Zaka zingapo zapitazo, mayi m'modzi wopanda mayi wochokera ku Russia Cristina Ghagakina adakhazikika ku Batimi, komwe adakumana ndi Jogiann Galga Ozyurk. Posakhalitsa adakwatirana ndipo adaganiza zoyamba ana, koma osati munjira yothera, koma mothandizidwa ndi mayi wankhanza. Kwa miyezi 10, mtsikana wazaka 23 anakhala mayi wa ana 10, ndipo banjali silikonzekera kusiya.
Christina anabereka mwana wake wamkazi woyamba, ali ndi zaka 17, koma ubale ndi Atate wa mwana sunakwaniritse. Patatha zaka ziwiri, patchuthi, adakumana ndi zaka 52. Ngakhale kusiyana kwakukulu m'badwo wokulirapo, adakondana, chibwenzicho chidayamba, chimalemba rebanok.by.
Malinga ndi mtsikanayo, poyamba anafuna kukhala ndi mwana mwanjira yamakono: "Chilichonse chimayenera kukhala ngati anthu: Kukonzekera, kutenga pakati, kubereka. Koma Galipa anagwira lingaliro lokhala ndi ana ambiri nthawi yomweyo, "a Christina analemba mokha. Anamuuza mkazi wake kuti azigwiritsa ntchito mayina am'munsi. Pambuyo pa msungwana wamtali wanthawi yayitali adavomera.
Pazaka zapitazi, anyamata 5 ndi atsikana 5 ataonekera pa awiriwa, pali mapasa pakati pawo. Mwana woyamba dzina lake Casafba adabadwa mu Marichi 2020, ndipo mtsikana womaliza a Olivia - mu Januware 2021.
Kuti apange banja lalikulu lotere m'nthawi yochepa, okwatirana amalipira ndalama kuti: "Nthawi zambiri, amayi obisika a ku Georgia amalandira ma euro 8,000. Kuphatikiza pa kuchuluka kwake, awiriwa amalipira ndalama zonse zachipatala. Mtengo wa njira yosinthira anthu kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kutsiriza, kuphatikizapo njira zonse zofunika, kuphatikiza ndi kubwezeretsa ndi kulipira kwa amayi a Surrogate ndi 39.
"Amayi anu amabereka, akufika kwa mwana"
Pofuna kuti Christina atenge mazira angapo kuti adzoze umuna nthawi yomweyo, anali ndi mphamvu zinayi. Malinga ndi amayi, kukonzekera njirayi sikunali kovuta: "Ndinkachita kafukufuku wina ndi kusanthula, kuti apirire jakisoni wambiri m'mimba. Pakakonzekera kwa Eco kupita nalo thupi, ambiri mahomoni ambiri amayambitsidwa m'thupi, ndichifukwa chake ndimakhala ndi zolephera za mahomoni zomwe zimakhudza momwe zimakhalira. Tangoganizirani: PMs Syndrome, yomwe siyipita kulikonse, ndipo imatenga nthawi zonse - ndiye kuti mukufuna kukangana dziko lonse ndi chikondi chanu, "kenako ndikumuwononga iye.
Pambuyo pake, kukonzekera kukhala amayi a Christina atatha. Amatha kudikirira kuyimba kuchokera kuchipatala. Atangodziwa kuti mayi wonenepa amayamba kubala, Christina adatenga matumba ndikukwera m'chipatala kuti akatenge mwana wotsatira.
Mkazi wa ku Russia akuti poyamba sanali wovuta kuti iye athane ndi ana ambiri a Nanny, ndipo nthawi zambiri zinali zovuta: "Usiku wopanda tulo, colic. , wina amagona, kulira kwinakwake, ndiye - m'malo mwake. Ndidasowa manja, ngakhale kuti ndili ndi othandizira. "
Malinga ndi a Christina, ana onse amakhala mogwirizana ndi boma lokhwima, ndipo Nanny amatsogolera zolemba zapadera momwe amalembera izi zokhudzana ndi ana: Nditagona bwanji, momwe ndimayendera Nthawi zambiri amapita kuchimbudzi. Chifukwa cha zolemba izi, amayi amadziwa nthawi zonse momwe ana ake amakulira.
Mabulogu akafunsidwa momwe alili ndi nthawi yomvera ana onse, Christina ayankha kuti: "Monga amayi onse. Ndi ana ambiri zimakhala zovuta kuzipanga, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti ndizosatheka. " Potsimikizira mawu ake, mayi wamkulu amalemba zithunzi za blog ndi ana ndikuuza momwe amawaganizira.
Olembetsa adafunsa a Christine za mwana wamkazi wamkulu pakuoneka ndi ana ambiri a ku Russia adayankha kuti: "Popeza Vka tsopano, adavomereza lingaliro ili ngati wamkulu: adavomera Kuphika mitundu yonse ya kubereka kwa tsiku lobadwa a aliyense, kusankha ine zovala ndi zida zosiyanasiyana za alongo ndi abale. "
Kodi ndizowona kuti banjali likufuna ana 105?
Ambiri ofalitsa nkhani adalemba kuti Christina ndi mwamuna wake amafuna ana 105 mtsogolo. Amayi amatsutsa mu blog yake. Atayamba kuchita ku Instagram, anali ndi ana 5. Nambala ya 105 inali itakhazikika ndipo idayamba kusamaliridwa ndi chinthucho mumutu wa mbiriyo. "Izi sizitanthauza kuti tikukonzekera kukhala ndi ana 105," olembetsa amayi a Amayi 11 adatsimikizika.
Koma sizikhalabe kuti banjali zitheke. Christina samasiyiratu izi mtsogolo momwe iyenso amabala mwana, ngakhale kuti njirayi saganizira njira imeneyi. Komanso bloggegy anayankha iwo amene amada nkhawa za banja. Christina akuti iwo ndi mwamuna wake adaganiza za funso ili, ndipo ali ndi ndalama zaka zambiri patsogolo.