Lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev ua phem nyob rau hauv kev yug menyuam thiab raug mob ntawm cov yug me nyuam thiab cev xeeb tub tseem tau tham - tsis yog nrog peb, tab sis kuj nyob rau hauv.
Cov poj niam raug liam ntawm lawv tus kheej tias lawv tus kheej tau coj tus kheej zoo li no lawv muaj feem ntau "yog tus menyuam muaj kev noj qab haus huv!".
Cov lus qhia no yooj yim txwv txhua yam thiab kev txom nyem ntawm leej niam, uas nkag siab tias tus menyuam kev noj qab haus huv yog qhov tsis tuaj yeem txo qis ib yam nkaus. Tus lej scary niam Kloms Kloyd tau sau cov lus loj thiab tho kev hais txog ntawm cov lus "Noj Qab Haus Huv" muaj tsis muaj dab tsi zoo. Txhais nws rau koj nrog kev mob me.
Thaum kuv cev xeeb tub nrog kuv thawj tus menyuam, kuv hais tsawg kawg: "Kuv tsuas xav kom kuv muaj menyuam noj qab haus huv." Tej zaum kuv tau hais rau ib tug neeg nyob hauv kev teb rau cov lus nug ntawm kuv npaj yuav yug menyuam. Tej zaum kuv tau teb cov lus nug txog uas kuv xav tau ntau dua - tus tub lossis ib tug ntxhais. Kuv tsis nco qab thaum kuv hais nws, tab sis kuv paub tseeb tias kuv tau hais meej, vim tias lub sijhawm ntawd kuv ntseeg nws. Kuv xav tias tsuav peb lub cev muaj kev noj qab haus huv, txhua tsav txhua yam tsis muaj teeb meem.
Kab lus no tig mus rau hauv ib tug xub hauv kuv lub siab, tom qab kuv raug lub ntuj raug txim ntawm kev raug mob menyuam mos. Thaum kuv tus tub yug los, kuv pom tau tias koj yuav muaj tus me nyuam noj qab haus huv tib lub sijhawm, thiab lub siab tawg.Thaum tib neeg tau hnov txog kuv kev mos absabirth, lawv tau los nkag siab txog qhov kev phem heev uas kuv mus, qhov tseem ceeb yog tus menyuam muaj kev noj qab haus huv, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. "
Tab sis lawv tau yuam kev.
Yog lawm, kuv qhov kev mob siab yuav ua rau muaj kev phem dua. Kuv zoo siab heev rau qhov tseeb uas tsis yog kuv thiab kuv tus tub tau txais kev raug mob rau lub cev vim nws qhov tshwm sim. Yog tias ib tus ntawm peb tau ua puas hnyav lossis qee yam tsis zoo, Kuv yuav tau ntsib dua kev raug mob. Tab sis qhov mob uas kuv raug txom nyem tseem muaj tiag, txawm hais tias kuv tsab ntawv tsis yog qhov phem tshaj plaws ntawm txhua tus.
Thaum nws los txog rau cev xeeb tub thiab yug menyuam, ntau yam - thiab tsis yog "noj qab haus huv me nyuam."
Tus poj niam yog tsim nyog ntawm kev txhawb nqa kev xav. Nws yog qhov txaus ntshai heev hauv kev yug menyuam thiab paub tias tsis muaj leej twg mloog koj. Nws tsis muaj teeb meem zoo li cas koj npaj, tab sis thaum muaj qee yam tsis xav pib tshwm sim, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau koj kom koj xav tias cov kws kho mob mloog koj cov kev xav tau thiab xav tau. Thaum koj xav tias koj tsis quav ntsej koj, koj qhov kev ntshai thiab qhov mob yuav kav ntev dua li yug.
Tom qab nws raug mob rau menyuam, Kuv tau hnov qab liab qab, kev tiv thaiv, raug tsoob thiab kev coj ua tsis zoo thiab kev coj tsis ncaj.Kuv tus tub tsis tau dhau los ua neeg panacea, uas yuav pab kuv kom tshem tau txhua yam kev ntshai thiab kev tu siab, uas yog dej nyab kiag li txhua yam mus yuam kev.
Tus menyuam noj qab haus huv tsis pab tsis nco qab txhua yam uas kuv tau hnov hauv chav ua haujlwm thaum kws kho mob xav tias kuv pw. Tus me nyuam ntxim hlub no tsis tuaj yeem hloov qhov tseeb tias tus kws phais neeg tau txiav kuv lub tsev menyuam yaus tsis muaj laj thawj yam tsis muaj dab tsi, tsis muaj peev xwm ua rau kuv muaj kev yug me nyuam raws li kuv xav tau.
Nrog tus me nyuam, thaum kawg, txhua yam muab tawm zoo, tab sis kuv tsis paub txog nws thaum kuv tau dag thiab muaj kua muag ua dej khov, staining hauv kuv lub ntsej muag. Kuv yuav tsis hnov qab li cas kuv tus txiv khiav raws txoj kev hauv tsev, kom paub yog vim li cas peb tus menyuam yuav raug saib xyuas. Peb muaj tus menyuam muaj kev noj qab haus huv, tab sis nws tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws.
Kuv kuj tseem ceeb, thiab thaum kuv tseem nyob hauv kev yug menyuam, yuav luag tsis muaj leej twg zov kuv.
Nws coj kuv tsib xyoos los ntsib tim ntsej tim muag nrog tus kws phais neeg, uas tau mob rau kuv. Nws tsis tas kuv, tab sis nws mus tas li hloov kuv tus yam ntxwv rau nws tus kheej lub cev thiab yug menyuam.
Tsis yog tsuas yog kev mob siab rau menyuam yaus lub tswv yim hais tias "qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog menyuam noj qab haus huv." Qee zaum cov menyuam tsis muaj kev noj qab haus huv.
Thiab cov menyuam yaus uas tau yug los nrog cov kab mob loj tseem ceeb heev. Zoo li lawv niam lawv txiv.
Kuv tau tham nrog Amanda Pitts, leej niam ntawm Nashville, Tennille, Yuav ua li cas nws tus menyuam tau txais kev kuaj mob hauv lub neej tam sim ntawd tom qab yug menyuam tas. Amanda hais rau kuv tias thaum nws pom nws tus ntxhais thawj zaug - Calley - nws nkag siab tam sim ntawd.
"Kuv nyuam qhuav saib kuv tus menyuam zoo nkauj thiab tau paub tam sim ntawd tias nws tau down syndrome," nco txog Amanda. - Kuv tau qhia txog qhov no kuv tus txiv tsuas yog plaub teev tom qab. Nws tsis ntseeg kuv. Nws hais tias: "Tab sis peb tseem hluas dhau los yug menyuam uas muaj kev puas tsuaj." Tab sis kuv paub tias nws tsis yog. "
Cov kws kho mob paub tseeb tias qhov kev ua yuam kev ntawm Amanda. Thiab thaum nws thiab nws tus txiv Robert nyuam qhuav pib tau siv rau txoj kev xav tias lub neej ntawm lawv cov menyuam yuav tsis xav li lawv xav tau lawv tus kheej, lwm yam tshwm sim.
Tus kws kho mob tau hais rau Amanda thiab Robert tias tus hluas nkauj yog qhov tsis zoo ntawm qhov kev sib faib ua ke. Lawv tus menyuam muaj lub qhov hauv plawv. Nws yog kwv yees li ib nrab ntawm cov menyuam yaus nrog down syndrome. Thiab calley nws yog loj dua. Amanda dhau kev ntshai ib tus ntxhais thiab hlub nws.
Nws muaj 22 xyoo lawm. Thaum lub cev xeeb tub, tsis muaj dab tsi pab pawg calley down syndrome - lossis lub plawv kev hem thawj nws lub neej thiab ua thawj xya xyoo hauv kev nyuaj thiab qee zaum ntshai heev.
Nyob rau hauv 2018, calley ntse tsiv kev ua haujlwm ntawm lub siab qhib, raws li qhov tshwm sim uas lub qhov nyob hauv nws tau kaw tas mus li. Txawm tias yog qhov tseeb tias Amanda yug tau plaub tug tub nrog lub siab noj qab haus huv thiab tsis muaj peev xwm ua rau nws tus menyuam tsis muaj peev xwm pom tau tias nws lub siab tau txais kev hais zoo meej.
"Thaum kuv cev xeeb tub calley, Kuv npau suav ntau txhua yam uas nws noj qab nyob zoo. Tab sis txhua yam mus tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Nws yug los nrog lub plawv tsis xws luag, nws tau coj mus rau hauv kev saib xyuas hnyav vim tias yog lub neej ua pa, rau nws lub neej luv luv nws tswj kom lub ntsej muag muaj mob me me, "piav qhia Amanda.
Nws hais tias "Kuv tseem thov kom kuv cov menyuam yug tag kev noj qab haus huv," nws hais. "Kuv tau paub kuv tias koj tus menyuam yuav yug los nrog kev hem nws lub neej, thiab kuv yuav tsis xav mus rau nws." Tab sis txawm hais tias kuv paub ua ntej tias calley yuav yug tau nrog cov teeb meem hauv lub plawv thiab muaj ntau yam teeb meem concomitant vim kuv tseem yuav tos nws tsawg dua. Kuv yuav tsis xav tau tshem ntawm nws lossis hloov nws rau tus menyuam uas muaj lub siab zoo tagnrho. Thaum kuv hnov cov neeg hais tias "Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tus menyuam muaj kev noj qab haus huv," Kuv hnov tsw me ntsis. Kuv tus menyuam tseem tseem ceeb, txawm tias nws tau yug los rau hauv cov neeg mob. "
Cia siab tias tus me nyuam yuav yug los - qhov no yog ib qho kev cia siab kiag li uas cov niam txiv tuaj yeem cuam tshuam nrog nws tus menyuam. Tsis muaj ib yam txhaum uas koj tau cia siab tias koj tus menyuam yuav noj qab nyob zoo. Nws tuaj yeem yog cov kab lus txheem, uas, piv txwv li, tuaj yeem siv los siv rau ib tus neeg uas koj tsis muaj ib qho tseem ceeb, raws li koj tus menyuam.
Tab sis peb txhua tus yuav tsum ceev faj thaum koj tham nrog ib tus neeg uas raug mob rau menyuam yaus uas lawv yuav tsum ua rau luag mob siab thiab tsis txhob txhawj xeeb, vim lawv tus menyuam tau yug los noj qab haus huv.Peb kuj yuav tsum nkag siab tias cov kab lus no yuav ua rau cov niam txiv uas tseem tos tus menyuam muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv twb tau paub rau lawv. Lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob luag ntxhi los teb rau qhov kev xav uas lawv yog "qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kev yug menyuam kom noj qab haus huv."
TSEEM CEEB HEEV NO yog tias lawv muaj heev, zoo li zoo li thiab tos kom lawv cov menyuam - noj qab nyob zoo lossis tsis.
Qhov no tsis txhais tau tias peb yuav tsum nres tsis xav ua rau menyuam muaj kev noj qab haus huv thiab lwm yam khoom txawm hais tias muaj xwm txheej dab tsi. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias ib tug menyuam noj qab haus huv tsis yog qhov "tseem ceeb tshaj plaws", uas tsuas yog paub tias peb cov lus li cas rau lwm tus neeg.
Tseem nyeem ntawm cov ncauj lus
