Me yasa wasu mutane da sauƙi wasu mutane, samun 'yancin samun kuɗi kuma suna da manni a kowace rana, yayin da wasu suka ganni da yawa don tashi da safe daga gado? 'Yan Adam sun dade suna kokarin warware wannan tatsuniya. Abin da aka yarda da ka'idar don babba a yau kuma wane irin fasaha ya kamata a ci gaba da nasara?
Har zuwa 80s karni na ashirin da aka yi imani cewa mabuɗin don nasarar mutum shine matakin ci gaban da hankali, wato, iq. Babban gwaje-gwajen IQ na farko sun bayyana a lokacin yakin duniya na farko kuma suna da niyyar zama wanda zai zama wani makarantar talakawa. Amma shahararren mashahurin gwajin IQ sun samu a cikin shekaru 40-50 da kuma masu zuwa tare da tsarinta na Hansa Aizenka, wanda ya bamu damar gano abubuwa da yawa na ayyuka na ɗan gajeren lokaci. Kamfanoni suna amfani da waɗannan manyan gwaje-gwaje a zaɓin mutane zuwa tunanin mutum da aikin nazarin. Zan iya faɗi a cikin wata ma'ana sun auna karfin mutum don neman abubuwan da aka tsara a cikin hargitsi na zamani da rayuwa, ƙirƙira rikice-rikice na kimiyya, ƙirƙiri sabbin fasahohi, da sauransu.
Tambayar ta taso: Menene halayen irin wannan damar don cimma nasarar rayuwa a cikin ma'anar kalmar? Ba wai kawai game da yin kudi ba kuma cimma babban halin zamantakewa, amma kuma game da farin ciki na yau da kullun da jituwa (rayuwar mutum, a cikin wurin abokai).
Sirrin motsin rai: Abin da yake da abin da yake bayarwaTo menene nasarar, idan ba akan hankali ba? A cikin 90s na karshe karni, sabon salo na nasara ya bayyana, dangane da ka'idar eq - matakin mni na tunani.
Idan kuka daukaka kara game da ma'anar, to lafiyayyen tunanin shine ikon sanin motsin zuciyar ka da motsin zuciyar ka da ikon sarrafa su.
Me ake nufi da shi? Babban matakin EQ yana taimakawa sasantawa, musamman idan ana iya saita farashin mai motsin rai. Mutumin da ke da hankali da tunani ya inganta, zai iya isar da mahimmancin kai tsaye, ya san yadda za a sami rauni, sarrafa rikice-rikice, da sauransu . Waɗannan halaye da gaske suna taimakawa wajen cimma ruwa na aiki da kuma kasuwanci.
A cikin 1995, masanin masanin dan adam Daniyel Gowlman yana samar da littafin "hankali ta tunani", sabon ƙa'idar ya zama da gaske a cikin talakawa.
Wata nasara a fagen bincike EQ ta zama ka'idar Tracy Bradbury cewa tunanin mutum zai iya horar da shi - ya bayyana shi a cikin littafinsa "tunaninsa hankali 2.0".
Koyaya, wannan ka'idar ta yi taso game da wannan ka'idar. Tare da eq, zaku iya yin shawarwari kan gaba, gudanar da tunanin kanku da kuma sukar ku. Amma menene idan duk wannan tabbas ƙarfi?
Yanzu masu binciken sun fara magana cewa nasarar mutum a rayuwa ya ƙure da farko ta matakin makamashin ƙarfinsa - VQ.
Makamashi mai mahimmanci da inda ya tafiAn yi imanin cewa a gabatar da ilimin halin dan Adam na Faransanci Ellis, wanda ya bayyana VQ (mai mahimmanci) a matsayin ikon cajin makamashin kanta da sauransu, don gudanar da mutane a bayan kansu.
Idan iQ da eq zasu iya horarwa da ta daure, to vq ma? Daidai dai.
Ka yi tunanin jikin ka kamar jirgin ruwa da yake cike da makamashi mai tamani. A kasan jirgin ruwa akwai ramuka, ta hanyar da ƙarfin rayuwa ya biyo baya. Wadannan ramuka ba su zagi da raunin da suka faru daga abubuwan da suka gabata da suka shafi iyaye, yan uwa, abokai, abokan hulɗa, da kuma sadarwa mai kyau da mara kyau.
Zaka iya "facin" ramuka na kwakwalwa ko tabbatar da tasirin masu horo na tunani, kamar yadda ake aiwatar da aikin Hoffman, tsari da ƙari.
Don kawar da ƙasa, yana da mahimmanci a cika duk abubuwan da aka rasa. Wannan zai taimaka kyakkyawan tunani, abinci mai kyau, barci mai lafiya da wasanni, sadarwa tare da loved. Wani hanyar tabbatar da ita ce samun kyakkyawan mafarki ko babban burin da yake so ya farka da safe.
A cikin tabbatar da wannan ka'idar a cikin 2010, littafin Jami'in Jami'ar Psychogy na halayyar Harvard na Sean Eykor ", wanda masanin ya tabbatar da cewa: ya zama dole masaniyar gaske, farin ciki yana jan hankalin nasara.
Shin kyawawan halaye ne da kuma babban matakin makamashi ƙayyade nasarar mutum a rayuwa? Karatun na kwanan nan ya ce a cikin goyon bayan wannan ka'idar. Me kuke tunani?