Oyandikana nawo mdzikolo, pakhomo ndi pamalopo, mnansi mu coupe, mumsewu ... anansi pamoyo amatsagana nafe, ali pafupi. Tikukhala ndi anthu awa, mikangano ndi ine, timakangana za chinthu chaching'ono, kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake, kudula. Pali zochitika zingapo, zonse zili mwachizolowezi.
Anzathu ndi ana athu akuyenda limodzi kumtsinje, kukwera njinga, kusewera masewera amodzi pa intaneti, nthawi zina mikangano, nthawi zina imayamba mchikondi ndikukwatiwa. Kenako oyandikana nawo amakhala oyang'anira. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti m'zimayiko ena ku Europe pamakhala "tsiku la anansi". Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndi zolondola, zikane patebulo wamba, zimayankhula mitu wamba, imwani kapu ya vinyo, imbani nyimbo yamisala.
Koma m'miyoyo pali zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Titha kukhumudwitsidwa ndi mnansi wina wosweka pakati pa ziwembu kapena zobzala chitsamba, kudandaula kuti mnansiyo amakopera kapena kumvetsera nyimbo kumvetsera. Oyandikana ndi mnansi akuphwanya mtendere kapena kuyika galimoto pafupi ndi khomo lanu. Kumakumbukiridwa?
Tinali ndi mlandu. Sititseka chitseko m'nyumba. Kuyimba, m'mawa kwambiri ine ndi mkazi wogona m'chipinda komweko kudzakhala mnansi: "Kodi pali zakudya zokwana 50?" Chifukwa cha izi zikhumudwitsidwa ndi mnansi? Adafunsa, ndidanyamuka ndikugawana. Palibe amene anamwalira, palibe chomwe chidachitika, aliyense ali ndi moyo komanso wathanzi. Zowona, kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, mkaziyo adayamba kutseka chitseko usiku, ndipo ndidapanga nkhaniyi kuntchito ngati enecdote yatsopano.
Tsopano, mu zaka zakutukuka mwachangu kwa anthu, nthawi zina mavuto athu amakumana ndi mavuto ena, koma izi zimatsalira ndipo tikukhala ndi iwo. Muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire ndi nthawi, polemekeza malingaliro a mnansiyo, muyenera kugwa pang'ono, muyenera kumvetsera mwasinkhasinkhani lingaliro lina. Lolani mnansi akhale wotsika kuposa momwe gulu lili mgululi, koma iye ndi banja lake akuyang'ananso malo pansi pa dzuwa. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa, muyenera kuvomereza izi, muyenera kupirira.
Tangoganizirani zomwe mnansi wanu ndiye munthu wapamtima kwambiri. Palibenso kuti akhulupirire, mulibe munthu woti azigawana zovuta zanga popanda aliyense kupempha ndalama panthawi yovuta. Pothokoza, munthuyu akhoza kukupangitsani kuti muchite zinthu zambiri. Zimachitika kawirikawiri. Muthanso kukhala ndi mavuto, ndipo choyamba ndi mnzake mnzake adzathandiza. Pakavuta, nthawi zonse timasangalatsa anansi. Nationanso achibale amatha kukhala kutali, ndipo mnansi amakhala kumeneko.
Milandu ya mikangano ili ndi mnansi, ali m'banjamo. Wina sakonda chidwi cha oyandikana nawo, zokambirana zina kumbuyo kwa nsanachitike, zosangalatsa zausiku kapena ziweto zawo. Munthawi iliyonse, muyenera kudzipangitsa nokha kuonana, kumvetsetsa vutolo, nthawi zina kumangoyankhula mofatsa. Simukufunikira kukulitsa maubale ndi oyandikana nawo, sizingadzetse zotsatira zabwino.
Monga Mikhail Zadordov ananena molondola komanso moyenera: "Osakhala Roy ndi dzenje, apo ayi amagwiritsa ntchito ngati ngalande." Pokhapokha pokhapokha, kudzera pachitetezo chaching'ono, kusamvana kumatha kuthetsedwa mwa kuponyedwa kwa zomwe akuzunzidwa. Mnzathu sangayamikire zochita zanu komanso nthawi ina mukadzakupatsani.
Nthawi zina mnansi wina amakhala wankhanza, wokondweretsa kwambiri, wamwano. Tikanani mawu akhungu, timvetsetse kuti simukusemphana ndi nkhondo, ndipo zochititsa manyazi sizingachitike. Nthawi zina mutha kukulitsa mawu, atachenjeza mozama kuti: "Sipadzakhala kowopsa!" Fotokozerani malingaliro anu ndikulankhulanso mwakachetechete, scaby kuti izi zisakhale bwino ndikuchita manyazi.
Kumbukirani kuti:
- Anthu onse ndi osiyana, malingaliro athu ovomerezeka ndi osiyana - mumakonda amodzi, oyandikana nawo ndi osiyana, amakayikira;
- Tangolandirani mnzake nthawi zonse.
- Limbikitsani ubwenzi wa ana anu, phunzitsani chikhalidwe chawo;
- Sungani khomo lanu loyera ndi dongosolo lanu;
- Lankhulani, Thandizani Mnansi Wanu, musungeni mu miningo yovuta;
- Mwa njira iliyonse kusiya mikangano;
- Nthawi zonse khalani ndi zabwino.
Asa! Posachedwa anakumana ndi mnansi wawo m'magulu ochezera. Zinapezeka kuti ife tiri m'gulu losangalala. Sindinadziwenso kuti mnansi wanga ali ndi zosangalatsa ngati ine. Adauzidwa - Ndendende, zonse zilidi.
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