Kwa nthawi yayitali, kupezeka kwa anthu kuchokera kwa makolo maluso kunali kofunikira kuti apulumuke m'badwo wotsatila. Kuphunzira kusaka, kukulitsa dziko lapansi, kumanga nyumba - zonsezi zinali chinsinsi choti mupitirize. Nthawi yomweyo, zinthu zina zimafalikira: mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya miyambo, zikhulupiriro ndi njira zina mwa njira imodzi kapena ina.
Masiku ano, kufunikira kotengera luso la kupulumuka kwakuthupi, koma mu banja lililonse pali makonzedwe osiyanasiyana ndi makonzedwe omwe amakhazikika mosavuta ku mibadwomibadwo. Dongosolo la mfundo izi limatchedwa psychology yotengera banja.
Pofika ndipo kukwezeka palibe cholakwika ndi iwo - mpaka zochitika izi zomwe zikuchitika zimayamba kutsutsana ndi dongosolo la anthu omwe ali payekha kapena nzeru wamba.
"Ndilibe zochitika zilizonse!" - Ambiri anganene, koma ndikofunikira kukumbukira miyoyo yawo kwambiri, ndipo ndithudi pali zinthu zomwe munthu amachita, chifukwa makolo ake adachita izi, nthawi zonse zidachitika m'banjamo (kuyambira keke), kutha ndi nkhani zakulera ana).
Zolemba zimatha kukhudza gawo lililonse la moyo:
Kasamalidwe kachuma
Nthawi zonse tiyenera kukonzekera mkazi, kuyeretsa kovomerezeka Loweruka, mnyumbamo nthawi zonse kumakhala chakudya chokhudza malowa, wosamalira nyumbayo ali ndi waulesi.
Maphunziro ndi Ntchito
Popanda maphunziro apamwamba, adzatha, ntchitoyo iyenera kusankha kukhala otchuka, osati amene mukufuna, ndikofunikira kuphunzira, mwina simudzakwaniritsa chilichonse pamoyo.
Kongoza
Ndalama Zazikulu - Mavuto Owonjezera, olemera a Crook (kapena mosinthanitsa), kugula ndi kuchotsera kwamaso.
Olowa mbanja
Mawu a Atate m'banjamo, ana onse abwino, monga momwe amayi angasankhire, adzakhala.
Maganizo a Ukwati
Sizingatheke kusudzulana (mwa akazi - wina ndi ana adzazimiririka; Amuna - Ayenera Kukula Ana)
Chifukwa cha zochitika, anthu amapeza anzawo omwe amapeza zofanana ndi makolo awo amaberekanso maubale awo m'mabanja awo monga momwe anali ku banja la kholo.
Palinso zinthu ngati zam'mbuyomo munthu, atasankha mkhalidwe wosiyana - kutsutsana. Komabe, izi sizitanthauza kuti ndi yaulere. Amapanganso moyo wake ndi mtanda wosalekeza wa njira yosakhwima, kuyesera kuti asatchulenso, ndiyenso, kutengera script.
Zimakhala zovuta m'magawo a okwatirana kapena kungotanthauza kuti azichita zinthu zosiyanasiyana pa moyo) nthawi zambiri zimakhala zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano yabanja.
Sizingatheke kunena kuti nthawi zonse zimakhala zoipa nthawi zonse, palinsonso zomwe zimatsata zenizeni. Koma ngati mungatengereko zomwe zimakulepheretsani kupanga moyo wachimwemwe kapena wopanda ntchito ndipo sizikugwirizana ndi zamakono, ndiye kuti ndi nthawi yosamala za zomwe akumvera.
Gawo loyamba komanso lofunika kwambiri la ntchito yomwe ili ndi zochitika - kuwaona ndikuzindikira. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuzichita nokha, ndizofunikira kuthandiza katswiri. Ndikofunikira kusanthula machitidwe ake ndikuwona zomwe sizimabweretsanso zotsatira, koma nthawi zonse zimathera. Ndikofunika kuphunzira banja lanu m'mibadwo yapafupi.
Njira yabwino yowerengera iyi, mwachitsanzo, kupanga mtunduwo (chithunzithunzi cha banja osachepera mibadwo itatu). Cholinga ndikupeza abale omwe amapezeka mofananamo, ndipo ngati zingatheke, posanthula chifukwa chake khalidweli lidakhala lokwanira.
Mwachitsanzo, mwazindikira kuti ndizovuta kuti mupange ubale ndi abambo. Pakapita nthawi, patapita nthawi, nthawi ikadzaganiza kuti: "Chifukwa chiyani ndimafunikira ubale womwewu, inenso sindikufuna kudziwa bwino aliyense."
Moyo wa Amayi amasanthula ndikumvetsetsa kuti adapiriranso zonse zomwe adakumana nazo, ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi "abambo odula", komanso oyipa - amuna sanazengereze m'moyo wake.
Nthawi zambiri pazithunzi zoterezi, chikondwerero cha agogo aakazi, chomwe m'nkhondo yomwe idakhalabe ndi ana opanda anthu. Palibe chomwe chidatsala, momwe mungatoolerere chidzakhala chithothoka ndi chilichonse. Panalibe njira ina yotuluka. Ndipo izi zikufalitsa kuti "akazi omwe ali pamahatchi owotcha" m'mibadwo mibadwo.
Moyo wokhawo udasinthira, mikhalidwe idasinthiratu, ndipo pazomwe sizikupezekanso, ndipo ndi anthu ochepa omwe amaganiza kuti kubala mbiri ya makolo awo.
Ndipo pali zolengedwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti kuchedwetsa ndalamazo, ana a anthu omwe akugwira ntchito amakhala ndi chidaliro kuti ndizotheka kupeza ntchito zovutirapo, omwe mu chikhalidwe cha mkazi avutika Kuchokera kuyembekezera kwa ankhanza ake, kukhala ndi zopereka, osawona mwayi wosiya ubalewo.
Ngati mungathe kuwona zomwe zikubwereza, lingalirani kuti mwachita ntchito yambiri. Kenako, ndikofunikira kudzipatula pa nkhaniyi. Kuti muwone izi kuchokera ku zochitika izi zimakhala zofunikira, zomwe mumateteza nazo kapena zomwe zimathandizira kuthetsa.
Ndikofunikanso kumvetsetsa kuti kufunikira kwa njira yomwe mungabwezere ndikukulepheretsani. Fungani nokha gawo la script yomwe mukufuna kupitilizabe kukwaniritsa moyo wanu. Kodi mungasinthe chiyani? Ndi machitidwe ati omwe ayenera kuphunzira kapena maluso omwe akufunika kupangidwa.
Kugwira ntchito ndi script kumafuna nthawi. Musayembekezere zotsatira zachangu - izi zimagwira ntchito zaka zambiri kapena ngakhale zaka za zana limodzi. Sinthani m'masiku angapo sizigwira ntchito. Koma ngati mungadzipangire cholinga chake ndikumusunthira kwa iye, ndiye kuti mudzathe kudzipatulapo ndi mbiri yachikale ndikuyamba kukhala moyo wanu.