A halin yanzu, Ana bayyana masu fasahohi da yawa, masu kutse naka yana kwance ko a'a. Amma idan kun tantance shi, ya fi muhimmanci a gare mu mu gano cewa mutum ya ta'allaka (kodayake wannan rashin gaskiya gaskiyar zata iya faɗi game da mutane da yawa), amma abin da ya ɓoye. Yaya za a sa mutum ya faɗi gaskiya?
Akwai ingantattun ka'idoji da dabaru don taimakawa jin gaskiya.
Liyafar 'sharewa "
Tambayar abin da kuke so a kamata a sa shi ba zato ba tsammani, akasin wannan kewaye na tattaunawar. Don ingantaccen aiki, ana ƙirƙirar ƙungiyar tattaunawa a cikin saƙar taɗi, tare da murmushi mai laushi, ba tare da ɗan amincewar nasa ba. "UBAunny" tuhuma yana ƙara damar kwatsam. Kuma idan kuna damuwa da cewa abokin hamayya bai yi amfani da damar da za a yi shiru ba ko kuma wata hanyar da za a iya daga amsa da babbar murya (alal misali, don saita tambayar sosai da kuma sauran mutane da sha'awar amsa) , sannan babban adadin yiwuwar zai samar maka da amsar gaskiya.Liyafar "Blackmail"
Ee, Ee, wannan datti, amma liyafar aiki. Neman gaskiya daga yaron, yi masa alƙawarin a cikin mummunan yanayin don hana samun damar kwamfutar. Daga kayan aikin amintaccen miji - dare mai tsawo. Daga matar Lucavo - jinkirtawa sayayya. Kuma zuwa ga aboki, wanda kwanan nan ya ji tsoron bincika idanunku, zaku iya sabuntawar jayayya. Da sauransu Da sauransu. Yana nufin da yawa, da liyafar ta ɗaya. Babban abu shi ne cewa Blackmausar ke shafar wuraren da abokin adawa. Kuma koyaushe ya kamata ku yi "alkawuran" idan an ƙi yin magana da gaskiya. Domin lokacin na gaba ba za ku taimake ku ba kwata-kwata.
Liyafar "Na san komai"
Zai yi aiki cikakke idan amincewarku cikin zarginku tana da yawa. Idan ka yi shakka wani abu - liyafar ba zata taimaka ba, ko da ka yi gaskiya. A ce, kai mummunan aiki ne, to karfin gwiwa zai yi muku aiki - kalmomin magana da marasa magana, sautin murya, duba. "Na san komai, amma zai fi kyau idan kun gaya wa kowa da kanku!" - Wannan jimaccen lokaci yana ceton ku da abokin adawar ku. Godiya ga wannan shawarar rikici, shaidun dangi na iya samun wata muhimmiyar abota, da kuma kasuwancin abokin tarayya don kama cikin sabis na kisa.Karanta "Mai Kyau"
Inganci idan karya ba ta haifar da bala'i ko juyin juya halin duniya ba, idan arewa da Kudancin kudu ya kasance kowane wuri, kuma idan duniyar ta fito ba tukuna. Wannan dabarar daga ilimin halin dan Adam - bai bayar da shawarar azabtarwa ba "don haka kace ko a'a?". Ya kuma musanta rantsuwar, maganganun raga, yayyafa da gishirin. Amma ya kamata ka riƙi hannana irin wadannan halaye na mutane masu gaskiya da kyautatawa, sha'awar fahimtar makwali. Abokan adawar, ganin aboki a cikin ku, zai rasa yanayin goyan baya ga qarya - don me zakuyi bayanin dalilin yaudarar yaudara ne?
Karbar kudi "gaggawa" (matsanancin wari)
Yawancin lokaci yana buƙatar tallafi na tabbacin tabbaci. Gaskiya ba ta buƙatar "gaskiya" kamar ƙarya! Kuma idan a lokacin tattaunawar game da batun sha'awa a cikin ɓangaren, wani abu sabon abu ne kuma ba makawa, to gaba daya sarkar abokin hamayyarsu ta rushe. Haka kuma, tsananin rashin aure, mafi girman amsar. Abin dariya a maimakon fushi, tambaya mara amfani, wata tambaya game da lafiyar dangi (musamman idan basu sani ba kuma ba su da sha'awar tunaninsu da kuma kerawa !
Shafin shahararren sanarwa: "Muna da alhakin wadanda suka fallasa!" Don haka, abokai, yi hankali da yin gwagwarmaya don gaskiya!
Marubuci - Harry Stadt
Source - Springzhizni.ru.