Labarin Daraker Darmer ba sabon abu bane, saboda ba kowane kaka dole ne ya ji daga jikan cewa ɗan jikina ne. Amma daidai ne irin wannan mahallacin cewa dole ne in saurari dan wasan Amurka. Ta kasance kusa da jikan ta, amma a cikin shekaru 22 ba su lura da wani bakon abu ba.
Ilimin Kwarewar Mata
Maryan Darmer an haife shi a cikin 50s. a cikin NYC. Ta girma a cikin iyalan marubuta kuma ta yi karatu a cikin makarantar Katolika na Bronx, inda ɗaliban ya bayyana su a bayyane wani irin mutane suke da adalci, kuma waɗanda masu zunubi ne.
Bayan Marieland ta koma Texas, ma'aikatan da ke da ra'ayoyin ra'ayin mazan jiya. Gaskiyar cewa akwai wani abu daban-daban mutane, magajin gari a lokacin kuma ya kasa yin tunani. A karo na farko a cikin wahalan jima'i da jinsi, ta koya lokacin da ya shiga makarantar mai wasan kwaikwayo. A cikin yanayin kirkirar akwai mutane koyaushe "ba kamar kowa ba."
Mafarkin Grandson
@DDurmer
Lokacin da Maryan ya riga ya shiga shekara 50, jikan ta farko ya bayyana. Matar tana da ita kaɗai, don haka koyaushe tana mafarkin saurayi. Don kasancewa kusa da jikokin, sai ta koma New York.
Yarin ya yi aiki da yawa, don haka kakãtata aka tsunduma cikin ilimin yaron kusan koyaushe. Marien ya canza aikinsa, an rubuta shi kuma ya ba da damar hakkin mata. Wanda ya san cewa da sannu za a yi shawarwari game da haƙƙin jikan nasa.
Talakawa kaka da jikan sabon abu
Marieland don haka so ya tayar da yaron da bai lura da matar yarinyar ba kwata-kwata. Ta sanya shi a cikin guntun wando da shirts, sayayan motoci, robots da bindiga. Yaron bai yi sha'awar komai ba. Maryan har ma sun kalli jikan makaranta, inda ta yi karatu da yaran da suka yi karatu. Amma ya kasa tsayar da shi a can. Dole ne in canza cibiyar koyar da makarantar karatu na yau da kullun. Maryan sannan ba ta ba da wannan mahimmanci ba, yanke shawara cewa ciyawar kawai ba ta da wata dangantaka a cikin ƙungiyar.
@DDurmer
Na gaba kasance kwaleji da jami'a. A duk wannan lokacin, Maryan ba ta ga widimeti a cikin yaron ba. Har ila yau tana tunanin amarya don jikan. Guy ya girma, an buga shekara ta 22, kuma babu wata yarinya da ke kusa. Maryaban ya yi mafarkin kakanninsu.
Tsohon furucin Frank
Lokacin da Marieland ta fara nuna alama ga mutumin a kan gaskiyar cewa lokaci ya yi da za a sami budurwa, sai ya yi ta kururuwa da shi tare da girmamawa ta Frank. Ya juya cewa duk waɗannan shekarun 22 mutumin da kansa ya ji kamar mace. Ya shaida wa kakarta, wanda zai so canza bene.
@DDurmer
Maryan ta kasance mai ban mamaki. Ba ta fahimci yadda ta sami lura da irin wannan canje-canje ba a cikin jikan. Bayan haka, sun kasance kusa da, yaron da aka raba tare da kakarta tare da duk asirin, ya amince da ita. Don haka Maryan yayi tunani a duk wannan lokacin. Amma ya juya ba haka ba. Tsohuwa ya san game da jikan ba duka ba.
Dauki gaskiya ba sauki
Duk da yake mutumin yana shirya aikin canjin jima'i, Maryan zai sake zama dan matar - yanzu jikkir. Mace ta yarda cewa da farko ta kasance mai wahala a gare ta ta dauki inganci, saboda ya lalata duk tushen tushenta. An kawo ta daban. Kuma kodayake a cikin yanayin 'yan wasan, ta duba da yawa, amma bai yi tsammanin Transgingender kwata-kwata a cikin iyalinta.
Bayan 'yan kwanaki na girgiza, ƙaunar jikan ya yi nasara. Marasan ya rubuta wa yaron, wanda ke tallafawa shi 100% kuma shirye don bayyana jikanyar. Ta fara karanta wallafe-wallafen da kallon fina-finai game da yadda aka mika fina-finai, yadda mutane suke ji a cikin wani jikin ji. An taimaka ne ta hanyar Kaming-kai na shahararrun 'yan wasan kwaikwayo, godiya ga abin da matsalar Transgueness ta daina zama wani abu haram.
Yanzu Maryana tana fuskantar kawai ga abin da jikokinsa yana tauntar da wani abu. Misali, kira shi sunan ko gaya mata "shi". Gaskiyar cewa ga mutane da yawa da alama za a yi trifle, Trugegender an tsoratar da jin zafi.
Maryana yin nadama cewa akwai abubuwan tunawa da hotuna da hotuna da yawa tare da jikina. Amma idan mutum ba shi da daɗi a cikin jikinsa, yana buƙatar hannun taimako, ba ya juya baya ba. Labarin Maryan's Masana'anta ya koyar da godiya ga rayuwar gaskiya.