Akwai mutanen da yake da sauki kuma kawai don kiyaye dangantakar. Amma yana faruwa cewa, a cikin da'irar abokanmu, abokai ko ma dangi, mutum ya bayyana, wanda ya zama da matuƙar wuya a kafa cikakkiyar tattaunawa. Dalilin wannan na iya zama kocin rayuwa na rayuwa, madawwamin ba'a ko ƙauna mai ban tsoro ga tsegumi.
A Adme.ru ya yi barazanar ware halaye da yawa, tare da masu da yawa daga cikin mutane da yawa ba za su so su kula da kowace dangantaka ba.
10. Ka sanya shi duka ba za a iya fahimta ba
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Tabbas kun ci gaba da aikata mutanen da suke ƙoƙarin ɓoye rikicewa da rashin tabbas. Wani lokaci sukan ji sosai saboda su yi tabarbura a kanku tare da maganganun masu ƙarfafawa a cikin style "menene mafi wayo?" Matsalar ita ce irin wannan halin yana tsoratar da mutanen da zai iya taimaka wa mutane da gaske a cikin yanayin da ba a san shi ba kuma har ma suna faɗi wani abu mai amfani da ban sha'awa.
9. Rage wasu a cikin matsalolinsu
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Kowannenmu yana ce: "Ee, dole ne in kasance da wahala a irin waɗannan mutanen." Amma wasu suna da ikon sauƙaƙewa kuma kawai suna aiwatar da alhakin "Raba mai ɗaci" a wani mutum - tsohuwar matar, mugayen abokan aiki ko abokan aikin hassada. Amma sauran gunaguni na mutane suna hanzarta da sauri kuma mutanen da suka saurara a baya za su fara tattara su a hankali.
8. Kar a tsinke matasa masu mahimmanci
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Yanzu har ma da samari ba koyaushe suna da lokacin yin la'akari da maganganu ba, abin da za a faɗi game da mutanen tsohuwar makarantar. Amma wannan baya nufin dole ne su ba da rahoton wasu da kullun cewa qwai ba a koyar da ƙwai ba. A zamanin yau, ƙarin matasa abokan aiki suna ɗaukar matsayin masu jagoranci don tsofaffin ƙarni da kuma taimaka wa sabbin fasahohi da dabarun aikin zamani.
7. Don barin ƙura a ciki a cikin idanu
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Yana faruwa cewa wasu mutane gaba ɗaya sun rasa fuska tsakanin rayuwa ta ainihi da hoto mai haske akan hanyoyin sadarwar zamantakewa. Sun ji daɗin farin ciki da mahaifiyar farin ciki da mahaifiya ko wani mutum mai ban tsoro, amma a lokaci guda sukan manta da yin famfo kansu a lokacin sadarwa yayin sadarwa, kuma ƙayyade matsalolinsu (kuma a lokaci guda wani) Nasara na so da masu biyan kuɗi.
6. Kiyaye komai a karkashin ikon da ba
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Mutumin da yake kewaye da abin da ke kewaye da shi a zahiri ya buge, to, hakika ba sauƙin ya ƙyale su da Balaguron jirgin. Ya kudin da alama alama ba tare da ikon sarrafa danginsa ba, abokai ko abokan aikina za su juya, za a ƙaddamar da su kuma za a ƙaddamar da su a bayan gida a bayan gida. Amma wataƙila wasu lokuta har yanzu yana wajaba don yin shakata?
5. Ku tattara jita-jita da famfo duk kasusuwa
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Yayin sadarwa tare da wasu mutanen da ka ji kamar scout a yankin abokan gaba kuma kokarin kada su karya wani abu superfluous. Kawai saboda duk wata kalma mara kulawa da za a yi amfani da shi nan da nan, kuma ana fara shari'ar "lahani na" "a gaban elam. Wataƙila wannan shine dalilin da yasa yawancinmu muke ƙoƙarin guje wa tsegumi mai ƙarfi.
4. Nuna da ƙarfi, wanda ya kasance mafi kyau
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Tabbas, zaku iya yin rantsuwa da lokacin da ciyawa ta kasance, kuma matasa sun ji dattawa kuma sun taimaka wajen fassara 'yan uwana a kan hanya. Amma yaran yanzu ba su da muni fiye da waɗanda aka haife shekaru 20-30 da suka gabata. Su ne kawai wasu. Amma har yanzu suna buƙatar kulawa da kulawa, ba sa da ƙarfi da tururuwa.
3. Don manne wa wannan salon
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Eh, kowane lokaci na da fashion, amma wani lokacin da na jin cewa, wani ne masu taurin makale ko a cikin 80s, ko a cikin 90s. Kuma a nan ne Gaday - ko Nostalgia ne ga matasa da aka kashe, ko tsoron sababbi da Terry Conservatism. Tabbas kun san wasu mutane masu son bayar da yanke hukunci akan kananan gwaje-gwaje tare da bayyanar.
2. Don tafiya akan stereotypes
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Tare da taimakon hanyoyin sadarwar zamantakewa, ya fi sauƙin rataye kowane irin lakabi. Wataƙila mafi yawan su a yau shi ne sunan barkwanci "Yazem". A sakamakon haka, mata da yara sukan zama abu ne don oblique sun kalli da ba'a. Bari ma da inna a lokaci guda ke tattare da ɗan ratuceshi da kere daidai.
1. Nemi ma'aikaci na "Ofishin da ba tare da sovaits ba"
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Yarda da, babu ɗayanmu da ke son lokacin da aka fara ƙoƙarin yin wani abu "don amfaninmu." Tabbas, mutane da yawa suna da wasu 'yan mutane masu yawa, za su saurari waɗanda suke da shawarwari kuma suna iya fahimtar matsayin jagora zuwa mataki. Amma yayin da baƙi suka hau cikin rayuwarmu - ya zama ɗan akalla baƙon abu.
Ina mamakin abin da halaye masu ban haushi za su iya tura ku daga mafi kusancin mutum?