Nkhani ya mayi wina amene adamwa ana

Akatswiri azamisala amati makolo aukwati nthawi zambiri amakula

kuchokera ku zakumwa zoledzeretsa. Tinena nkhani ya mkazi, timuyitane Alena, yemwe anakulira m'banjamo mayi, koma iye yekha anasiya chizolowezi chowononga choika banja lake.

Alena

Kwa ubwana sindikufuna kukumbukira. Chinali nthawi yovuta kwambiri. Ife, ana, nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikukhala ndi njala, sitinakhalebe ndi zovala zabwinobwino, koma nthawi zambiri ndimakhala chete pa zoseweretsa. Makolo anali ndi ana atatu, ndine wachiwiri kwambiri, ndipo azichimwene ena awiri achikulire awiri. Amayi nthawi zonse amamwa kwambiri, sindinkakumbukira mawonekedwe ake owopsa. Atakwiya, anali wokwiya kwambiri, natimenya, mwachiwonekere, thupilo linasweka kuchoka pa chidwi chofuna kumwa. Abambo anaba china chake kumidzi, ndipo anaikidwa m'ndende. Ndikukumbukira, tinkafuna kudya ndi abale omwe tidathawira m'mundamo kupita ku mabediwo adavala karoti wonyansa. Kenako amayiwo anali atalandidwa ufulu wa makolo, ndipo anatitengera kusukulu ya boarding. Mukudziwa, apo panali bwino kwambiri. Tinadyetsedwa, atavala, sindinkadziwa chikondi cha makolo, motero sindinaphonye kwambiri.

Kenako ndinalowa sukulu, tinagwirizana maubale ndi abale. Panyumbayo, atsikana anga madzulowo amatha kukhala ndi phukusi lotsika mtengo kuti mupumule. Ine mwanjira ina sanaganize kuti nditha kutembenukira ku chidakwa chomwechi ndi amayi anga. Ganizirani, lita imodzi ya vinyo pasungwana anayi, ndi zachabechabe. Ndinaphunzira bwino, ndili ndi diploma, anapita kukagwira ntchito. Madzulo alionse, atatha ntchito, anamwa vinyo pang'ono kuti agone bata komanso yabwino. Ngakhale atayamba kumwa botolo, sindinkaganiza kuti ndimangoyenda ngati mayi.

Banja Lanu

Nditakumana ndi Feder, anali atamadana kwambiri ndi mowa. Koma tinakwatirana, mwana wathu wamwamuna anabadwa. Chaka chomwe ndidadyetsa bere lake, pomwe ndimatha kukhala ndi kapu ya mowa kapena vinyo, kenako ndikulimbikitsa mkaka ndikudyetsa mwana wamwamuna ndi osakaniza. Ndinamaliza kudya, ndinapeza, ndili ndi pakati. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinali osangalala, ngakhale mwana wachiwiri sanalingalirebe. Munthawi imeneyi, kunalibe mowa pamoyo wanga.

Ndinkafuna kupirira ndikubala mwana wathanzi, chifukwa woyamba anali mafunso. Nthawi zambiri ndi mwana wake wamwamuna nthawi zambiri ankagona m'zipatala, koma sindinagwirizanitse moyo wake. Mwana wamkazi adabadwa pa nthawi, koma kuyambira tsiku loyamba adagona usiku. Ndidalemedwa kwambiri, mkaka unkasowa, ndipo ndinasiya kudya ndi chifuwa. Madzulo, ana atagona, ndinalowa kukhitchini ndipo ndinaona vinyo. Zinandithandizanso kupumula pang'ono. Kenako mwana wachitatuyo adabadwa, ndimakhala kunyumba ndi ana nthawi zonse, idayamba kumwa. Nthawi zina atsikana amabwera kwa ine, ndipo timatha kutumiza ana kuti azisewera, ndipo timawona vinyo kapena champagne.

"Amayi, Osamwa"

Tsiku lina, mwana wamwamuna wamng'ono adagwa ndikugunda kwambiri mpaka atagona pambuyo pa alendo. Mwana wamwamuna woyamba anali ambulansi, ndipo pamene madokotala anafika, anawona mayi ndi ana omwe anapatsidwa kwa iwo okha. Posakhalitsa antchito ogwira ntchito pagulu adakanikizidwa. Tidalembetsa, tili kale, ngakhale sindimamwanso.

Pambuyo pake, sindinasiye mowa. Mwamuna amagwira ntchito yamalonda, amazimiririka m'madzi, motero ndinapatsidwa mwayi. Mwanjira ina anawona momwe ndimapezera botolo kuchokera mufiriji ndikuthira mu kapu. "Amayi, osamwa," ndipo mwana wawoyo analira. Ndipo kenako ndinasokonekera mkati. Ndinathira zomwe zili m'botolo komanso galasi kulowamo, ndikukumbatira ana ndikulonjeza kuti sindidzamwa.

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Kulimbana Kudalira

Ndinazindikira kuti chifukwa cha ana komanso tsogolo lawo lomwe mungafunike kulimbana ndi chizolowezi chanu chowononga. Sindinkafuna kuti abwereze zomwe ndidzachitike. Choyamba, ndidasandulika chipatala chapadera, mofananamo ndidapita madzulo pamisonkhano yomwe idasadziwika. Zonsezi zinandithandiza kuti ndisiye. Katswiritswiri wazamisala yemwe amagwira ntchito ndi ine, ananena kuti nthawi zambiri pamakhala zoledzera pomwe iwonso adzadalira zakumwa zoledzeretsa.

Ogwira ntchito ya bungweli amawopa, zomwe zimatenga ana ngati sindimavutika kumwa. Uku ndi kukopa kwamphamvu kuyamba ndi chizolowezi choyipa, chifukwa ana ndi moyo wanga. Akadakhala kuti sanali, ndimagona kalekale. Tsopano nyumba yathu imakhala pamtendere ndi mtendere. Madzulo, timakonza tiyi akumwa kunyumba, ndi "atsikana" anu - sindimakumananso kumeneko. Ndimayesetsa kusamalira nyumba zapakhomo, miyambo yokhala ndi ana, mwachitsanzo, timapita ku cafe kumapeto kwa sabata. Nthawi zonse kuyembekezera abambo athu kuchokera ku ndege, timamukonzekeretsa chakudya chokoma. Kodi ndizotheka kusinthana chisangalalo cha mabanja, chikondi, chitonthozo cha kusangalatsidwa ndi mowa?

Ndidzaonetsetsa kuti nditapuma kwapadera kwa chakudya chabanja, nkhomaliro ndi chakudya. Ndikukumbukira ubwana wanga wanjala, ndipo sindikufuna kuti ana anga akhale ndi njala. Mufiriji, nthawi zonse timakhala ndi zinthu zonse zofunika: nyama yatsopano, nyama, mkaka, yoghuths, nsomba, zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba. Ndimakonda kuphika kwambiri, ndipo mwana wanga wamkazi anandipitirira, nthawi zambiri ndimandithandiza.

Kodi Alena akulota chiyani

Maloto anga onse ndi malingaliro amtsogolo amagwirizanitsidwa ndi banja. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga timafuna kumanga nyumba yayikulu ndikutenga ana ena opita ku malo osungira ana amasiye. Ndikuganiza kuti tidzakhala ndi chisangalalo chotani! Mu ukalamba, ana ndi zidzukulu adzabwera kwa ife, kupumula m'munda wa mabulosi, mwachangu kebab, kusamba mu bafa. Ndikufuna kugawa dimba, famu yanga, kuti ana adye zinthu zatsopano komanso zapakhomo.

Kwa tchuthi, tsopano timamwa madzi kapena compote. Mwamuna wanga ndi dalaivala, motero samamwa mowa konse, chifukwa momwe angakhalire kumbuyo kwa gudumu? Ndinazindikira kuti mutha kupumula osati mothandizidwa ndi vinyo. Kugona musanamwe tiyi pa zitsamba, kupuma mpweya, kusilira dzuwa ladzuwa la dzuwa. Zosangalatsa zambiri m'moyo, ndipo musafunikire kuyang'ana njira yosangalalira. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ana anga sadzapita kumapazi a agogo anu ndipo ndimayesetsa kulimbikitsa kuti mowa ndi chikonga ndi choyipa. Apa anayamba kuyenda Lamlungu kupita kutchalitchi, komweko mzimu umakhala wosavuta, umawoneka kuti wachotsedwa. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zonse zidzakhala zabwino m'banja lathu, chifukwa timakonda ana ndipo timafuna tsogolo labwino kwa iwo. Ndipo tichita zonse kuti zinali.