Momwe mungachitire kuti mwana asalumbire ndi mphasa?
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1. Kodi mungalumbire bwanji mwana yemwe salumbira, ngati bambo alumbira?
Zimamveka ngati "kuthirira mwana wanga nthawi zonse ndi madzi otentha, kutenthetsa kuti muwombere?" Ndizotheka kwa nthawi yayitali komanso molimbika kununkhira zowotcha zokwera mtengo, zachidziwikire, koma zilonda zatsopano zimawonekerabe. Njira yosavuta kwambiri ikuwoneka kuti ikuwoneka kuti ikuwononga chifukwa cha kuwotcha - siyani kutsanulira madzi otentha kwa mwana. Chifukwa chake, timakambirana momwe abambo anu alili, kubweretsa mfundo, tikufunafuna mayankho. Piritsi yamatsenga, yomwe imathandizira pamavuto makolo kuti alere ana osalembedwadwa, mwatsoka, ayi.
2. Nanga bwanji ngati mwana aphunzira Masa kuchokera kwa amayi? Amayi anasangalala ...
Tikhale oona mtima nokha, choyamba. Ngati mayi wina, atangodulidwa mwadzidzidzi mwana, iye anachita mantha osachita mantha ndipo salinso, ndiye kuti mwanayo sangathe nthawi yomweyo amakhala arthik nthawi yomweyo. Ngati izi "mwasangalala" zinachitika, titha kulankhula ndi mwana, kuti tinene kuti "Inde, zinthu zachitika kale," ndikunena za momwe mukumvera - Ndidzayesetsa kuchita zambiri izi sizinachitike, chifukwa m'banja mwathu sizovomerezeka. " Ngati banja silili lachiyerekezo, m'banjamo mwana sadzamubweretsa. Mu kampani - mwina, koma makamaka makolo omwe amakhazikitsa malamulowo ndikugwiritsa ntchito maziko awo, osintha achinyamata okhawo amatha.
3. Kodi ndemanga za ana owonjezereka? Ndi zochitika ziti zomwe sizichita izi?
Ngakhale tikumvetsetsa kuti zikuwoneka ngati ife, akuluakulu ayenera kukopa mbadwo wachinyamata, yankho limodzi, Lamulo, ndilibe malamulo. Ngati mungabwerere pamsewu wakuda usiku ndi pakhomo, kampani ya achinyamata imafinya mowa komanso zofunikira, ndiye kuti muyankhule nawo Aya-Yai ndiwokwera mtengo kwambiri. Ngati mukuzungulira mzindawu ndikuyenda anyamata oyenda, ngati mutamva mphangwe imodzi, ngati mulibe mwana, ndizotheka kuthana ndi makutu - kumapeto, simudzapeza Sambani malilime anu. Komabe, pamalo osewerera, makamaka anyamata ndi ziphuphu zomwe zingapangidwe. Mwaulemu. Kuchokera kwa akulu. Osadzudzula ndipo osaphunzitsa, koma kumbutsa malamulo. "Achinyamata, inu muli pabwalo losewerera inu ana ambiri, pezani nthawi ina ndi malo ena olankhulana. Tsopano ndikofunikira kusintha lexicon yanu. " Mukudziwa zanga, achitane ndi achinyamata achichepere, mawu afa samamvetsetsa, koma zomwe zimagwira ndikusintha mzere wa machitidwe kapena malo.
4. Kodi mungakhale bwanji ngati mnzake wa mwamuna wake sachita manyazi m'mawu, satha kukana?
Sizingatheke kubwezeretsedwa - izi ndi ngati akugawika ndi abwana kapena zimapangitsa kuti mudzichite nokha m'matumba. Ndimaganiza kuti mnzake wa mwamuna wake amakopera milanduyi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ali bwino, samawona kuti ndikofunikira kuvuta. Ndipo kenako funso la malire anu ndi malire a nyumba yanu. Titha kunena malamulo ndikuyembekeza kuti zikondwerero zawo. Vonomezani kuti ngati munthu abwera kwa ife ndikuponya masokosi odyera patebulo, tidzapeza mphamvu yakumukweza kwa iye. Ndipo ngati iye amaziona kuti ndichilendo kwa Kakan pakati pa chipindacho kuti sofa yathu, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri ndimakhala chitseko. Mwamtheradi, titha kuchita nawo omwe akukanidwa ndi ana athu, ndipo titha kukumana ndi abwenzi omwe ali ndi mbali zakale. Zikhulupiriro zawo zonse zomwe "chabwino, iye samamvetsa chilichonse mwa atatu ake, iye sanamvere zisanu, pa eyiti ndipo kotero podziwana ndi aphunzitsiwo m'munda ndi aphunzitsi kusukulu. Nyumba yanu ndi malamulo anu.
5. Kodi mungafotokozere bwanji mwana uja si bwino?
Posachedwa, m'badwo udzabwera pamene mwana sadzafunsa, zomwe zili zozizira, komanso zomwe sizili, zidzazindikira kuti ndi vaska yoyandikana. Vaska ali ndi katundu wamkulu pazaka 16, ndipo makolowo sakuchita zinthu zomwe tizichita. Ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino, motero chikhalidwe chinali chodekha. Ngakhale kuti nthawi yosangalatsayi sinabwere, titha kuyesa kusamalira njira yathu - kampani yomwe ikhala yozizira. Mwachitsanzo, pagulu la mabatani ozizira - kuchoka pa msewu wakuda, osasamala patebulo. Koma! Tipanga njira zina, koma mwana amathanso kutenga, ndikusiya omwe, palibe ungwiro. Chifukwa chake, pumulani ndikudikirira ikasunthidwa. Mapeto ake, sindinawaone akulu omwe ali konkriti ya konkra pachifukwa ichi - ngakhale akudziwa.
6. Ana adafunsa chifukwa chake.
Amayi adalongosola kuti amatchedwa. Ana anali ndi mafunso - bwanji osayankhidwa? Chifukwa chiyani awa akupangidwa?
Ndingafotokozere bwino zina, chifukwa mat sikuti nthawi zonse amabwera. Tikamanena za Anecotote, sitimayesa kukhumudwitsa aliyense. Pamene nyundo ya kugunda chala, ifenso, osati chidutswa chachitsulo kapena chonyoza. Mat m'malo moyenera kwambiri. Pali anthu omwe sadziwa kuti "sindinganene zowawa", "Ndine wokondwa" "Ndine wochita mantha kwambiri." Sanawaphunzitse choncho, motero amagwiritsa ntchito zomwe angathe. Muli ndi chisankho, mwana, ndipo ndikufuna kuti muphunzire njira zambiri zoyenera.
7. Mat akhoza kufotokozedwa pokhapokha kudzera mu mphasa. Ndipo sindimavalidwa pansi pa ana. Kodi Mungakhale Bwanji?
Sindikuvomereza. Mwanayo anabwera kwa inu nati, choncho, akuti, ndipo anati, Amayi, ndinaphunzira mawu atsopano a Notayapa kuno, ndipo sakudziwa. Mawuwa amayamba pa Buku X. Chabwino, kodi simukudziwa kwenikweni zomwe anaphunzira kumeneko? Ndipo kale, ngati mukuganiza, mutha kufotokozera bwino kuti mwina ndi wogonana amuna, omwe amatchedwa mbolo. Mwambiri, mawu opanga thupi ili ndi ambiri: mbolo, mawu a ana "pisyun" ndi zina zambiri. Ndipo maternoe, wosweka - ndiye.
8. Nanga bwanji kufotokozera mawuwo kwa mwana mu kalata B?
Onani, mwana, mawu otukwana awa ndi matanthauzidwe atatu.
Loyamba ndikupasuka, imagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati mawu oti "Damn".
Lachiwiri ndi mawu owoneka bwino, nthawi zambiri ululu kapena kukwiya.
Wachitatu ndi mayi yemwe ali ndi zogonana zambiri, zogonana ndi zogonana, ulemu, chikondi, nthawi zina pa ndalama.
Mwambiri, kugwiritsa ntchito momasuka ndi nkhani pamutu wa Mata, choyamba muyenera kudziwa nkhani yophunzitsa kugonana, kukambirana zogonana, zoletsa, monga kuchita zachiwerewere. Chifukwa adzabweretsa mawu osiyanasiyana.
9. Ndipo ngati mawu osokoneza amawongoka?
Ndi zophatikiza ndi zokwanira, zomwe simukuganiza mukalata yoyamba?
Pankhaniyi, ndinapempha mwana kuti andiuze m'malingaliro a Mawu awa. Pokhala, kumene, ophatikizika ndi vuto la nthawi, ndipo tonsefe timamvetsetsa kuti zomwe zikuchitika sizakulamulira. Koma ambiri, sindikuwona chilichonse chowopsa pankhani ya makolo, koma tidati kwanzeru, monga The Encyclopedia, idabwera kudzakudziwa ndi kukulira kwa Horion (Inde Inde, Ikufananizanso, ndipo osati kuphunzira za geography ndi mbiri ya zaluso zakale zachi Greek. Timakambirana modekha, tidzasanthula ndipo tisinthana. Koma chidwi chochuluka chimachokera ku liwu linalake komanso mutu wa Mata konse. Ndikufuna kuyika chinthu china chakhumi kuti chikhale bwino, koma mafunso adamaliza. Lembani, ndipo ndiyankha momwe mungathere.
Mu ndemanga yoyamba, ndimayika koyamba positi ya mchere wa ana - zoyambira, kotero kuti mulankhule, chiphunzitso chokakamiza kwambiri chifukwa cha nkhani yachilendo kwambiri. Ndikukulangizani aliyense kuti awerenge, zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti kuli kothandiza.