Moni abwenzi. Pofunsidwa, amuna nthawi zambiri amabwera kwa ine omwe sangathe kuvomereza chosankha chomaliza - kuti musayanjane nawo kapena ayi, kusungitsa mkazi wanu kapena kuyesa kukonza china chake.
Nthawi yomweyo, iwo eni siabwino - wina atayamba chibwenzi, munthu wina amapita "kuti" minofu ", ndipo wina amangoyenda m'masewera kapena mowa. Vutoli silinathe.
Ndipo apa tikufunsa, akufuna kumvetsetsa njira yofulumira kuti adziwe ngati masewerawa ali ndi masewera. Tsoka ilo, palibe njira imodzi kuchitira 100% chitsulo kuzindikira zinthu ngati izi. Wina amapita ku akatswiri azamankhwala , wina ku zopambana za mwayi, wina m'gulu la khonsolo amafunsa.
Koma ndili ndi upangiri womwe ungakuthandizeni kukhala wolimba mtima, ndikofunikira kupitiliza kapena ayi. Ndimunsi.
Upangiri wanga umakhala magawo angapo. Werengani mosamala.
1. Onani tsiku lomaliza
Ngati palibe amene angakupatseni maofesi, ndiye kuti mukufuna ... Kulondola, mupatseni nokha. Onani tsiku lomaliza, muli ndi ndalama zingati kuyesa ndikuyesa kusintha kena kake, kukhazikitsa, kubwerera, etc.
Miyezi itatu? Miyezi 6? Chaka 1, zaka 2? Ikani tsiku lomwe muti "chabwino, ndidachita zonse zomwe zingatheke, tsopano muyenera kuwerengera."
Ndipo ngati ndi nthawi imeneyo cholinga chanu sichitha (kukhazikitsa ubale, bweretsani mayiyo, akukana kusudzulana), ndiuzeni zomwe mungachite, ndipo nthawi yakwana.
2. Munthawi imeneyi, yesani momwe mungathere.
Mpaka nthawiyo sanatuluke, ndikudzilonjeza kuti muyesere momwe mungathere ndikugwiritsa ntchito popanga maubale momwe mungafunire kuti awone. Gwiritsani ntchito kapena kusagwiritsa ntchito ndalama. Samalani kapena kuthandizira. Khalani ndi nthawi. Perekani mphatso. Chitani zomwe mukufuna komanso zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndizofunikira.
Ndiponso, osayang'ana kumbuyo, osakayika, osamufunsa kanthawi 10, ngakhale mutachita bwino.
Kupulumutsidwa? Zonse, chichitini.
3. Palibe chitsimikizo, mudzakhala kukayikira
Apanso ndikufuna kutsindika kuti palibe amene angakupatseni zotsimikizika ndipo udzakayikira, kuda nkhawa, mantha. Izi ndizabwinobwino.
Chinthu chachikulu sicholeka kugwira ntchito mpaka nthawiyo sinatulutsidwe. Koma zikatuluka, kenako pangani chisankho.
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Kodi ubwino ndi chiyani? Chifukwa choti mumapanga nokha tsogolo lanu, sizidalira aliyense. Simufunikanso kuchita ma psychotetepists ndikuponyera. Mudzakhala Mkuluyo wodzipereka - ananena ndi kuchita. Kwenikweni, bambo yemwe ali ndi kalata yayikulu ndi yotere ndipo, safunikira mapangano ndi zikwangwani.
Chifukwa chake mutha kuchita m'mbali zonse - muubwenzi, pantchito, mu masewera, mu bizinesi. Khazikitsani nthawiyo kwa oyikidwa bwino, kenako pewerezani zotsatira zake. Ndi kunyalanyaza kukayikira mu njirayi.
Pavel Domicanhev
- Kuthandiza abambo kuthetsa mavuto awo. Zopweteka, zodula, ndi chitsimikizo
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