Dale carnegie yog tus kws sau ntawv Asmeskas tus kws qhia ntawv, tus kws qhia ntawv, sau ntau phau ntawv. Nws txoj kev pab rau lub hlwb yog tsuas yog qhov txawv. Tam sim no, nrog kev pab ntawm cov phau ntawv, Carnegie neeg kawm ntawm peb tus kheej, kev paub tus kheej thiab kev sib txuas lus. Ib qho ntawm cov phau ntawv nrov tshaj plaws qhia kom tau npaj sai sai rau tus kheej. Zoo sib xws cov tswv yim tib neeg thoob ntiaj teb tau siv los ua lag luam, kev sib tham ua lag luam thiab tsuas yog sib txuas lus nrog tib neeg. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, lub neej ntawm cov nyeem tau txhim kho! Kuv xav tias nws tsim nyog mloog nws cov lus qhia!
Qhov no txhais tau tias nws yog qhov tsim nyog los kho lawv hauv hom, tsis muaj kev cia siab ib qho kev xav zoo sib xws ntawm nws tus kheej. Yog thaum koj nres los ntawm lwm yam los tos, thiab koj yuav pib ua tus tsis txaus siab, xav tias nws yooj yim npaum li cas yog los sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus. Yuav hlub koj, koj yuav tsum xub hlub koj tus kheej. Thiab kuj carnegie nyob rau hauv nws phau ntawv sau tias cov neeg tsis zoo thiab tsis muaj tseeb ntawm tus kheej, koj tsuas yog xav hnov qab, tsis yog kev tsim lub chaw ua kua zaub ntsuab. Txwv tsis pub, koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus kheej ntau dua. Feem ntau, Pacifism, i.e. Sib ntaus nrog kev ua phem, thiab kev hlub rau cov neeg nyob ze tuaj yeem raug taug hauv txhua txoj haujlwm ntawm carnegie. Tej zaum nws yog qhov tseeb tias nws tus kheej yog neeg txom nyem tawm hauv tsev neeg txom nyem thiab raug coj los ntawm tus Ntsuj Plig ntawm cov ntseeg muaj nuj nqis.
Tsis muaj leej twg nyiam mus ib txhis thiab tuned mus rau cov neeg tsis zoo. Cov no yog yeej repel tom qab ob peb feeb ntawm kev sib txuas lus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom muaj tus cwj pwm zoo, thiab txawm tias muaj ib qho nyuaj heev los hais txog kev sib tham kom zoo dua. Tus yam ntxwv zoo yog kos rau lwm tus, vim hais tias nws tsa lub siab. Nws yog tus kheej-ntseeg thiab cov neeg zoo nyob ib puag ncig lwm tus ntseeg tshaj plaws. Los ntawm txoj kev, Carnegie pom qhov no thaum nws cov hluas, thaum nws tau ua haujlwm ua tus neeg saib xyuas thiab sib txuas lus coob. Tom qab tag nrho, Dale yuav tsum tau ntseeg cov neeg yuav khoom, thiab nws yog kev ua kom nws tau tso nws. Lwm qhov tseem ceeb ntawm qhov kev xav zoo yog qhov luag nyav!
Nws yog qhov yooj yim kom tau tshem cov teeb meem thiab ua tsis tiav siv ua haujlwm. Koj tsis tuaj yeem zaum tseem, koj yuav tsum pom ib txwm pom ib zaj lus qhia. Thiab kev txiav txim siab no tseem tau tshwm sim ntawm Carnegie ua tsaug rau nws tus kheej kev paub. Thaum tseem yog ib tug tub hluas, Dale ua haujlwm ntau rau ntawm kev ua liaj ua teb ntawm nws niam nws txiv, zoo li nws tau kawm hauv tsev kawm qib siab. Nws yog qhov nyuaj ua haujlwm uas tau tso cai rau tus kws sau ntawv kom nkag siab txog tus nqi, kom tau kev pab tsis txhob txhawj txog cov neeg ua txhaum cai, thiab nthuav tawm cov haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv lub neej. Carnegie tau hais tias lub neej luv heev los siv nws ntawm cov neeg ua rog. Ntawm no yog qhov tseeb uas koj yuav twv yuav raug hu tsis sib cav!
Tsis txhob khawb hauv koj yav dhau los, vim tias koj tsis tuaj yeem hloov nws. Hmoov tsis zoo, tib neeg ntau zaus tsis nco qab txog nws, tsim txom lawv tus kheej nrog kev nco thiab lwj lawv lub siab. Ntawm chav kawm, Carnegie tau hais tias lawv cov kev ua yuam kev yuav tsum tau tshuaj xyuas, tab sis nws tsis yooj yim sua kom tig lub kev soj ntsuam hauv tus kheej hu ua tus kheej, vim tias muaj txiaj ntsig tsis muaj txiaj ntsig los ntawm nws. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom kawm tswj hwm koj cov kev xav, tsis pub lawv rov qab mus rau lub sijhawm qub.
Tsis muaj leej twg zoo tagnrho, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab qhov no thiab ua haujlwm kom tshem tawm koj qhov khuam. Tag nrho lawv lub neej yuav tsum tau txhim kho tus kheej, nws ua tiav zoo dua, ntse dua, ua phooj ywg. Tab sis koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tig nws mus rau kev ua fanaticism. Tsis tas yuav dai rau cov neeg cov ntawv, rau txim rau lawv rau kev nqis tes ua thiab lus, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb.
Kho cov neeg nrog kev nkag siab, ces koj yuav twv yuav raug hu nws rau koj tus kheej!
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