Amuna amakono amatha kumvetsetsadi kuti amafunikira akazi awa. Amalengedwa osakhala okhazikika, okhudzidwa, amakonda kuchabecha ndi kudzikuza komanso kuloweza mosavuta kwa stereotypes, malinga ndi abambo. Ndipo azimayi onse amakhala osagwirizana. Challet makulidwe ake ndi cholinga chofunikira posankha satellite wa moyo. Pankhaniyi, nthawi zambiri maubwenzi omanga amuna, akufuna kuti afike ku chowonadi, akuzindikira kuti amafunikira ndalama zingati.
Chofunikira kwambiri ndichifukwa chake muyenera kuyamba, pamapeto pake pamapeto pake chimasiya kukhulupilira mawu achikazi komanso amapereka chisamaliro chonse. Kupatula apo, akazi amalumikizana ndi amuna omwe amagwiritsa ntchito machenjerero wamba a Marketer. Amawafotokozera, kapena amapatsa amuna kuti ndi apadera, okha komanso apadera padziko lapansi. Amanenanso za iye ngati kuti mumdima, mwachikondi ndi kunjenjemera. Mwamuna amayamba kuyankhula ndi mayi wachisangalalo komanso wokhumudwa, ngati kuti anali mtundu wina waluso, chinthu choyambirira, china chosiyana ndi msika wa msika. Amayamba m'manja mwake kuvala wokwatirana naye, kupereka chilichonse. Koma patapita nthawi, zowonongeka, chidwi ndi kuwola kowonongeka kumabwera. Izi zimachitika pazifukwa zosavuta - zero bweretsani. Ndipo pali lingaliro lachilendo la mgwirizano kapena ngakhale kusungulumwa.
Momwe mungadziwire momwe mukufunira mkazi kwenikweni? Pali njira imodzi yosavuta - ingopempheni thandizo. Nthawi zambiri, mwamunayo ndi momwe zimakhalira ndi zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha izi ndikuchitika m'moyo wa Mzere wakuda, chisokonezo cha zovuta. Ndipo pezani ndalama zomwe ndalama ndi ndalama zili zokonzeka kupita theka lanu lachiwiri.
Ngati mkazi akutembenukira kumbuyo kwake ndikukana kutambasulira dzanja, poganiza kuti ndizofunika kwambiri kupulumutsa chuma chake kuti chikhale chofunikira kwambiri, ndiye kuti, kwa wokondedwa, mwatsoka simumafuna iye. Mumangogwiritsa ntchito ndipo mwina mumadzikuza, ndinu omasuka, kapena m'malo mwake, zakhala zili pano. Koma onetsetsani kuti posachedwa kukuchotsani.
Ngati ndinu munthu wamsewu, ali wokonzeka kulipira momwe mungafunire ndikukokani kunja kwa chithaphwi. Sindikunena osati za zinyalala zakuthupi, koma za kuyesetsa kwa onse. Mu ntchito yothandizidwa ikhoza kuchita chilichonse - chisamaliro, chothandizira, kumvetsetsa, komanso kudzithandiza nokha. Njira iyi yodziwira kuchuluka kwa zomwe mukufuna mkazi kuti mayi ndi wothandiza kwenikweni.
Gwiritsitsani mkazi yemwe amakhala wokonzeka kungopereka ndalama kwa inu ndi zomwe muli nazo - amavala, adzakuthandizani kuti asamalire mfundo zake, ndipo mwina samvetsetsa kuti ndani, ngati siyoncho.
Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha chidwi!
Chiyambi