Pakakhala ndi chikhumbo chachikulu kwa munthu amabwera, pamodzi ndi izi, mphamvu zochulukirapo zikuwoneka kuti zikugwira ntchito. Ndikuganiza kuti mwakumana ndi zomwezi mukafuna kusintha mapiri, ndikufuna kuuza aliyense, mkati mwa chinthu chachikulu, ndipo mtima ndi wokonzeka, kungolumphira kunja kwa chifuwa.
Nthawi zambiri, munthu amaganiza kuti kuno ndi kumene kukuyembekezera kwanthawi yayitali. Thamangani. Amathamanga, ndikupunthwa, kugwa, ndipo ... siyani kuyesetsa kuyesetsa kuti akufuna. Kodi mungatani kuti tidziwe zokhumba "osakankha mawondo"? Yerekezerani zitsanzo ziwiri.
Munthu m'modzi wazindikira kuti akufuna kukhala ndi kanyumba. Ndipo lingaliro ili, lingaliro ili lidachita cholinga cha mtsogolo. Mwachilengedwe, mphamvu zake zaulere (nthawi, mphamvu, ndalama, zida, ndi zina) zidzakwaniritsa cholinga ichi, monga momwe amaganizira. Pang'onopang'ono, apeza chiweto, chopeza zida, kungoganiza mapulani ndipo, pomaliza, adzamanga khomo lake.
Amakhala patsogolo pazenera la munthu wa TV mwa mwamuna ndikuganiza kuti: "Zingakhale bwino kukhala ndi dziko lotereli!" Tsiku lotsatira, ndikuyang'ana pazenera la TV, munthu amaganiza kuti: "Zingakhale bwino kukhala ndi dimba lalikulu komanso lokongola ngati England! Ndikufuna chimodzimodzi! " Tsiku lina: "Zingakhale bwino kupita ku galimoto yanu. Ndikufuna jeep yomweyo! "
Munthuyu sangathe kuzindikira zofuna zake. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa, popanda kukhala ndi cholinga chomveka bwino, chomveka bwino komanso chachindunji, munthu uyu akungowononga mphamvu zake m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Ndikufuna zonse ziwiri, ndi wachitatu.
Limasonyeza kuti kufika kofunika kwambiri pankhani ya cholinga.
Popanda kukhazikitsa cholinga, ndende yake ndi kudziunjikirako. Ngati munthuyu adakwanitsa kutolera mphamvu zonsezi pamodzi (kuti asatulutse), ndiye kuti, mwina, zilizonse mwa zokhumba zimatha kuperekedwa.
ZOONA ZOONA: "Chabwino mkulu woipa (kapena dongosolo) kuposa wina aliyense".
- Chifukwa chake, khazikitsani cholinga chake kuti musunthire malingaliro, Sungani lingaliro lawo, gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu pa ntchito imodzi. Mphamvu zambiri, zomwe zimangoganiza za lingaliro, kuzindikira maloto kudzachitika.
Pali malamulo ena omwe ali ndi dongosolo. Ndilola kuti ndikupatseni ziwiri zokha, koma, mwa lingaliro langa, zofunika kwambiri. Ngati saona, palibe chowopsa, sichidzachitika. Koma kodi mungachite chidwi mpaka liti? Ndipo sizikudziwika, zimangochita zambiri?
Zoposa zolimba mtima kuti mumawadziwa kale. Koma dziwani ndipo zimachita ndi mawu osiyana ndi onse, ndipo sizitanthauza chinthu chomwecho.
1. Cholinga chiyenera kulembedwa papepala ndi gawo loyamba lopita kutchinga chilichonse.
Ngati mungafotokozere zokhumba zanu papepala, zimatha kupanga, zikutanthauza kuti mukudziwa bwino zomwe mukufuna. Ndipo ngati inu mukudziwa zomwe mukufuna, ndiye kuti izi zitha kutheka. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosavuta komanso zosavuta, koma mwina.
Inde, muli ndi ufulu wotsutsana kuti mumawadziwa anthu omwe amakwaniritsa maloto awo (ndipo mwina mwachita) popanda wolemba aliyense. Ndiye bwanji mukukwera mahatchi masiku ano, ngati pali magalimoto kapena njira ina iliyonse, yomwe ingapangitse moyo wathu ndikupangitsa komwe akupita mwachangu komanso omasuka?
Tiyerekeze kuti munthu ali ndi maloto ena, chikhumbo. Lero adzuka mu utawaleza wa Mzimu. Maloto ake akuwoneka kwa iye mu utoto wokongola wokongola. Chilichonse ndichabwino!
Tsiku lotsatira, iye anadzuka "osati kuchokera pansi" kapena china. Ndipo akuganiza kale za maloto ake, osati oopsa, ngakhale atayikapo mphamvu ya mtundu wina - zoipa.
Koma ngati munthu walemba cholinga chake papepala, ndiye kuti ali ndi miyendo iliyonse, adzawerenga mawu, ndipo mawuwo sanasinthe ndipo sasintha masiku ano, kapena mawa, kapena mawa, kapena mawa. Chilichonse! Wokakamira! Ndipo mphamvu sizisintha. Mawu amakhudza mphamvu.
Ndiponso, ngati mungalole kuti muwerenge zolinga zanu kwa okondedwa athu ndi anzanu, kwa anthu omwe angathandizidwe, atawerenga cholinga chathu, adzawonjezera mphamvu zawo mkhalidwe womwewo.
Khulupirirani Izi! Zinagwira ntchito m'miyoyo ya anthu ambiri komanso ambiri. Osangonyalanyaza zoterezi, zingaoneke ngati zosagonjetseka. Zotsatira zikuwonetsa kuti Trifle iliyonse ikhoza kukhala yofunika kwambiri.
2. Zolinga zanu ziyenera kulembedwa pakalipano.
Ingoganizirani za zomwe munthu amalemba chifukwa cha zolinga zake: "Ndilandira $ 1000 pamwezi." Zida zokongola, zofuna zabwino. Cholinga chake chalembedwa, chokhazikika kukhoma, chimadutsa mwezi, ziwiri, zitatu, zisanu ndi chimodzi, kusintha m'moyo. Chifukwa chiyani?
Chifukwa chakuti asayansi awerengetsa kuti ndi mkhalidwe wachuma zam'dziko mu 2037, penshoni, penshoni idzakhala $ 1000, ndipo munthuyo azilandira. Osadandaula! Zimakhalabe kudikirira zaka 16. Ndipo tikufuna chaka chino! Izi ndi chitsanzo chokoka. Nthabwala, ngati mukufuna, pomwe pali chowonadi china. Ndikofunikira kuti muyambenso.
Mwachitsanzo, mutha kulemba monga chonchi: "Ndimalandira $ 1000 pamwezi" kapena "ndimachita chilichonse kuti ndikhale $ 1000 mwezi uno." Ndi funso lotere, kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo kudzachitika mwachangu.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti sindinatope ndi manambala ndipo ndikukuwuzani inu ndi nthawi yopindulitsa nthawi yowerenga nkhani.
Pomaliza, ndikulakalaka inu kuti zokhumba zanu zonse zikhale zenizeni! Tsopano mukudziwa momwe mungachitire! Zimangokhala - kuti tichite!
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