Bambanci a cikin shekaru: yadda yake shafar dangantaka

Ƙarni daya

Masu ilimin ilimin Adam sun lura da cewa banbancin banbanci tsakanin abokan tarayya suna jera kewayon shekaru 16. Dangantaka na iya zama mai dorewa da nasara saboda abokan tarayya suna cikin ƙarni ɗaya kuma suna iya raba kyawawan dabi'u kuma suna da irin ra'ayi iri ɗaya a rayuwa. Bugu da kari, mafi yawan biyu takara suna da matsayin matsayin kuɗi ɗaya kuma cimma kowane irin aiki tare.Sex

Kusancin tsakanin takwarorin-abokan aiki yawanci ana jituwa. Dukansu suna da game da yanayin jiki guda - lafiya, matakin horo, gogewa. Saboda haka, sun bijirar da gwaje-gwajen jima'i sau da yawa tare da kwazo.

Mutumin Tsakanin mace

Irin wannan dangantakar da ke cikin ƙarni ta ƙarfafawa. Mazaje masu girma sun ɗauki matan 'yan matan nan, kuma suna cikin irin wannan jin daɗin irin wannan kawance. A yau, irin wannan dangantakar ba sabon abu bane. Wata yarinya har yanzu tana jan hankalin mutum mai girma tare da kyawunta da kuma ɗansa, kuma wannan, yana neman tallafi da tallafi a cikin mutumin mutumin da zai zama wani kamar mahaifinta (ps psys).

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Ga maza, aure tare da budurwa babbar fa'ida ce. Matsayin gamsuwa a cikin irin wannan nau'i biyu kawai Rolls. Godiya ga abokin tarayya mai yatsa, miji matasa ne a idanunsu. Har ma da tsammanin rayuwarsu shine kashi 20% fiye da na maza tare da matakin abokan aiki.

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Mace mafi tsufa

Wannan nau'in dangantakar tana da yawa fiye da na sama. Amma matan masu zaman kansu na zamani masu zaman kansu suna ƙara jan hankalin samari. Sun sami tsaunuka a cikin tururuwa kuma basu yiwuwa don cin nasara ga tasirin babban mutum.

A matsayinka na mai mulkin, a cikin dangantaka, inda mace ta tsufa, abokan hulɗa ya nuna cewa ita ce ke ɗaukar matsayi mai jagora a cikin wani nau'i biyu - yana yanke shawara dangane da ƙarin ƙwarewar rayuwa.

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A cikin jima'i, irin wannan ma'aurata suna da soyayya da yawa. Gwargwadon cikin jima'i na mata, a matsayin mai mulkin, ya zo shekaru 30, a cikin maza - a 18-25, don haka sha'aninsu zai iya daidaitawa.

Banda daga Dokoki

Al'umman yana ƙaunar sanya tambari na eyjist, suna magana game da dangantakar abokan tarayya tare da bambanci. Idan yarinyar ta fi ƙaunataccen - ita ita ita ce mafarauci ya gāji, kuma idan mutumin ya kasance ƙarami ne - lalle ne shi Alfons.

A zahiri, shekaru ba matsala lokacin da aka ɗaure dangantakar da aka haɗa ta girmama juna da ƙauna! Balaga mai ilimin halayyar mutum ya kula da alhakin kula da shi), ba alama ba ce a cikin fasfo.

Yana da shekara 20-23, 'yan matan suna gaban matasa a cikin bunƙasa masu hankali, sabili da haka, suna jin daɗin kwanciyar hankali tare da abokan tarayya. Akwai wani bambanci a cikin shekaru 3-5 isa.

Idan ya zo ga aure, mafi yawan lokuta suna cewa ainihin bambanci tsakanin abokanaren mutane shine lokacin da mutum yake shekara 8. Koyaya, da wuya kayi kayyade cewa gaskiyar ba shekaru nazarin halittu yana da mahimmanci (wanda aka yi rajista a cikin fasfo), da ilimin halin dan adam shine).

Wannan bambanci na iya ba da wasu fa'idodi, saboda, a hannu, mutum, a matsayin mai mulkin, ya riga ya yanke shawara sosai ga dangi, da kuma a gefe ɗaya, abokanmu har yanzu suna kasancewa da mutane na ƙarni ɗaya, Kuma sun fi sauƙin fahimtar juna.

A lokaci guda, duk da wannan gabaɗaya "da kyau" Bambanci a cikin shekaru, akwai ƙididdiga gwargwadon aure ne waɗanda suke banbanci daga abokan tarayya kawai. Lokacin da bambanci a cikin shekarun abokan aiki shine shekaru 5 kuma sama, adadin kisan yana ƙaruwa.

Mafi girma da bambanci a cikin shekaru, mafi girman adadin da ya sake yin tururi. Lokacin da mutum ya girmi zaɓaɓɓen shekaru 20 ko fiye, lokacin da aka kashe siyarwa a cikin sama da rabin shari'o'in.

Dalilin sune gaskiyar cewa auren mutane da irin wannan babban bambanci ba shi yiwuwa, galibi suna da kama da juna. Da farko, a cikin irin waɗannan ƙungiyoyi, mace tana da wasu tsammanin daga wani mutum (mafi yawan lokuta), kuma ba za su zama barayya ba ko kuma a'a don zama mummunan sabani tare da matansa. Kuma yana da matukar wahala a guji rashin fahimta game da irin wannan aure, tunda akwai hutu a cikin mahimman abubuwan rayuwa da bukatun rayuwa.

Duk da haka, daga kowane doka akwai banda, kuma a kowane yanayi, farin ciki a cikin dangantaka ba ta dogara da shekaru ba, amma daga wadancan mutanen da ke gina wadannan dangantakar, amma daga wadancan mutanen da suke gina wadannan alamu, kuma sha'awarsu ta kasance tare. Idan haka ne, ana iya warware matsaloli.