Kukhazikitsidwa kwa mwana ndi njira yovuta, yovuta, yodzaza ndi ziyembekezo ndikusintha kwathunthu njira yamoyo. Wina yemwe ali mu Uniffent amapeza banja lomwe maulere amakangana ndi magazi aliwonse, ndipo wina amakhala zaka zambiri, kuyesera kupanga maubwenzi ndi sitepe ndi kulumikizana.
Ife mu ADME.Akukhulupirira kuti anthu omwe angaganize kuti ayenera kukhala ndi mtima waukulu, komanso olimba mtima komanso oleza mtima. Ndipo pali mwayi woti mwana wina aliyense akhale ndi abale.
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Makolo atenga mchimwene wanga wamkulu. Achibale ndi omwe amawadziwa anali ndi chidaliro kuti sadzatha kukula munthu wabwinobwino kuti palibe chabwino kumasulidwa. Chifukwa majini. Zotsatira zake, mchimwene wanga anamaliza sukulu ndi mendulo yagolide, ndi yunivesite yokhala ndi dipuloma yofiyira. Uwu ndiye munthu yekhayo amene adzandichirikize nthawi zonse ndipo mosasamala kanthu za zomwe zachitikabe ndi zowona mtima. Ndimakondwera kwambiri ndikulemekeza m'bale wanga. Gennes ndi amodzi, ndipo chikondi ndi maphunziro ndizosiyana. © © vk
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Mphunzitsi wanga ndi mnzake nthawi imodzi adaganiza zokhala ndi mwana. Anasonkhanitsa zikalata zikwizikwi. Ndinali mndandanda wa kumuchitira iye, akamatenga mnyamatayo. Aliyense anati zingakhale zovuta kwa iye: Amati, Mwanayo ndi wocheperako, wofooka ndipo amawoneka bwino kwambiri. Mnyamatayo ali ndi zaka 14 tsopano, amakhala ndi amayi ake ku Montenegro, amatenga mphoto pamasewera a masewera, amalandila ma dipuloma pophunzira bwino kusukulu. Monga anati, "Ndangoona kuti sakonda chikondi." © a chisano shook / facebook
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Tinakhala ndi moyo wosabwana kwa zaka 8 ndipo tinazindikira kuti anali okonzeka kutengera. Tinkafuna anyamata awiri kwa zaka 2-3. Komabe, pazifukwa zina, nthawi yomweyo ndinapempha kuti ndili mwana wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, ndinauuza pang'ono za tsoka lake latsoka. Tikufuna kusiya, chifukwa ngakhale zomwe zidamveka zinali zowopsa. Koma mwamuna wanga ndi ine tinaona chithunzi, ndinayang'ana malo athu. Panalibe wokongola pachithunzichi - burrooh burrooh kanthu komwetulira. Koma mwadzidzidzi tinasanthula kwa iye, kapena vuto lake kapena mavuto amtsogolo. Panali kumverera komveka bwino kuti kwathu.
Zinali zovuta kwambiri ndi wachiwiri. Anapereka mwana wazaka 1.5, palibe mavuto, pamsonkhano - wokongola, koma osati wathu. O, chikadachitika pano! "Simuli m'sitolo kuti musankhe!" - Ichi ndiye chofewa kwambiri chomwe tidamva. Koma tidadziwa kale kumverera kumeneku ndi vuto la "koma kumverera komveka bwino kwa" wathu "sikunathe, koma mwamphamvu ndikutithandiza. Mosakayikira, anapatsanso ena, koma osatinso. Panali tromematum: aliyense kapena aliyense. Tinali ndi nkhawa kwambiri, koma anakana. Nakhala adani a anthu. Zikadapanda kuchita bwino ndi wamkulu, ndiye kuti zitseko za alonda zitsekedwa kwamuyaya. Ndipo chozizwitsa chinachitika. Ndidawona chithunzi m'gulu lodzipereka, mtima udaphuka kale. Adawonetsa mwamuna wake, ndipo nthawi yomweyo: "Ndiye athu!" Tidauza miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yakale, koma tinali ndi mwayi. Kholo lathu lakhala ndi zaka 10. Ndidadwala chilichonse, panali zovuta zomwe zidatsala pang'ono kutseka manja anu, koma osatsikira - chifukwa awa ndi ana athu. Yathu 100%. © Mari.AR / Pikabu
zinayi.
Banja lathu zaka 8 zapitazo adatenga mwana wazaka 4. Makolo amawononga ndalama zonse zomwe amakopera kuti atenge galimoto kuti apange pepala, nyamula, diresi, gombe. Amayi adapita kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito kuti amuthandize kusintha njira yatsopanoyo. Timaika mphamvu zanu zonse ndi mizimu yake. Ndipo tsopano palibe chikhumbo chomukonda Iye ndipo ndikufuna kukhala nzika ya Iye. Amaba kunyumba, kusukulu mwa abwenzi, amapusitsa, amaphunzira pafupifupi awiri. Waulesi ndi Narcissist, ndipo sanalowebe m'badwo wosintha. Palibe aliyense wa makolo ake ndipo sakhulupirira kuti aliyense amamukankhira. Mitsempha ya zaka 8 ndikuyamba kutukwana. © © vk
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Takhala ndi mwana wamkazi wazaka 8 ali ndi zaka 8, takhala ndi mwana wazaka 13. Sindinakhale ndi ana ambiri, koma ndimafunadi. Koma kumalo osungirako ana amasiye, tinaona msungwana wokongola uyu banja lake linamwalira pa ngozi yowopsa. Tsopano ali kale 19, koma sananditchule amayi. Zonse zili bwino, koma pakadali pano pali malingaliro kuti tikuchezera, osati kunyumba. Ubale wake wonse ndi ife akuwoneka ngati chiyamidwe. Koma ndikufuna kuti azimva bwino, amadziwa kuti nawonso nyumba yake. Mawu omwe iye anafuula zaka 11 zapitazo, akupindika mumutu pakangana wathu woyamba womwe ali kale ndi makolo ndipo sipadzakhalanso ena. Koma timamukonda kwambiri. © © vk
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Ana athu awiri amalera. Ndikadagona ngati nditanena kuti ine ndi mkazi wanga tinali ndisanalingalirepo, adavomerezedwa molondola potenga ana kuchokera ku malo osungira ana amasiye. Koma ife sitimasungira konse za izi. Poyamba, anyamatawa anali ovuta kusintha. Koma tsopano adazindikira kuti amawakonda, ndipo adachepa. Zachidziwikire, ana odzilera nthawi zonse amamva kuwawa. Amatha kukumbukira zakale zawo, ngakhale kuti sangathe kubwerera ku iyo ndikuchichotsa kwathunthu. Ndipo iyi ndiye gawo lovuta kwambiri lomwe limagwirizanitsidwa ndi kukhazikitsidwa. Koma kodi pali ana omwe alibe mavuto? Inde sichoncho. Chifukwa chake sindikudandaula za kubadwa kwakale. Ine, m'malo mwake, zikomo kwambiri kwa ana anga, kuti sindingathe kufotokozanso izi ndi mawuwo! © william Spencer / quora
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Wodziwika bwino anatenga msungwana wazaka 5 kuchokera ku Dasa dama. Chilichonse chinali chatha mpaka atakhala ndi zaka 14 sanatsegule chowonadi, osadziwika ". Mwana wamkazi adaponya padenga: adanenedwa mayi wokondweretsa m'machimo onse, adayamba kuthawa nyumbayo, adalumikizana ndi kampani yoyipa. Anatembenukiranso ku kanema wapawailesi yakanema wodziwika ndi pempho lopeza mayi wachikhalidwe. Zotsatira zake, zidapezeka kuti sanapeza amayi okha, komanso mkulu wina wachinyamata, yemwe banja lina lolowera. Amayi obadwa, mayi wakugwa, pamsonkhanowu sanalole daisha ngakhale pakhomo. Mlongo zokopa zonse zoyanjananso ndi banja lake adayankha molimba kuti ali ndi makolo ena - omwe adaleredwa. Dasha sanathe kukhululukiranso mayi ake omwe adamponya kapena mtsogolo, zomwe zaka zambiri zidabisidwa zonena za kubereka.
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Mnansiyo wataya mwana wake yekha pangozi yagalimoto, pomwe anali ndi zaka 17. Pakapita kanthawi, ali ndi zaka 50, adatenga zaka zoyamba zaka 6 kuchokera kudziko lina. Mtsikanayo anali ndi mavuto ena omwe pambuyo pake adasintha kukhala zamaganizidwe. Woyandikana naye adamumenya m'madotolo, adayesa gulu la mankhwala osokoneza bongo, koma pachabe. Choyamba, Greta adathawa kunyumba kwa zaka 14. Patatha miyezi ingapo, kuthawa mobwerezabwereza. Mtsikanayo adalongosola kuti adayesa kubwerera kubanja, yemwe waletsa mayi ake osamulera. Pamene Gret anali 16, adasowa kupitilira chaka. Ndipo anapeza atayitanidwa kuchipatala m'maiko 5 kuchokera mnyumba, ndipo anati zinanso zinabala, ndi kusiya mwana kumeneko, ndi kulumikizana kwa mayi mnzake. Chifukwa chake, mu zaka 67, mwana adagwera mnansi. Greta adawonekera kamodzi pachaka ndipo adapempha ndalama kwa amayi omwe alandiridwa, akuima kuti atenge mwana. Patatha zaka zingapo adasiya mwana wina kupita kuchipatala china. Tsopano mnansiyo wafika kale mu 80, ndipo akubweretsa zidzukulu ziwiri "zosemphana ndi mavuto. © Jaimyry / Reddit
asanu ndi anayi.
Msungwana wabwino kwambiri adamwalira pa ngoziyi, mwana wamwamuna wamwamuna adatsala. Ndinatenga. Mwamuna wanga wochokera kwa ana aakazi oyamba, mayi awo anali atalandidwa ufulu wa makolo. Amakhala onse pamodzi ndi banja lochezeka komanso sindinkaganiza kuti mwana wa nkhosa zabwino "amakhala ndi ana, pomwe makolo anga adayamba kupirira ubongo wanga. "Chifukwa chiyani mukuvutitsa ana ena? Bwanji mukukokera nokha? Pambuyo pake, mwana wawo, magazi ake, magazi ake! " Ana pa tchuthi chachikulu amalira chitsime chomwe anali kulowerera komanso katundu wanga. Apoghem anakhala kuti: "Osati chifukwa cha ichi, tidakubalani inu, kuti musapitirize ngakhale kuliri kwa ife!" Maubwenzi olimba onse, sakanakhoza kulekereranso. Anyamatawo adadzuka, akukhwima. Ndinafunikira impso. Ana onse adathamanga kukakumana ndi mayeso, ngakhale sindinawafunse ndipo adangokhala chete, koma mwamuna wanga adauzidwa. Zotsatira zake, m'modzi mwa ana aakazi adandipatsa impso yake. Pambuyo poti makolo anga atchulanso mdzukulu wake ndikupempha kuti akhululukire. © © vk
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Mlongo ndi mwamuna wanga ndi wopanda phindu. Tinaganiza zotengera mtsikana kuchokera ku malo osungira ana amasiye, chete ndi kuwonongeka. Apongozi ake atamuwona, kenako anafuula kuti: "Zikomo kwambiri! Pamapeto pa zaka sindidzakhala zidzukulu zakubadwa, ndi unamwino wa anthu ena. Sizikudziwika kuti mwana wamasiyeyu anali m'banjamo. " Amakhala amayi, adalemba zonse zopsinjika. Zinanditengera zaka 5, ndipo apongozi ake sanathe kuvomereza mdzukulu wolandila. Ngakhale mphatso za tchuthi zionetsa ana a mwana wamkazi woyamba kubadwa, zidzukulu zapakati. Pofuna kuti musamulerenso mtsikanayo, ndipo musatamandire kwambiri, Mlongo amacheza ndi apongozi ake omwe angodula kwambiri.
khumi ndi mmodzi mwa khumi ndi m'modzi khumi ndi m'modzi kwi
Ndidasilira mtsikana ali ndi zaka 4. Tsopano ali 33, 2 maphunziro apamwamba. Mwana wamkazi wokongola! Nditamufunsa kuti: "Kodi ukumva kuti wina akudziwa kuti walandiridwa?" Anayankha kuti: "Ayi! Nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikunyadira kuti ndimayenera banja komanso kuti mwandisankha. " Pambuyo pake, mwana wanga wamwamuna adabadwa, ndipo tsopano ndili ndi ana awiri odabwitsa. © Erika Crole / YouTube
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Mwana amene walandila anali 14, tinakangana, ndipo sindikukumbukira chifukwa cha zomwe. Mwadzidzidzi anakhumudwitsa kuti sitinali banja lake kwa iye ndipo likhale labwino ngati sitinatengere. Zinandipweteka, ndipo ndinasonkhana ndi Mzimu, anati: "Inde, ndikudziwa." Modabwitsa, pazifukwa zina zidandivuta chifukwa Mwana pomaliza adanena mokweza. Madzulo amenewo adachoka kunyumba ndikugona ndi abwenzi. Inde, ndipo mwamuna wanga ndi mwana wamwamuna wamng'ono anali ndi nkhawa kwambiri. Atafika pobwerera, anapepesa chifukwa cha zomwe anachitazo komanso kuti anathawa. Ndipo maso ake modzidzimutsa agwetsa misozi ndipo anati, iye akadangondipweteka kuti ndikhale wondilera ndipo ndi zonse zomwe angafune kuti akhale Magazi amtunduwu kwa ife. Iyo imandilanda mtima wanga koposa mawu ake okangana. Ndidamuuza kuti ndikumva chimodzimodzi. Tinkakhala moyang'anizana ndipo tangoyang'anana. Posachedwa, ngakhale sichoncho nthawi yomweyo, maubale athu anasintha. © Ruth Aborhough / Quora
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Mwana wanga wamkazi wachichepere adabwera kwa ife kuti akhale ndi zaka 10. M'malo mwake, iyi ndi mwana wanga wamkazi wamkati adamutsogolera usiku wonse, womwe umakhala zaka 13. Pazaka zambiri, mtsikanayo adadutsa kwambiri. Ndi mawonekedwe ake, ndidazindikira koyamba kuti ndiyenera kukonda wina popanda kudikirira yankho. Kuti sangatikonde poyankha. Kuti mwina sangakhale wokhulupirika kwa ife monga banja. Koma mwana wamkazi wolandila ena yekha ndi amene anandithandizadi kudziwa kwenikweni. Chonde osandilakwira, ndimakonda ana anga ofala ndi mafilimu onse a moyo ndipo amawapatsa moyo, koma ndimakonda mwana wamkazi, mwinanso pang'ono. Anasintha moyo wathu ndipo amatiphunzitsa kukhala omasuka komanso owona mtima. Masiku ano, ana onse anga anayi ndi ochezeka komanso ogwirizana, monga gulu. Ndife banja lake, ndipo ndithu. © Renee Lacoste Long / Quora
khumi ndi zinayi.
Ndinaganiza zolemba nkhani ya mnzanga Roman, yemwe adakhala bambo wachibale m'chaka chakutali zaka 9. Woyendetsa mosavuta, mkazi ndi Tatiana, mwana wamwamuna. Mkaziyo adapita kuchipatala kukamubala mwana wamkazi. Kumeneko, mwana wina anakana kukana mwana. Mnyamatayo adabereka, kunjenjemera, ndi mkazi wa ku Roma adamdyetsa koyamba. Mwanayo amayenera kunyamula khandalo mnyumbamo, koma popeza anali wakhama wakhama, pomwepo pofunsidwa kwa mnzakeyo adamsiya, akunena kuti adzatenga masiku atatu. Panalipo masika, mtsinjewo unapita, Mbwenjere sanakhazikitsidwe, iChart, kunalibe misewu yopita kumudzi. Roman adabweretsa anyamatawa kunyumba ndipo sanaganize kuti kwamuyaya. Ndimaganiza kuti mseu unkawiritsa ndi kutenga mwana wakhanda m'nyumba. Ndipo atafika kwa mnyamatayo, anadwala ndipo anaganiza zomukhudza. Tatyana adanena kale kuti sadzapatsa aliyense kwa aliyense. Amamutcha - Mwana. Adapereka fomu yotengera kutengera, ali ndi banja labwino, ndi kumbuyo kwawo. Posachedwa, bukuli lidanena kuti Stawa (mnyamatayo amatchedwa) zaka pafupifupi 8, wina "wabwino, wonena zabodza adawuzidwa zonse. Mnyamatayo adatseka koyamba, kenako adafunsa makolowo, sanakane, anena zowona. Mwanayo anali chete kwa nthawi yayitali, kenako anati: "Tsopano ndikumvetsa chifukwa chake nonse muli owala, ndipo ndine wamdima."
Roman wokhala ndi Tatiana ku Novosibhirk adasunthira banja lonse. Tsopano anawo atakula kale, woyambayo anapita ku Moscow, mwana wamkazi anakwatiwa ndi kupita ku krasnodar. Makolo saiwala, kulemba, kuchezera. Koma makolo a Stas adatsalira, amakhala mosiyana, koma oyandikana nawo. Wokwatira, amagwira ntchito, ngati buku, woyendetsa. Wachiroma naye anati: "Ndikuthokoza tsoka ndi mkazi wanga, kuti ndinali ndi mwana wamwamuna. Ndikangoganiza kuti zingakhale ndi iye ngati Tanya sanamuone kuchipatala cha ku May. " Dzulo ndidaphunzira kuti Stak anali ndi mwana wamkazi wamkazi wobadwa, Tanya adaitana, polemekeza Amayi. © SIBALLKKIX / Pikabu
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