Ana onse ovulala padziko lapansi anali ndi zinthu zofanana ...
Poetess ya Ana, Wolemba Mabuku angapo a ana mu mtundu wa Sye-mwana ndi ana a Masha rupasova adafalitsidwa m'buku la "Thupi Limasintha Thupi, Ubongo ndi tsoka la anthu. Chidziwitso chochepa ichi ndi chifukwa chabwino choganizira za kuti ubwana sukhala m'mbuyomu. Timanyamula mavuto ndi kuvulala kwa ana pamoyo wawo wonse.
Limodzi mwa mabuku omwe ndidawerenga amatchedwa "matupiwa amakumbukira chilichonse," Ichi ndi buku lomwe limachita zamaganizidwe amalonda amasintha ubongo ndi thupi. Ndinali ndikhulupilira izi payekha, koma nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kudziwa kuti simuli Ku -ku ndipo sanaganize za iwe chilichonse.
Bukuli linalemba Bassel Van der ine, adotolo omwe amaphunzitsa kuvulala ndi kusokonezeka kwakukulu kwa zaka makumi atatu. Anagwira ntchito ngati gulu la anthu pazinthu zopsinjika kwa mwana. Monga mbali ya gululi, ana okwana zaka 20 aku America ankachitiridwa. Kuphatikiza apo, madokotala anali ndi chidziwitso cha ana pafupifupi zana padziko lonse lapansi.
Ophunzira m'gululi akufuna kulembetsa matenda atsopano omwe akufotokoza zomwe zasokonekera chifukwa cha matendawa chifukwa cha nkhanza komanso kuchotsa chithandizo cha ana. Kuzindikira kumamveka ngati vuto la kuvutika kwa chovuta (chitukuko chovuta).
Van der alemba kuti ana onse ovulala padziko lapansi anali ndi zinthu zofanana:
1) Pachimake ndi vuto la malingaliro;
2) Mavuto ndi chidwi ndi chidwi;
3) zovuta kuti titengere okha ndi ena.
"Kukhumudwa ndi malingaliro a ana awa mopepuka kuchokera kumodzi kupita kwina - kunyezimira kwa mkwiyo ndi mantha osinthidwa, osasamala komanso kusiya. Atadandaula (zomwe zidachitika nthawi yayitali), sakanatha kudzichepetsa, kapena kufotokozera zakukhosi kwawo. "
Kuvulala komwe kumapangidwa ndikukhazikitsa kuyankha kwa mahomoni mwa ana, omwe adatenga zaka makumi angapo. Van der alemba za odwala akulu akulu: Nthawi zambiri amachiritsira amachiritso, akatswiri azachipatala ndi amisala amathandizidwa zomwe zidachitikira anthuwa zaka zambiri zapitazo.
Ndipo akufotokoza momwe makina awa amagwirira ntchito:
"Kukhalapo kwa chilengedwe chomwe chimapuma thupi ndi mahomoni opsinjika kuti amuthandize kuthana ndi mavuto angapo kapena ongopita mthupi, kupweteka kwa thupi, kumawonjezera chidwi kapena phokoso. Kupumula kwakukulu kapena manyazi kumawalepheretsa kuganizira kwambiri ndikuyang'ana. "
"Popeza amathetsa mphamvu zake zonse kuti azikhala odziletsa, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kumvera kuti sizikugwirizana mwachindunji (mwachitsanzo, maphunziro a sukulu), ndipo oopsa amatsogolera kuti iwo osokonekera. "
Pa ana ovulala:
"Chifukwa chakuti nthawi zambiri ankanyalanyazidwa kapena kuluka, iwo amagwirira anthu ena ndikudziyang'anira okha - ngakhale awa ndi omwe omwewo omwe amawachitiridwanso mwankhanza."
"Chifukwa cha mawonetseredwe okhazikika powakonda, mwakuthupi kapena nkhanza kapena mitundu ina yofananapo, amayamba kudziona kuti ndi wopanda pake komanso wopanda pake. Kudana nawo pawokha kuli kochokera pansi pamtima. Ndiye kodi kuli koyenera kudandaula kuti sakhulupirira munthu aliyense? "
"Pomaliza, kumverera kwanyozedwa kwa inunso mokakamizika ndi zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosakanikirana zilizonse kungoyambitsa zomwe zimakhala zovuta kupeza anzanu."