ena kuonekera kwake, koma mayi wanzeru, nthawi zonse amamupangira magazini onse, omwe amalipira zodandaula zake zonse. Dona woterowo uyenera kukhala wolemera ndipo wopambana kuti ubisire kumbuyo kwake "kubwerera" kwa makolo ake, osaganiza, ndalama zake.
Ntchito yayikulu ya Alfons - kuti mupeze mkazi wolemera, kunyenga ndipo, ngati mlanduwu ungakhale wabwino, amakhala ndi iye kwakanthawi, ndikuwononga bwino chikwama chake.
Alfons machitidwe amafanana ndi ma ubu aubu okondedwa:
- Maganizo amodzi, zovala zapamwamba, kumeta tsitsi, kukoma mtima, thupi lometa.
- Imayesa kuwoneka ngati chizindikiro chogonana, mopanda chidwi (nthawi zambiri mogwirizana ndi izi, zimavomerezedwa ndi izi chifukwa cha nthumwi za njira ina ndi yosteroan).
- Kugwedeza Challier, kumwetulira sikubwera kumaso. Ngati mkazi amasuta, nthawi zonse amabweretsa zopepuka, ndikubwera kwa taxi yokhala ndi zipper ndipo amatsegula chitseko, amatenga mnzake wa akwatibwi, osawonetsa malingaliro omvetsetsa, osawonetseratu.
- Wotsegulidwa polumikizana, koma osalankhula za iye, koma pokhapokha ngati sakhulupirira kuti akazi, koma adakumana ndi zokongola komanso zosangalatsa kwa nthawi yoyamba.
- Chimodzimodzi ndi chidwi, chimakhala ndi chidwi ndi omwe akuwadziwa, amamufunsa za ntchito, ndalama, zachilengedwe.
- Ngati ndikumvetsetsa kuti donayo si chuma, kenako ndikumayerekezera kuti ndi pomwe pali msonkhano wofunikira kwambiri kuyenera kuchitika, adzayesa kudziunjikira. Ndi kulipira! Nthawi yomweyo amachotsa buku la foni, matayala kulikonse.
- Ngati "olimba mtima" agwidwa, olimbikira, koma modekha, amayang'ana momwe mkazi amachitikira chilichonse.
- Nkhaniyo itasokonekera kale, pali zokambirana nthawi yomweyo za zomwe ndalamazo zimafunikira, otanutsa akumakanika, "amamwalira," nyumba zokhazokha zimatha. Amayang'ana mkazi ali m'maso achisoni: Sindinathe kumutsitsa? Imatchedwa ndalama zambiri. Atha kukagwada, kumpsompsona manja, kung'amba.
- Sizinaonenso zolembedwa zake - munthawi iliyonse yopangidwa ndi izi.
- Sikufuna kujambulidwa, ndikunamizira kuti neubotogenic, zimabweretsa tanthauzo lamatsenga lililonse ("zithunzi chonyamula mphamvu zanu", ndi zina).
Mkazi wachikondi, makamaka udindo, woyamikira mbiri yake, ngati chinyengo, sapita kwa apolisi. Sikuti chilichonse chidzakwaniritsidwa moyo wake mwa anthu, kunena kuti zopusa za mbewa zodziwika bwino.
Kodi Kupewera Pa Nkhaniyi? Inde inde. Muyenera kuchita izi:
- Phunzirani zonse za ntchito yokonda kwambiri (yolimba, malo, malipiro, malingaliro kwa iye mu timu).
- Kanani kulipira ngongole. Ngati kuzolowera poyamba anachita mowolowa manja, adalipira m'malo odyerawo, ndipo ubalewo utakhala pafupi, ndipo mwadzidzidzi adapeza chifukwa cholankhula ndi zokambirana zazikulu.
- Ngati zitachitika kuti Macholo alibe ntchito - poyamba amagwira ntchito, kenako ubale wachikondi umapitilira.
- Osati kuyambitsa mabanja ndi abwenzi. Nthawi zonse amafunsa kuti mnzakeyo amapezeka.
- Yambitsani kukambirana za mwana (ngakhale ngati simukukonzekera tsopano). Kutsutsana ndi - ichi ndi chifukwa chokhalira tcheru.
Momwe Mungachotsere Alfons:
- Pafupi "Chrone". Zolimba komanso mosaganizira.
- Kunena kuti chilichonse chozungulira inu sichokwanira. Katunduyu ndi abale anu.
- Kuti akwatiwe, andiuze zomwe mukufuna kudzamaliza mgwirizano wachikwati. Pali loya wabwino amene mumamukhulupirira.
- Njira yabwino kwambiri komanso yosangalatsa - mwadzidzidzi nenani kuti muli ndi zovuta zachuma, choncho mudzakhala ndi moyo wake. Bwerani kuntchito mumavuto oponderezedwa. Mufunseni ngongole yofanana ndi zigawo zosachepera zisanu, ndikunena kuti mukufuna kuthana ndi mavuto anu azachuma. Mudzaona momwe njira zidzafalikira.
Nthawi yomweyo ndikofunikira kuchotsa malingaliro ofatsa (ngati akadali okonzeka). Pankhaniyi, wothandizira wabwino kwambiri ndi kunyada. Ndipo inde, simuyenera kunong'oneza bondo. Linali phunziro labwino komanso lothandiza pamoyo.
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