Gyara mai laifi ta hanyar soyayya da aure - ta da stereotype a al'adun taro. Daga Shukshinskaya "Kalina krassoye" zuwa Eastwred ", muna gaya mana tarihin mai laifi da ya gabata ta hanyar alamomin soyayya da rayuwar dangi.
Jiran 14 ga Fabrairu, yana da mahimmanci Tambaya: Nawa ne ƙauna da aure da aure suke da ikon riƙe mutum daga aikata laifuka?
Loveaunar sihiri tana da wuya a auna, sai dai cewa dole ne mu sanya masu laifi a cikin Oxytocin don fahimta, suna cikin ƙauna ko a'a. Ainihin bincika ko an haɗa matsayin aure tare da dabi'ar ku keta doka. Zaku iya, hakika, ka yi jayayya cewa aure ba ƙauna ba ce, kuma hakika abu ne mai kyau aure da kuma masu fama da wasu laifuka (wannan ita ce, kashe mata da maza tare da ma'auratansu). Amma wasu abubuwa suna daidai, shigarwa cikin aure na zamani shi ne tabbaci wanda aka tabbatar da kasancewar soyayya mara kyau fiye da haka.
Matar ko mummunan kamfaninA kallon farko, a fili: rago da mara aure a tsakanin masu laifi da masu laifi waɗanda suka dace da aure da aure. Don haka, asibitocin 2010 da aka yi rikodin: kadan fiye da rabin dukkan tsofaffin Russia suna bayyana, wanda aka yi rajista. A wannan shekarar, a cewar Ma'aikatar shari'a ta Kotun Rasha, matsakaicin adadin masu laifi waɗanda ke cikin wannan halin da suka wuce 15%. Wannan gaskiyar abu mai sauki ta tura zuwa ga bayyananniyar ƙarshe - aure tana rike da halayen laifi.
Kuma duk da haka, daga cikin masu ƙididdiga babu wani yarjejeniya kan wannan batun: irin wannan haramtattun zasu iya samun wasu bayanai. Don cire su, zaku iya kallon yiwuwar "matsalolin" maza "(waɗanda aka rasa sakandare, waɗanda aka cinye barasa ko magunguna, da sauransu). Irin waɗannan nazarin fiye ko ƙasa da ba a sani ba: aure, ko da farkon, yana da alaƙa da ragi a cikin yiwuwar aikata laifi.
Don cin nasara a cikin aiki mai laifi (kamar wani), akwai hanyoyin haɗi. Da yake magana da yare mai sauƙi, yana da mahimmanci a ci gaba da zama matasa a cikin yanayin irin matasa Obtols. Magana ba komai game da ƙungiyoyi a cikin ma'anar gargajiya na gargajiya, amma a wajen abokantaka ta zamani ", wanda wasu ke zana dabam dabam dabam, wani lokacin mai laifi. Sabili da haka, idan a lokacin "maganar banza" na irin wannan kwamfutoci kuma ɗauki tsarin aiwatar da doka a lokacin, aikin mai laifi ya fara.
M m ko aureTa yaya aure ya hana wannan? Auren ya lalata "Tusovka" (Abin baƙin ciki, ba kawai kawai ba, ba tare da shirya gasa da ƙauna ba "rabi na biyu". Ya fi tsayi da kuka ciyar tare da matarka ko matar aure, ƙarancin lokacin da kuke da abokai, sabili da haka karancin lokaci a kan kewayenta na kusa. Tare da zuwan yara na wannan lokacin, ya zama ma ƙarami, kuma anan ya kuma ninka yawan zamantakewa da manyan dangi. Kuma a cikin ƙasashe a cikin ƙasa ya zama mai kyau mutum mai kyau a titi, saboda kula da iyali, kuna buƙatar abin da ke tsaye wanda laifi yana da wahalar tabbatarwa.
Wataƙila, duk da haka, ba aure tana kemare kan wani laifi, da masu yiwuwa ba su dauka a cikin maza da mata. Bugu da kari, masu binciken sun gano hujjoji masu rauni: Aure ne kawai, dangantakar soyayya kuma ma za a iya samun juna ga laifinsu. Haka kuma, a wasu halaye, hadin kai kawai inganta mawuyacin laifuka, duk da haka, yana da mahimmanci ga abokan tarayya ".
Wata hanya ita ce kwatanta masu laifi a tsakaninsu. Godiya ga dukiyar shari'ar kasar Rasha, zaku iya kwatanta ta yaya mutum da sauri mutumin zai yi wani laifi bayan da aka samu daga ƙarshe, dangane da wane matsayin aure yake da shi. Yana yiwuwa a rarrabe ba kawai ragi ba, amma waɗanda ba su kasance cikin aure ba, da waɗanda suka sake ni. Lissafi kan duk yankuna a cikin Rasha don 2009-2012. An yi tsammanin zai nuna cewa ya auri masu laifi da masu laifi zai fizge yin maimaita laifi fiye da rago. Amma sun saki kuma gwauraye sun juya don su zama mai karkata don yin maimaita laifuka fiye da ba don aure ba. Wataƙila asarar wani mummunan rauni ne wanda ya buge wani mutum daga rut, ya lalata dangantakar zamantakewa da kuma matsa zuwa hanyar mai laifi? Ko wataƙila, tare da yawancin allo, suna rayuwa da haɗari da kuma ma'auratansu su neme su daga gare su, idan, ba shakka, suna da lokaci?
CIGABA DA KYAUTAMutanen da suka yi aure, a fili, sun fi wadata ba wai kawai daga ra'ayin tunani game da ra'ayin kimantawa ba - sun kasance suna rayuwa sosai. Yi dariya, duk da haka, ko tatsuniya ce cewa sakamakon shi ne cewa ƙauna tana haskaka hanyarsu, zukatansu sun doke su cikin haɗin gwiwa, ko wannan al'umma tana ƙarfafa bin abin da ya dace da tsammanin?
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