Peb qhia txog qhov twg cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm cov kwv tij thiab cov muam tuaj ntawm (thiab yuav ua li cas kom lawv tswj tau)
Nws zoo nkaus li qhov kev ua yeeb yam ntawm cov kwv tij thiab cov muam ib txwm muaj, tsis hais txog lub tebchaws twg uas lawv loj hlob. Leej niam ntawm ob tug menyuam yaus thiab ib tus neeg sau xov xwm Jessica av txiav txim siab los xyuas seb yog vim li cas cov neeb ntawm cov tsev neeg uas ntau dua ib tug menyuam. Txhais nws tsab xov xwm nrog kev mob me me.
Lub caij sib kis thoob plaws, kuv tus menyuam hnub nyoog plaub xyoos thiab yim xyoo dhau los ua ib zaug li no: Kuv hnov ob peb zaug nyob rau yav tsaus ntuj, giggling los ntawm lawv chav. Tab sis lub sijhawm ntau kuv cov ntxhais siv ua ke, ntau dua lawv sib cav.
Feem ntau, kuv cov menyuam sib cav sib ceg ntawm kev tsis ncaj ncees lossis hauv kev tawm tsam rau ib qho chaw hauv kab.
Qhov kev sib cav sib ceg tshaj plaws hauv qhov tsis ntev los no tau muaj tshwm sim, thaum peb tuaj txhaj tshuaj tiv thaiv kab mob khaub thuas. Cov ntxhais tau siv lawm vim tus uas ua ntej yuav txhaj tshuaj tiv thaiv. Kuv tus ntxhais loj dua "yeej" yeej "thaum nws tau txais kev txhaj tshuaj tiv thaiv, nws pom tau tias kev txhaj tshuaj tiv thaiv tau yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg.
Nyob rau hauv cov hnub ntawd, thaum peb txhua tus tau xauv ua ke hauv tsev, thiab scandals yuav loj zuj yim, thiab peb tau pib txhawj xeeb txog peb txoj kev uas peb tau tig mus tag nrho, txij li thaum peb tau lees tias muaj ntau tus lej Cov. Tab sis, yog tias koj ntseeg Marin Vivon, xibfwb ntawm lub siab ntawm University of University of Intery Congbing ntawm kwvtij sib tw yog qhov tseeb uas twb muaj lawm. Thiab peb, raws li cov niam txiv ntawm cov txiv kab ntxwv thiab cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam yaus, tsuas yog sim daws qhov no zoo li sai tau. "
Cov kev tshawb fawb tau pom tias kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm cov nus muag yuav tshwm sim txog rau yim zaug hauv ib teev (kwv yees li.: AFAAAAA!). Lwm txoj kev tshawb nrhiav pom tias kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov viv ncaus yog qhov ze tshaj plaws, tab sis cov khub uas suav nrog cov kwv tij, tsis sib haum xeeb tshaj plaws.
Tus naj npawb ntawm cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb yog txo qis rau hauv lub sijhawm pubertal, lawv zoo li tau txais txoj hnyuv. Cov menyuam yaus thaum ntxov thiab theem nrab yog lub sijhawm nyuaj tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv kev tsim txom cov phiaj xwm.
Mark Heran Finberg, tus xibfwb ntawm University of Pennsylvania, Kws tshawb nrhiav hauv kev ua teb kev noj qab haus huv thiab kev txhim kho
Hauv kev tshawb fawb, tus sau cov uas yog cov neeg sau npe, tau hais los ntawm Phau Ntawv Chiv Keeb, uas suav nrog cov dab neeg tseem ceeb rau Western kev coj noj coj ua ntawm Western. " Muaj ntau ntau yam muaj ntau yam piam sij ntshav thiab khib cov kwv tij - piv txwv li, Khayees thiab avele lossis eeave. Thiab tag nrho cov dab neeg no qhia tawm "lawv cov kws tshawb fawb tau kawm tam sim no: Kev kawm rau niam txiv kev hlub thiab kev tawm tsam cov menyuam yaus kom cov menyuam yaus tsis sib haum xeeb niam txiv."
Qhov kev sib cav sib ceg muaj ntau ntev dhau los ntev dhau los, thaum menyuam neeg tuag dhau los, thaum muaj cov kwv tij uas muaj tsib tus txiv neej tuag ntau dua li muaj peev xwm ntau dua. Cov kev tuag no feem ntau yuav cuam tshuam nrog "nce cov menyuam yaus tsis txaus ntawm leej niam thiab, nrog rau Sara Walters hais tias, Koom nrog Sara Walters hais tias, Koom nrog Sara Walters hais tias, Koom haum Sara Walters hais tias," Associate xibfwb Lub tsev kawm ntawv London ntawm kev nyiam tshuaj thiab muaj kev kub ntxhov. Paub txog nws, Kuv pib saib txawv rau kev sib cav sib ceg ntawm kuv cov menyuam vim yog mis nyuj khov.
Thiab tam sim no feem ntau ntawm cov nab tsis tawm tsam rau cov ntsiab lus crumbs, los ntawm cov menyuam yaus ua rau cov menyuam yaus paub tias lawv muaj lwm yam lus no hu ua "kev sib txawv" Cov. Cov menyuam yaus xav kom lawv niam lawv txiv tau ua tib zoo mloog rau lawv, yog li, lawv yuav sib ntaus sib tua tshwj xeeb rau lawv tus kheej ", piv nrog cov kwv tij thiab cov muam. Tab sis dua li no, lawv nyiam thiab cov cim tuaj yeem tsim nyob ib ncig ntawm cov txuj ci thiab kev ntshaw ntawm lawv cov kwv tij.
Piv txwv li, piv txwv tias koj tus tub hlob yog lub hnub qub ntawm kev ncaws pob. Cov menyuam yau dua lossis cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem zam kev football lossis vim lawv ntshai tsam lawv tus tij laug, lawv yuav tsis muaj kev pheej hmoo zoo tshaj nws - thiab lawv kuj tsis npaj yuav muaj kev pheej hmoo. Los yog tej zaum nkawd ob leeg yuav nyob hauv pab pawg football, tab sis tus hlob - vim nws yuav tau nws tus kheej ntawm lub dag zog ntawm lub zog.
Txawm hais tias qhov tseeb uas tsis sib haum xeeb yog qhov kev cia siab, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias koj tsis tuaj yeem cuam tshuam lawv. Ntawm no yog tsib cov lus pom zoo los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij txog yuav ua li cas nrog cov menyuam yaus ua tiav.
Saib seb dab tsi ua rau muaj kev sib cav."Ua tib zoo saib ua ntej qhov kev tsis sib haum yuav loj hlob tuaj," hais txog tus xibfwb ntawm cov menyuam thiab tsev neeg tshawb fawb los ntawm University of Tennessee.
Piv txwv li, yog tias koj cov menyuam sib cav txhua txhua lub sijhawm, thaum lawv ua si video, nyob ze ze thaum lawv zaum mus ua si. Mloog cov lus thiab cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb los txiav txim siab cov uas ua tau zoo thiab sim cuam tshuam rau ua ntej qhov xwm txheej tsis muaj kev tswj hwm.
Pab lawv kawm daws qhov teeb meem.Tom qab txhua tus neeg mob siab, sim nyem koj cov menyuam thiab sib tham txog qhov teeb meem "yam tsis muaj nqi thiab kev txiav txim siab. Muab sijhawm rau txhua tus me nyuam hais lus, tsis txhob cuam tshuam nws, thiab caw lawv txhua tus xav txog kev daws teeb meem.
Twb nyob hauv cov hnub nyoog rau hnub nyoog, cov menyuam yaus muaj peev xwm "qhov kev txiav txim siab uas muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau txhua tus, thiab qhov kev nyiam ua haujlwm ntau dua thiab coj kev lom zem nyob rau yav tom ntej." Nws tseem yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav qhia kom lawv rov qab los ua teeb meem thaum qee qhov kev txiav txim siab ua haujlwm.
Qhuas lawv txhua tus, tab sis thuam ib leeg.Yog tias koj cov menyuam ua siab zoo rau ib leeg, "qhuas lawv muaj zog thiab nrov nrov," hais lus yos hav zoov. Piv txwv li: "Kuv nyiam tias koj tso cai rau kuv tus muam mus ua ntej!" Tab sis yog tias koj cem lawv, sim ua nws kom lwm tus menyuam tsis hnov koj, vim tias tsis tuaj yeem siv nws ua riam phom.
Peb tus ntxhais hlob nyiam txhua lub sijhawm los qhib lawv tus niam hluas ("Nco ntsoov tias koj tsis tuaj yeem dhia tawm ntawm lub rooj zaum no ntawm kuv tus kheej tus account.
Sim nrhiav lub sijhawm uas txhua lub koom haum.Lub siab tawv thiab cov cim ntawm koj cov menyuam tuaj yeem ua tau zoo ib yam, thiab tsis tuaj yeem ua. Nkawd ob leeg tuaj yeem nyiam seev cev, thiab tej zaum ib qho nyiam seev cev, thiab lwm tus tsuas xav ua si chess. Ib tus tuaj yeem ua kom muaj kev txuag, thiab lwm qhov, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, kev ywj pheej-hlub. "Sim nrhiav cov chav kawm dav dav uas tso cai rau txhua tus kom muab cov txiaj ntsig yooj, thiab tib lub sijhawm uas muaj kev sib cuag," Janin Vivon tawm tswv yim.
Kuv tau coj ib qho piv txwv ntawm tsev neeg yav tsaus ntuj nrog saib cov mauv vim yog ib qho ntawm cov chav kawm los txiav txim siab txog cov yeeb yaj kiab uas peb saib, vim tias sawv daws yuav sib cav tas li.
Qhov tseeb tias nws yuav siv sijhawm ntau tsis cuam tshuam los ntawm qhov tseeb tias nws yog ib yam dab muaj txiaj ntsig, "hais tias wivon. - Koj yuav ntsib kev tsis sib haum xeeb, qhov no tsis yog zam.
Yog li ntawd, peb txhua tus hu nkauj ua ke, noj paj kws muaj txuj ci, txawm tias peb saib "zaj dab neeg" rau lub sijhawm kaum tsib.
Council tshwj xeeb rau lub sijhawm Pandemem."Peb txhua tus tau siv sijhawm ib leeg nyob hauv tsev, tshwj xeeb yog thaum lub caij ntuj no," hais tias tus yos hav zoov. "Kuv xav tias qee cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb no muaj tseeb heev los daws, muab cov menyuam yaus taug kev lossis khiav ncig lub tsev."
Cov menyuam yaus ua tshee thaum lawv nyob ntev hauv qhov chaw kaw, yog li qee qhov kev tawm dag zog - txawm tias nws yog lub tsev ntawm cov teeb meem hauv ncoo, "yuav pab tawm qhov xwm txheej.
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